Just have fun and make sure you ask for what you want: if you want a blowjob, as for a blowjob, if you want to fuck her missionary, ask her, if you want her to wear platform heels, as her. How did you find her?
Im losing my virginity next week and seek advice
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It's threads like this one that reaffirm my love for FreeOnes.
Couldn't've said so better myself. :thumbsup:
I found her on an escort website, search for jessica james escort on google if you want to see her.
Some good solid advice given to you here.
It would be nice to know beforehand if she offers a "money back guarantee." Once your virginity is gone, it's gone. Unless of course if you can get a refund, then you can go elsewhere and shop around a bit before losing your virginity all over again.
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Don't fall in love.
JayJohn85
Banned
Actually I am going to say something sensible now......Dude catch yourself on if you dont make a effort to pull a woman normally now. How the fuck are you going to do it later? And asking for advice here? lulz. I havent been laid in a year but then again I havent really tried but thats neither here nor there. Do it with a girl the old fashioned way going to a escort at this age is promoting bad habits, Sorry if I sound a prude and a killjoy but fuck man I dont have anything against a weekend in Amsterdam but actually losing your virginity to one is not healthy...
PlasmaTwa2
The Second-Hottest Man in my Mother's Basement
Yeah, but masturbating causes blindness, so it's not exactly healthy either. flylicker
Your first time should be something special, not something you do with a call girl. In my opinion it's the same as girls who claim that they're losing their virginity on film to a male pornstar. You really should do it with someone that you care about and not with someone who isn't even gonna remember you in a week. I'm not saying you should stay away from escorts altogether, as that would be extremely hypocritical for me to say that, I'm just saying that you should do it with someone that cares about you. Sex is like fishing: a big part of the experience is the catch. Paying an escort is like buying a fish at the store and taking a picture with it dangling at the end of some nylon line. :2 cents:
JayJohn85
Banned
^ Yea all that but it wasnt necessarily even my point. My point was that if you screw a escort as your first fuck you just socially fuck yourself as in you dont have a relationship or approach a girl naturally and make it work the way these things normally work. Escorts and shit all fine and dandy when you and the lads are away on some mad razzle but starting on that just gives me the impression you would be hooked on that shit. Be kinda sad paying for your sex, Man girls like attractive guys but it isnt the only thing that has pulling power. We are in fact fortunate that women arent as shallow as blokes.
Confidence bluff it if you dont have it, learn how to do this without looking cocky, nothing makes a woman wetter. They are like predators too they can spot a guy lacking confidence a mile of. A good tactic with this is actually dancing lulz.
I understand your point. Starting out with an escort instead of with a normal girl will give him a false perception of what women and sex are like. I was gonna say that it's kind of like eating desert before a meal, but that's not exactly what I'm thinking. I'm thinking more along the lines of thinking that cheesecake and pumpkin pie are the meal, and not being able to enjoy meat and potatoes afterward because he's already had desert.
Peashooter
Closed Account
Do not eat her out, bring plenty of condoms and KY, and make sure everything is trimmed up (I do mean on you, not her). The first time I had sex, I didn't cum right away, but I had received a few blowjobs before that. She might not be very tight, so that will work to your advantage. Don't be shy and afraid to ask what she likes, but don't keep asking if you're doing it right. Most of all, be safe and have fun.
Alanna Thomas
Official Checked Star Member
As someone who has de-virginized a few guys, I'll offer this advice: knowing a guy is a virgin adds some pressure to the female (at least for me - I don't escort, so maybe I care more than I should?!)
Be well-groomed. No woman likes a stinky penis.
Be respectful. Unless you're paying for a sub, don't treat her like one.
Since you're paying an escort, you really don't have to worry so much about getting her off. If you want to go down on her for practice, fine (no comment for those who say don't go down on escort).
If you're really not sure what you're doing (and my guess is you've watched enough porn to know what to do), let her take the lead. Ask her to take the lead, in fact.
Relax, it's just sex. It'll be the first of a few thousand times in your life you do it, so don't be so tense that that's all you remember...
Have fun!
Be well-groomed. No woman likes a stinky penis.
Be respectful. Unless you're paying for a sub, don't treat her like one.
Since you're paying an escort, you really don't have to worry so much about getting her off. If you want to go down on her for practice, fine (no comment for those who say don't go down on escort).
If you're really not sure what you're doing (and my guess is you've watched enough porn to know what to do), let her take the lead. Ask her to take the lead, in fact.
Relax, it's just sex. It'll be the first of a few thousand times in your life you do it, so don't be so tense that that's all you remember...
Have fun!
SpexyAshleigh
Official Checked Star Member
I actually kind of want to agree with this. Escorts are there to give you what you want- their job is to fullfill your fantasies. If your first time is with an escort, and she makes it the best experience ever ...what the hell are you going to think when you eventually get into a relationship with a girl and have normal, vanilla sex? I mean, everyone who loses their v-card the old fashioned way gets to look forward to what the future holds for their sex life because the sex ALWAYS gets better as time goes on. But you're doing things backwards...your future sex is going to have to compare to your first time being with a PROFESSIONAL? Seriously...think this through.
And from a females perspective, if I found out that a guy I was dating lost his virginity to a hooker, I'd be so turned off by that that the relationship would be over. Its kind of a deal breaker for most normal women...knowing a guy paid for sex at ALL is kind of gross. Shows that the guy is either icky, or he is too lame to get sex the real way. I'm assuming you're young, so please keep in mind that anything you do today, might and probably will affect what happens to you in the future. Your first time you can't get back...you don't want to look back on it and regret not doing it the real way, with someone you care about or at least know. :2 cents: My first time was awful and painful but I can look back on it and know that I at least got to give something special to a guy who I loved and who loved me back. Makes me feel at peace with the way I gave up my vcard.
