It only needs caring and attention, but there's no need what so ever to get it perfectly right all th time.Sometimes it's ok but not all the time.
Men like it better wet or wild. As it is in the picture actually.
And that is why you got so many good and nice comments on it.
Well, that depends on the kind of hair you have. You know it better then anyone else, but I know I could eat my wife when she come out of the shower and don't do anything to he hair before it's dry. But then again, she doens't face the problem that it goes frizzy, even tough (and you saw it already) it's very long, all they way down lover then her butt.And if I don't do anything with it before it dries it ends up going all frizzy and horrible!