Re: Gorgeous Taylor Steven's Transformation from BBW to Slim waisted busty glamour gi
Good luck TS.
You can beat it!
Good luck TS.
You can beat it!
She looks alot better now
Sorry I'm coming late to this thread...
My far better half found out in July that she had breast cancer. She did great recovering from surgery, made it through chemo with hardly any issues, and is now mostly finished with radiation.
I'd like to offer some thoughts:
1. A diagnosis of cancer, especially caught early, is NOT a death sentence. Doctors are not going to recommend chemo and radiation unless they're pretty darn sure of a positive outcome.
2. Make sure you have a good support person - friend, family member - who can be there with/for you. It's tough to do this alone. Don't try it.
3. As someone else mentioned, don't listen to others' horror stories. Your cancer journey will be yours alone. Don't dwell on what MIGHT happen. Keep the goal recovery in mind.
4. Listen to the doctors and nurses and follow all their instructions. (Common sense, I know, but still... )
5. Keep working as much as possible, or volunteering - something to keep yourself busy and useful. You DON'T want to sit around at home, getting more and more depressed. You'll find one of the things you'll really crave is to be "normal." And you'll want people to treat you normally. Keeping busy will help tremendously with that.
6. "Positive thinking" may sound trite - but it really works! You'll feel better, plus I believe the mind is a powerful tool in the recovery.
The downsides:
1. People WILL treat you differently, almost as if you were so fragile You Might break. Speak up and let them know how you'd like to be treated. People aren't trying to be unhelpful - they honestly don't know how to react.
2. Chemo usually does cause hair loss. Plan ahead. My better half got a wig ahead of time (before the chemo started) that was similar to her own hair and then had her hairdresser style it for her. Just tell yourself that this will be temporary and, in any event, it beats the hell out of having cancer!
You seem like a very sweet and genuine person, but sometimes bad things do happen to good people. But you also a very determined woman, as shown in your unbelievable physical transformation. Use this determination to keep yourself always looking ahead and you WILL beat this!
I hope I haven't gone on too much here, but I felt the need to write as soon as I read what you wrote. Please feel free to PM me, if you wish.
Best of luck, Taylor.
Zoltan
Tay please think twice about...
WTC7WasPulled said:eat healthy and get sunshine or vitamin D via tanning bed and drinking clean water, you will get rid of this cancer.
be strong and keep faith tay. We are all with you :kiss: :georges: godspeed
ztrpt1 said:Hi Tay,
So good to hear from you! It sounds like you're doing well so far. Best of luck with everything coming up! Just keep in mind that you WILL get through it all and it WILL end.
Hang in there, beautiful lady, and know that plenty of prayers and good thoughts are heading your way.
My best,
Z