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Etiquette with OCSMs (aka those smoking hot girls that post on this board willingly)

Re: Etiquette with OCSMs (aka those smoking hot girls that post on this board willing

But with that said, something else I've noticed too. On one of the threads dedicated to a certain, very popular model, this guy was really going over the line, claiming that he knew her real name, knew how much plastic surgery she'd had, etc. He was a real dick - but he was the only one. Everyone else in that thread defended her, and either ignored him or beat on him. Instead of focusing on the other 99.9% who were there for her, she chose to focus on the dick (until he was finally banned). And I've noticed that she doesn't post as much as she used to. Maybe it's human nature to be more bothered by the person giving you a hard time than everyone else who is trying to support you. But I was about as annoyed by her reaction as I was by his childish behavior. Ya gotta know who your "friends" are, yeah? :dunno:

That's partly human nature, but also female model psychology.

Look at it from their perspective. Since early adulthood most of them have been told how great they look, how nice they look, blah blah blah, and other insincere compliments that come from photographers, friends, and random people.

So to them compliments are meaningless because they hear them all the time, so it's just part of the usual background noise they deal with pretty much every day.

Which is why when a guy doesn't compliment them and says something less than complimentary they notice it and in some cases get offended far more than they would if they weren't surrounded by sycophants all day.

This is also why when approaching women who are above average in looks, you never compliment their appearance, instead you use negs, or statements to show you're completely unaffected by their looks.

Which gets their attention, whereas compliments just go in one ear and out the other.
 

Rey C.

Racing is life... anything else is just waiting.
Re: Etiquette with OCSMs (aka those smoking hot girls that post on this board willing

That's partly human nature, but also female model psychology.

Look at it from their perspective. Since early adulthood most of them have been told how great they look, how nice they look, blah blah blah, and other insincere compliments that come from photographers, friends, and random people.

So to them compliments are meaningless because they hear them all the time, so it's just part of the usual background noise they deal with pretty much every day.

Which is why when a guy doesn't compliment them and says something less than complimentary they notice it and in some cases get offended far more than they would if they weren't surrounded by sycophants all day.

This is also why when approaching women who are above average in looks, you never compliment their appearance, instead you use negs, or statements to show you're completely unaffected by their looks.

Which gets their attention, whereas compliments just go in one ear and out the other.

I think you're onto something there. I would rep you, but the systems says that I have to spread the love before repping you again. :dunno:
 
Re: Etiquette with OCSMs (aka those smoking hot girls that post on this board willing

I think you're onto something there. I would rep you, but the systems says that I have to spread the love before repping you again. :dunno:

There's about a million different players' guides that advocate what he said, even use the terminology. Basically just variations on the same old saw that you compliment pretty women on their smarts and smart women on their looks - i.e. ignore what they're confident about and compliment where they're insecure.
 

Mr. Daystar

In a bell tower, watching you through cross hairs.
Re: Etiquette with OCSMs (aka those smoking hot girls that post on this board willing

I had an ocsm send me a private message, hoping female loved ones of mine, get brutally raped, because I disagreed with her about someone, and something. Nice girl huh? I sent her something back...I can't remember. I think I told her she was a whiny little something...can't remember. I don't talk to many of them anyway...it always seems if you disagree with them, some internet tough guy wants to be their knight in shining armor.
 

Shifty

O.G.
Re: Etiquette with OCSMs (aka those smoking hot girls that post on this board willing

...it always seems if you disagree with them, some internet tough guy wants to be their knight in shining armor.

Well, I always say: if you're gonna Kiss ass, Kiss porn star ass! :yesyes:
 
Re: Etiquette with OCSMs (aka those smoking hot girls that post on this board willing

I guess this is the best thread of any to apologize for my comments made about an adult model. I asked that she expose her breasts, and I got called-out for it. Soon after I made that comment, the quote above my avatar read..."I should read the forum rules". I got the message, loud and clear. I apologize, it was thoughtless, and crude.
 

Petra

Cult Mother and Simpering Cunt
Re: Etiquette with OCSMs (aka those smoking hot girls that post on this board willing

I had an ocsm send me a private message, hoping female loved ones of mine, get brutally raped, because I disagreed with her about someone, and something. Nice girl huh? I sent her something back...I can't remember. I think I told her she was a whiny little something...can't remember. I don't talk to many of them anyway...it always seems if you disagree with them, some internet tough guy wants to be their knight in shining armor.

Seriously, in this case you should have reported the PM from the OCSM.

I guess this is the best thread of any to apologize for my comments made about an adult model. I asked that she expose her breasts, and I got called-out for it. Soon after I made that comment, the quote above my avatar read..."I should read the forum rules". I got the message, loud and clear. I apologize, it was thoughtless, and crude.

I honestly don't see any problem with asking an OCSM for a picture showing breast, getting naked, are you going to ever do anal, etc,etc. But she says no, stop there. Don't incessantly whine and ask for it over and over.
 

Mr. Daystar

In a bell tower, watching you through cross hairs.
Re: Etiquette with OCSMs (aka those smoking hot girls that post on this board willing

Seriously, in this case you should have reported the PM from the OCSM.

Snitching, just isn't my style...and the fact that I KNOW, there was no real physical threat to my wife, means it ended with whatever verbal bitch slap I gave her.
 

jinxypie

Official Checked Star Member
Re: Etiquette with OCSMs (aka those smoking hot girls that post on this board willing

There's about a million different players' guides that advocate what he said, even use the terminology. Basically just variations on the same old saw that you compliment pretty women on their smarts and smart women on their looks - i.e. ignore what they're confident about and compliment where they're insecure.

What about women that are pretty and smart?
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How would you know what makes us insecure?
 

vodkazvictim

Why save the world, when you can rule it?
Re: Etiquette with OCSMs (aka those smoking hot girls that post on this board willing

What about women that are pretty and smart?
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How would you know what makes us insecure?
Are you sure you're entitled to use "us" in that sentence? :tongue:



























:iloveyou:
 

Petra

Cult Mother and Simpering Cunt
Re: Etiquette with OCSMs (aka those smoking hot girls that post on this board willing

Yeah? Well here's some love for you, too!
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Vodkaz started it.
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Careful Jinxy...he likes that. Now that you started it, it's like taking in a stray. You'll never get rid of him.
 

TheOrangeCat

AFK..being taken to the vet to get neutered.

jinxypie

Official Checked Star Member
Re: Etiquette with OCSMs (aka those smoking hot girls that post on this board willing

Careful Jinxy...he likes that. Now that you started it, it's like taking in a stray. You'll never get rid of him.

I'm learning the hard way.
Sitting outside my window all night... Constant begging... half-empty bottles of vodka lying around...

What have I done?! :facepalm:
 

bobjustbob

Proud member of FreeOnes Hall Of Fame. Retired to
Re: Etiquette with OCSMs (aka those smoking hot girls that post on this board willing

I'm learning the hard way.
Sitting outside my window all night... Constant begging... half-empty bottles of vodka lying around...

What have I done?! :facepalm:

Jinxy, Jinxy, Jinxy. The bottle is not half empty. The bottle is not half full. It's half a bottle of vodka. Finish them off and enjoy it. Make sure you have lots of ice though.

Bob
 
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Rey C.

Racing is life... anything else is just waiting.
Re: Etiquette with OCSMs (aka those smoking hot girls that post on this board willing

So what have we learned from all this? Well, we know that JinxyPie can knock out a fly with a rock at 50 yards (she's getting ready for Cubs spring training). We know that Jane Burgess will cut ya! Bree Olson owns a gun. Red XXX lists her hobbies as collecting stamps... and kicking guys in the balls. And there are unconfirmed reports that Got Gisele is the half sister of Will E Worm. In fact, Gisele and Will have never been seen at the same place at the same time so... :dunno: I'm just sayin'.

Petra's request is purely for the betterment of the board. All she's trying to get across is that people should be respectful of each other. And if you can't do that, for the love of all that's good & holy, don't mess with the girls who can chuck rocks at your head, carry knives or guns, will treat your testicles like a soccer ball... or are related to troubled individuals.

And I think Petra is also trying to say that if you just HAVE to mess with somebody, pick on one of the girls who is nice, quiet and never bothers anybody - that way less furniture gets broken and there are no nagging hospital bills to worry about. Did I nail that or what, Petra? No need to thank me. I've always got your back! :hatsoff:
 

vodkazvictim

Why save the world, when you can rule it?
Re: Etiquette with OCSMs (aka those smoking hot girls that post on this board willing

I'm learning the hard way.
Sitting outside my window all night... Constant begging... half-empty bottles of vodka lying around...

What have I done?! :facepalm:
Meow....
...Got any spare Vodka love?
 

Red XXX

Official Checked Star Member
Re: Etiquette with OCSMs (aka those smoking hot girls that post on this board willing

so what have we learned from all this? Well, we know that jinxypie can knock out a fly with a rock at 50 yards (she's getting ready for cubs spring training). We know that jane burgess will cut ya! Bree olson owns a gun. Red xxx lists her hobbies as collecting stamps... And kicking guys in the balls. And there are unconfirmed reports that got gisele is the half sister of will e worm. In fact, gisele and will have never been seen at the same place at the same time so... :dunno: I'm just sayin'.

Petra's request is purely for the betterment of the board. All she's trying to get across is that people should be respectful of each other. And if you can't do that, for the love of all that's good & holy, don't mess with the girls who can chuck rocks at your head, carry knives or guns, will treat your testicles like a soccer ball... Or are related to troubled individuals.

And i think petra is also trying to say that if you just have to mess with somebody, pick on one of the girls who is nice, quiet and never bothers anybody - that way less furniture gets broken and there are no nagging hospital bills to worry about. Did i nail that or what, petra? No need to thank me. I've always got your back! :hatsoff:
Stamps!
 

Rey C.

Racing is life... anything else is just waiting.
Re: Etiquette with OCSMs (aka those smoking hot girls that post on this board willing


Maybe I got that turned around. Maybe you said you collected balls and kicked stamps? :confused:

But I still think you and Masie (from PimpedNutz) are two sexy lil femdoms! :D
 
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