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totally addicted to porn - HOW DO I STOP!!

You're asking the wrong folks. I do what I do because it feels good! If I wanted to stop I probably could, but I don't see why.

The tiredness could be a chemical thing.

If you really want to stop... you could start finding some creepy, weird, disgusting things to jack off to. Find some hot guy on guy on guy action, or watch the discovery channel =S
 
be_carebul's advice was very good. I tried the 'installing software' but I knew the password and it even added to the excitement of being able to view it but having a password on. So that didn't work. But giving friends the combination etc will make you frankly not arsed to have to bother ringing them up, gettin the key, coming home etc. It seriously is like smoking. once you get passed the first week of none at all, you find you can easily compensate. You jerk off to less hardcore stuff, tv chat show hosts, lingerie catalogues and find new ways to appreciate women. And lets face it, after grueling weeks of not much at all you will probably be lookin for real sex. The problem isnt you. The problem is the accessibilty and ease of the material to satisfy your natural desires. - Good luck mate, try gettin into sports too, I took up badminton and I was too knackered to do anything after getting home from work and that.
 
Buy the goriest horror movie you can find on DVD. I'm talking lots of disgusting images. When you get the urge to masturbate, watch the horror movie instead. Skip to the most disgusting parts. Watch it over again if you have to. If your still in the mood after seeing blood and killings and dismemberment you've got a serious problem. Try it, this worked for me.
 
To be honest this site feeds my porn addiction (it would feed any porn addiction... )
I'd call myself a porn-lover instead of a porn addicted though 'cause I select what I download.
It's a matter of priority, I stop thinking about pornstars since I have something more important to deal with. Sometimes we must create by ourselves our priorities in life.
 
hey guys,

I work from home, and have a huge problem... I have been addicted to watching porn for the last 3-4yrs, I have tried many times to stop.... but it is just an addiction which I cannot get rid of.

As you know it can be really distracting, especially when you work from home, and probably wastes 2hrs of my day.... but the worst part is that everytime i watch porn i wank and blow, and after i blow i get really tired and can't do any work for the rest of the day.... (it just kills my entire day)

I have tried many ways to stop my addiction, (i have even promised myself that the next time i watch porn i am going to throw $200 in the bin... i did this but the habit still didn't go away)....

This has been my daily routine for the past 4yrs
8:30am - get up and start work
11am (approx) - my brain starts thinking about pornstars and i start watching porn....
1pm - by this time i have watched many small video clips of porn and have blown my load (as soon as i have blown, i start to feel really drained and extremelly tired and cant do anything for the rest of the day....)

If anybody could please help me overcome this problem i would be extremelly gratefull.... it is destroying my life.... but the worst thing is i am always feeling really tired and fustrated....:(

cheers.

I've thought about this a little bit too, lately. If I gotta get a nut off (usually do after having wood and waking up to morning wood) just get the nut, right away. It's easy to go on the net and just surf, and before you know it, you've been surfing for 2 hours. This has happened to me pleanty of times. My advice is if you have to get one off, do it right away, and you will have less urge.

IMO If you stop your addiction to porn, you will just reapply your compulsion to something else.

I know that there are some people that think that addictions are weaknesses, and claim not to have any, but in my experience, everyone has addictions.

I've always felt that way. I'm addicted to drinking too much (it runs in my family) but I have been off the bottle for long periods of time, if/when I put the effort in. Then I realize that for the most part, everyone is addicted to something. The key is being addicted to something productive or good. My dad's addicted to food (overwheight); my mom's addicted to religion; other family members are addicted to booze. There's all kind of addictions...you can even be a health-nut or be addicted to work. :dunno: Porn is just another thing that can be an addiction. Moderation is the key.
 
Find a hobby that takes a lot of time to do. If you really like it you won't even think of porn for the time spent on the hobby.
 

lone gunman

Closed Account
This problem that he`s talking about is not a joke.I just don`t understand how he feels tired and run down from 2 hours.I never had a problem when watching pics and I browse through galleries for about an hour every night before sleep.That relaxes me nicely.But DVD-s are a different story.I had a tough time cutting down my movie watching to what I do now.I now watch them maybe every 10 days and I only watch 1-2 movies and take my time.It only takes me like 2-3 hours.Afterwards I feel fine.Howewer,I used to watch 5 or 6 long,gonzo type DVD-s in a day(every couple of days though) and it would take a MINIMUM of 5 hours,usually around 7 and sometimes lasting 10 fucking hours!One hellish day I did it for 14!!!!!!!!!!I can`t tell you how horrible it makes you feel!It literally feels like you`ve beaten with a baseball bat and kicked in the balls.I`ve never felt so bad in my life and I`ve been in some ugly situations before.One good thing is that I`ve been lifting weights and bodybuilding recreatively but regularly for four years and on those days that I wanked for like 7 hours I couldn`t even think of training or eating well so it was very much destroying my progress.I simply realized that it had to be stoped so I increased my training and and switched to watching pics and clips before bed!As simple as that!Sports is the key for cutting down such habbits.Lift weights or do some serious cardio for an hour every or every other day and i guarantee you`ll cut down or stop your porn!It`s not so hard,thank god it`s not heroin or meth.
 

Jagger69

Three lullabies in an ancient tongue
All this advice about getting a girlfriend or taking a walk or just repeating mantras is utter bullshit. Pornography addiction is like being a crackhead and you have no control over it. Believe me, I'm one of the oldest dudes on this board (by the results of one such poll at least) and I know what I am am talking about. I have been seriously into porn ever since I was a 10 year-old kid and saw my first Playboy. You have to treat it like the addiction it is and seek professional help if you truly want to quit.
 

BNF

Ex-SuperMod
All this advice about getting a girlfriend or taking a walk or just repeating mantras is utter bullshit. Pornography addiction is like being a crackhead and you have no control over it. Believe me, I'm one of the oldest dudes on this board (by the results of one such poll at least) and I know what I am am talking about. I have been seriously into porn ever since I was a 10 year-old kid and saw my first Playboy. You have to treat it like the addiction it is and seek professional help if you truly want to quit.

That's true to a point. Except drug addiction is at least as much a craving for the chemicals as it is a mental addiction.

I don't think that porn is (as) a chemical addiction, though some may be hooked on the possible endorphine release.
 
I'm one of the oldest dudes on this board (by the results of one such poll at least) and I know what I am am talking about. I have been seriously into porn ever since I was a 10 year-old kid and saw my first Playboy

Ever wondered how many cities you could've flooded if there was a way to collect all the jizz you milked for so many years?

Just crossed my mind... lol =]
 
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