Read this...
http://www.americanvegan.org/vegan.htm
I just find this part to be funny though:
Ethical relationship? You mean the kinds of ethics we used when we decided to destroy hundreds and thousands of animals' homes to build houses, apartment buildings, condos, roads and mini malls? All of which are things that vegans willingly utilize? In fact, I'm willing to be that a lot of vegans are looking at this website while they're sitting in a Starbucks, so they can utilize their free WiFi connection. This is about ethics? No. It's a personal choice, but let's not bring ethics into this.
If veganism was about ethics, than vegans would be living in straw huts in the middle of nowhere, so they could be as far away from animal life as possible, doing their best to live peacefully with the animals. Instead, they all live just like us. And, no matter how vegan people think they're being, they're still contributing to the destruction of animals and their habitats.
For instance...
http://www.ofac.org/issues/animals_everyday.php
Or is the act of avoiding all of those things just unreasonable to vegans? :dunno: I don't get it.