sadly they believe it is the forwardness of america that does the same. there is a cultural rift here that clearly stems from deep seeded chronological differences. they are caught in a world that is blatently different than ours, trapped by lack of any forward progress of any kind because of countries like ours.
the way of countries over there is simple and warlike, much like their ancestors had to deal with, they see the world the same. much how our way is to invade and try to control things the way we believe they should be done, like our ancestors.
when england and france were racing to take over the world, in the eleventh through eighteenth century, this deep behavioral pattern of violence was already imbedded in the very essence of the land over there; after the persian, ottoman, and roman invasions (not to mention hundreds of other invaders). it has been the most turmoiled place on earth, so it is no wonder the view the world the way they do. that's the only way it's been for them since almost the dawn of civilization.
would you be much different if all you saw was a warzone when you woke up in america for the next two thousand years because of them? i'm not condolling their attack, i think it was terrible, like any murder, but that's how it is over there. death is as common to them as celebrity rehab bullshit is to us. that's why they will never see eye to eye with us, until we are willing to bend our proud neck down to the dirt and view the world through their eyes.
to put it shortly, there is no easy resolution, but a good first step would be to stop poking the bear