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Why do Men Cheat

When I first started in this industry, I was so naive. I thought "escorts" were something you would find on Cinemax After Dark. More shocking to learn was the high number of married men who pay for sex with escorts/providers.

Over the years, so many men have indicated that they truly "love" their beatuiful wife - yet, while at the same time handing me $300 per hour to rock their socks off in the sack. It was a hard sell for me to accpet that a man can "love" a woman and yet seek to have sex with other women- paying alot of money for the sex no less.

Some justify the extra-marital affiars on poor health of thier spouse/partner; some say their wives simply do not provide certain sexual services (mainly a good BJ)

Im interested in hearing opinions on this subject. Can a man be faithful to one woman?
Do those of you who are cheating - would you be ok wth your SO doing the same? xoxoxo

Here is probably the number one reason. I still don't understand. What the FUCK is the big deal about a blowjob?! WHY is it so often a no go?! My ex...I had to have her watch porn with me, so she could see, and learn, simply HOW to do it...look, if I'm willing, and I am, to go down and slurp on your pussy for ten to fucking fifteen minutes, and when I'm done, my face looks like a glazed doughnut, and you STILL are sheepish about returning the favor...what...the...fuck...is it really THAT big of a deal?!

I think this is the main reason guys look elsewhere. It's just a dick. Stick it in your mouth, bob your head, swirl your tongue around, and suck. Not that hard. What the fuck.
 

PlasmaTwa2

The Second-Hottest Man in my Mother's Basement

Will E Worm

Conspiracy...
People who cheat are losers who can't control themselves.

There should be adultery laws. Send them to the electric chair! :elaugh:
 

Alyssa Rose

Official Checked Star Member
I pretty much agree with this. If you don't want to be monogamous, then don't get into a "monogamous" relationship with someone. Just play the field. Once you commit, you should remain committed. If you change your mind, then end shit before fucking others. Its not exactly rocket science.

This^^ 100%

If you want to fuck every girl you see, then by all means do it, but you can't have your cake and eat it too. Don't initiate a relationship if you plan on cheating on the poor girl (same goes for girls to guys) It's just wrong. I've always told my boyfriends that I would respect them a helluva lot more if they came to me BEFORE they cheated and broke up with me rather than just fucking some girl while we're together. (Not that that ever stopped them but ya know, at least I tried :dunno: )
 
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ApolloBalboa

Was King of the Board for a Day
[B][URL="https://www.freeones.com/harley-spencer said:
Harley Spencer[/URL][/B], post: 6592756, member: 579739"]Exactly.

Absolutely ridiculous. I can't respect anyone that talks about themselves in the third person.

I take it you're not a fan of Disco Stu then?
 

SabrinaDeep

Official Checked Star Member
Girls i love you and it breaks my hurt to do this, but come on: post an "I'm better than men" if you have never ever cheated on your partner in your life. And yeah cheating on one that you have decided to leave one week later counts for cheating.
It's funny how we fought throughout all the 60's and 70's to gain the right to cheat and now that we do have it, we are ashame to say that we cheat like men, like it has always been. Some cheat, some don't and gender has really nothing to do with it.

World population is
49.65% female
50.35% male

If you want to believe that men cheat on their partners only with single women, go ahead, but chances are that for a man cheating there is a woman cheating. Oh, and if it was like you say, then we should be ashame to lead the stats for ruining families (single woman fucking a married man, eventually with kids).
 

Ari Dee

Official Checked Star Member
Cheating is absolutely repugnant to me.

If you need to fuck someone else that badly, find someone who doesn't mind being in a poly relationship, whether it's physically only or not.

I've never cheated in my life, and to my knowledge, I've never been cheated on.
When it comes down to it not cheating isn't just about sexual desire or whether you love the person, it's about RESPECT.
 

Will E Worm

Conspiracy...
I'd rep you but you are for the death penalty...

Come on now, compromise a little. ;)

It is funny how your ideas coincide greatly with those pesky Islamist you seem to despise so much. I'm just saying.

No, they want to kill if you do not convert to Islam. I wouldn't kill anyone for not being a Christian.
It was mainly a joke.

There should at least be a site where people could post a profile with pictures of cheaters.

That would be great.
 

Rey C.

Racing is life... anything else is just waiting.
Whether it's a man or woman, I've always seen cheating as being about dishonesty and selfishness. Even though you've claimed to love and honor someone, for your own selfish pleasure, you'd be willing to lie to get what you want: a quick, cheap thrill. I probably have a lot of bad character traits (OK, there's no "probably" about it). But I try to be a pretty honest person. And although I might unintentionally hurt someone, it would give me no pleasure to do something to hurt the person who I have claimed that I loved.

As for "open relationships", I see those as completely different animals. They're like other alternative lifestyles and relationships. IMO, what two consenting adults get involved in is their own business. But at least they're both on the same page, whether it's a BDSM relationship or an open marriage. It's when you sneak around behind someone's back that I think you're a lowlife (applies to women just as much as men).

Over the years I've traveled a fair amount on business. And I've always been kind of shocked by how many married or involved women will make themselves available to the "out of towner". And the worst ones are the ones who try to hide the fact that they're married and have kids! To blow up your entire family life, for a hotel quickie, is pretty fucked up, IMO.

I've never cheated in a relationship and I never will. I could tomorrow after noon, if I wanted to. And the fact that a girl, who I thought of as just a (overly) friendly pal, wants to take it to the next level has just made me lose a LOT of respect for her. She has a live-in fiancé and a child! So I've gone from thinking that she was a together person to now thinking that she's dishonest and not to be trusted (by her fiancé, me or anyone else). I liked her (as a friend), so that really bothers me.
 
Which makes it an opinion.

Yo! Wolf Guy, no one asked your co-signin ass anythin!

Don't you got a tree to go piss on or sumthing?:stfu:


[B][URL="https://www.freeones.com/harley-spencer said:
Harley Spencer[/URL][/B], post: 6592756, member: 579739"]Exactly.

Absolutely ridiculous. I can't respect anyone that talks about themselves in the third person.

Zolf didnt remember asking for your fuckin respect either

So, um, yeah....toodles:dickhead:
 

Alyssa Rose

Official Checked Star Member
Girls i love you and it breaks my hurt to do this, but come on: post an "I'm better than men" if you have never ever cheated on your partner in your life. And yeah cheating on one that you have decided to leave one week later counts for cheating.
It's funny how we fought throughout all the 60's and 70's to gain the right to cheat and now that we do have it, we are ashame to say that we cheat like men, like it has always been. Some cheat, some don't and gender has really nothing to do with it.

World population is
49.65% female
50.35% male

If you want to believe that men cheat on their partners only with single women, go ahead, but chances are that for a man cheating there is a woman cheating. Oh, and if it was like you say, then we should be ashame to lead the stats for ruining families (single woman fucking a married man, eventually with kids).


Not all women cheat and not all men cheat, and I highly doubt that women in the 60's and 70's were fighting for the right to cheat on men, its more likely that they were fighting for the right to LEAVE men who cheat, or for the right to be socially accepted if they choose to be alone rather than with a cheater.

Cheating is absolutely repugnant to me.

If you need to fuck someone else that badly, find someone who doesn't mind being in a poly relationship, whether it's physically only or not.

I've never cheated in my life, and to my knowledge, I've never been cheated on.
When it comes down to it not cheating isn't just about sexual desire or whether you love the person, it's about RESPECT.

I agree 100%
Cheating is not about your sexual satisfaction, it's about respect and whether or not you actually love the person that you cheat on.. It's really just about wanting the power to be able to think that you're getting away with having 2 people want you.

Whether it's a man or woman, I've always seen cheating as being about dishonesty and selfishness. Even though you've claimed to love and honor someone, for your own selfish pleasure, you'd be willing to lie to get what you want: a quick, cheap thrill. I probably have a lot of bad character traits (OK, there's no "probably" about it). But I try to be a pretty honest person. And although I might unintentionally hurt someone, it would give me no pleasure to do something to hurt the person who I have claimed that I loved.

As for "open relationships", I see those as completely different animals. They're like other alternative lifestyles and relationships. IMO, what two consenting adults get involved in is their own business. But at least they're both on the same page, whether it's a BDSM relationship or an open marriage. It's when you sneak around behind someone's back that I think you're a lowlife (applies to women just as much as men).

Over the years I've traveled a fair amount on business. And I've always been kind of shocked by how many married or involved women will make themselves available to the "out of towner". And the worst ones are the ones who try to hide the fact that they're married and have kids! To blow up your entire family life, for a hotel quickie, is pretty fucked up, IMO.

I've never cheated in a relationship and I never will. I could tomorrow after noon, if I wanted to. And the fact that a girl, who I thought of as just a (overly) friendly pal, wants to take it to the next level has just made me lose a LOT of respect for her. She has a live-in fiancé and a child! So I've gone from thinking that she was a together person to now thinking that she's dishonest and not to be trusted (by her fiancé, me or anyone else). I liked her (as a friend), so that really bothers me.


You are SO right! Cheating is a very selfish thing, when you enter into a monogamous relationship you are saying that you're ready to put someone else's trust and heart in your hands.. If you cheat on them you're making a conscious decision to lose that trust.

I lose respect for people VERY quickly when they talk about how they have or how they would cheat on someone.. Even the girls I know who fuck married men, it makes me sick.
 
...Dare I say women cheat more than men do

They lie more too

This is a fact!

Men lie more frequently, women tell the bigger lies.

A man's lie: "I was at Kenny's house."

A woman's lie: "Its your baby."

To quote Chris Rock:
You got on heels, you ain't that tall.
You got on makeup, your face don't look like that.
You got a weave, your hair ain't that long.
You got a Wonderbra on, your titties ain't that big.
Everything about you is a lie, and you expect me to tell the truth? Fuck you!


These acts range from suckin on Zolf's big nuts to taking it up the brown eye

So I figures, if she ain't gonna do it, someone else will.

And thats that!

lol
 
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