The Hipocracy Of This Site's Many Members

[senob44]

Oddly enough, for me, much of the time the same girls that do kinky stuff I would often rather see do ordinary stuff instead -naked artsy- or even clothed.

Very much so for me as well.

You are not hypocritical.
I think you have a good point. A woman should be treated right.
But perhaps how to treat a girl right is not always so simple.

Does it count as abuse if the girl wants it or requests it? If it is consensual? If it is art? If she's enjoying herself?
Let's say she likes bondage or gagging on cock. Is that abuse?

What if you weren't married and Isobel Wren or Dixie Dash (who both like bondage) asked you to tie them up to have sex with them? Would you be so turned off that you couldn't do it? If you did would there be something wrong with you? With them?

Well, if I was with a girl who wanted to be tied up and have sex, I would surely do that, and I have done that before. I feel that is below the line that should not be crossed. The key for me is the consent. I think consent when the girl is getting nothing in return is a lot different from consent when she's doing it for money. In the first case, you have a reasonable expectation that the girl is enjoying herself during the proceedings, but in the second case you have no such thing. That's part of my problem with abuse porn.

In either case, I believe the line that can not be crossed is with hitting and beating. (and also spitting on anywhere other than the ass or pussy) I could not bring myself to hit a woman regardless of whether she says she wants it or not. A little spank, something that wouldn't leave a mark, I would do. Anything beyond that I feel is unacceptable. Anything beyond that, I would feel that there is something wrong with the man that could do that or watch that and also with the woman who would request that.

 

[Facetious]

Why is it that whenever a member posts a thread looking for a niche that is somewhat off centre, such as throat fucking or terror of terrors, he who must not be named- max hardcore, then they get shot down as an ambominable pervert, who should ne taken to the nearest wall and shot against it? Its the double standards that i cannot stand.

Forgive me for not following the thread. I haven't read past the 25th or so post so this entry prolly, in all likelihood is stale and irrelevant. :dunno:

Anyway, back to the top -
Have you ever considered that it might be your delivery ? I mean . . there are ways that you can ask the question without looking like you're on the hunt for a reaction. Trolls are famous for this.

Try asking your questions with tack, genuineness and sincereity. :dunno:
It goes a x l o n g x way

Or act like a dope half of the time like me and get back exactly what you give . . and more ! :jester:

 

[Petra]

Ok, I'm going to shut down this thread.

While it's stayed very civil (I'm surprised actually), it's getting to the point of crossing the line for this board. So with that being said:

In my view, this board and Freeones in general caters to the more mainstream porn crowd so there will be more mainstream opinions on the harder and kinkier stuff. There is plenty out on the net about the psychology behind men and women that like seeing this type of stuff as well as participating in this type of stuff. Google is your friend.