Misconceptions About Porn Stars

[himperv203]

IN THE WOOORRLLLDDD, muahahahaha!

:tongue: I'm a weirdo actually. I rarely have sex with others outside industry. Maybe 5-6x out the year? Mostly for health.

Why only pornstars? isnt everybody horny 24/7?

 

[Donkey Boy]

FO guys, questions? Ask.

Guys do have to be able to keep it up for prolonged amounts of time, they do have to perform around crew (or even OTHER male talent). And just the other day I watched a DP scene go on for 20 extra minutes because the director wanted both the male talent to pop... simultaneously.

Usually, if a guy pops too early then everyone has to hang around and wait for him to get going again and pop again.

I think it's awesome you came on here to clear up some misconceptions and answer questions.

I've got some questions about what I quoted above.

I think a lot of guys (and girls) who watch porn get an unreal expectation by how long male pornstars appear to last in films and there is a misconception that a guy has a special talent to be able to "fuck like a pornstar." I don't doubt some guys do have extraordinary stamina, but I am more apt to believe most are about average when it comes down to it. And just to be clear, I'm not talking about maintaining an erection here, but specifically controlling ejaculation.

In reality, or in your experience, how often does what you mention above (early pop) happen?

How much start/stop occurs in the course of shooting that allows the guy's arousal to wane?

Are desensitizing agents used with any frequency?

How much "pre-jerk" occurs? In other words, do most guys rub one (or more) out before starting a scene or do you guys just some time "fuck it out" real quick before getting down to shooting?

I know from personal experience that usually my first climax will come sooner than later ones in a multi-fuck session. And in fact, in later sessions I actually have to thrust harder and faster to maintain an erection and achieve climax at all while in earlier sessions a slower screw can do the job.

 

[Jane Burgess]

I'd marry Jane and Kimora, Bree, Sparky, Isobel, ...and I'll wait for the divorce, Vicky and Chica...!
I love a women with money, who'll support me in a style I am ready to become accustomed to...and looks so fine I'd do her several times a day...
If you're poor, we'll just be good friends!
I live my life like Mungo Jerry's song In the Summertime...:thumbsup:
So...Jane...when ya quit laughing and can type on the keyboard...tell me we're still friends!:rofl:

Truth...I love ya all, and I've never had a problem with loving a classy woman.
Job optional...

You know we are still friends. I can take care of you.

 

[abejarano12]

It's unfair to label anyone, I can't even imagine all the shit pornstars get for choosing this profession. It kind of pisses me off when people get on their fucking high horses and judge someone based on what they do for a living. Who the hell am I to judge? To say that I enjoy watching pretty girls fuck and then out of the otherside of mouth say that I disapprove for whatever reasons would make me a hypocrate.
I don't care what the fuck you do to pay the bills, I'll come at you and be real and ask you what's life is like for you. In the end all of us are just trying to make our lives work out the best way we as individuals know how.:2 cents:

Fuckin A, its no one damn business what a person job is as long as it doesn't hurt anyone.

 

[KimoraKlein]

#4 is easy. Whatever reason most of them say they do it for in the end for about 99% of them it comes down to money.

"Most of them", huh? Can I see your statistics on the percentage categorized as "most"? Let's sit down so I can hear you talk about what I want.

Also, saying pornstars might be safer than a random chick at a bar as far as STDs go is damning with faint praise. AIM isn't anything to write home about either.

What the hell does that mean? Whatever, no one's stopping you from sticking your dick in something.

 

[KimoraKlein]

I think it's awesome you came on here to clear up some misconceptions and answer questions.

I've got some questions about what I quoted above.

I think a lot of guys (and girls) who watch porn get an unreal expectation by how long male pornstars appear to last in films and there is a misconception that a guy has a special talent to be able to "fuck like a pornstar." I don't doubt some guys do have extraordinary stamina, but I am more apt to believe most are about average when it comes down to it. And just to be clear, I'm not talking about maintaining an erection here, but specifically controlling ejaculation.

In reality, or in your experience, how often does what you mention above (early pop) happen?

How much start/stop occurs in the course of shooting that allows the guy's arousal to wane?

Are desensitizing agents used with any frequency?

How much "pre-jerk" occurs? In other words, do most guys rub one (or more) out before starting a scene or do you guys just some time "fuck it out" real quick before getting down to shooting?

I know from personal experience that usually my first climax will come sooner than later ones in a multi-fuck session. And in fact, in later sessions I actually have to thrust harder and faster to maintain an erection and achieve climax at all while in earlier sessions a slower screw can do the job.

In my little over a year in the business (and not ALL my work being listed in my FO links, I've done more) -- an early pop has only happened once. And that guy was a newbie.

As for starting and stopping, it depends on the director. Some of them just shoot all the way through without stopping, some of them cut a lot.

I have never worked with or heard of anyone using desensitizing stuff in my career.

Rub one out before starting a scene? Seems like that would be a waste of a big pop. I've noticed guys usually trying to "save" themselves as much as possible for a scene.

 

[KimoraKlein]

Unless you are involved you don't know shit.:2 cents:

:bowdown:
SMARTEST REPLY YET.

I fucking hate when people try to tell me about my life, and my career.

 

[JacknCoke]

Go get em Kimora,

For real though great first post for the ones who don't understand. You have had plenty of support via other OCSM's so the questioning from FO members is pretty BS. Keep on keepin' on! Hope your career leads you great places! I'm glad we have members like you Sparky and Bree so come in a talk with us and answer questions once and a while. Keep up the good work!

 

[StanScratch]

Other misconceptions I seem to hear a lot are:

All porn stars are involved in a lot of drugs. Truth is, I would think heavy drug use would actually hurt performance. Same goes for excessive alcohol use.

It's a 24/7 party in the porn world. I see a lot of relatively early morning posting here by many of the ladies - I think it would be difficult to make a coherent post after clubbing an entire night, right? Besides, I am sure there is a lot more work that goes on behind the scenes that can be pretty grueling that we never see (makeup, photo shoots - you try holding that remarkably uncomfortable pose for more than 20 seconds, and a bunch of other little behind the scenes stuff I would be completely ignorant about).
And, off work, I am sure most actually lead rather boring, normal lives. Hey, they are simply people, after all.

All porn stars fake it. I've seen quite a few ladies in today's scenes and in the past who obviously enjoy their work quite a bit. Kinda goes along with the legend that "too much fucking makes your pussy so raw, you can't feel anything".

 

[GuidoCA]

In his TV show No Reservations, Anthony Bourdain has sat down to meals with people from all sorts of walks of life in all sorts of cultures all over the world. This has included tribespeople living deep in the hearts of jungles to those rich enough to use helicopters to avoid street traffic. But no matter who it is, when you get down to something as simple as enjoying food with friends and family, people everywhere are the same. And, of course, the same is true of porn stars. They're due the same consideration and respect as anyone else in this world. (Ok, I'm a foodie and had to work a food angle into this discussion. Kimora, don't attempt to watch this show. You would really dislike some of the scenes of meal preparation. :tongue

Guido

 

[ChefChiTown]

3. Escorting is a separate decision.
I know a lotttttt of porn starlets that do escorting/hooking/prostitution/what have you on the side. Nowhere does it say it is a requirement to make yourself available to the public. That's completely a choice, along with rates for whatever offered. They say "every girl has her price". I have very strong views on this, but again, it's an outlet that they've chosen and I don't interfere with others' decisions.

Great thread Kimora. I am always asked about escorting. I think I seriously say 100 times in a day that I am not an escort.

Can I ask a serious question? Neither of you are the first pornstar to ever voice their opinion on escorting, but it has always intrigued me to know why female pornstars sometimes almost get offended by the assumption that they do escorting as well. I'm not saying that either of you are offended, or anywhere close to being offended, but you two post quite regularly here, so I thought I'd ask...

What is the difference between being an escort and being a pornstar?

In both situations, you are getting paid money to have sex with somebody. Whether that person is a complete stranger or somebody that works in the adult film industry, you are still getting paid to do the same exact thing. So, why is it that some female pornstars act as if they are sooooo different from one another?

 

[KimoraKlein]

Other misconceptions I seem to hear a lot are:

All porn stars are involved in a lot of drugs. Truth is, I would think heavy drug use would actually hurt performance. Same goes for excessive alcohol use.

Other than girls smoking pot (which everyone but me seems to do), people doing hard drugs isn't something I've heard too much about. I mean, I've heard one or two stories of girls way back when who had epic crash-and-burn situations, but that was just them, and they usually had a combination of problems.

As for alcohol, I personally don't think anyone should bring it near or on set, but if a girl wants to privately do a shot or something before a DP, well that's understandable to me.

Besides, I am sure there is a lot more work that goes on behind the scenes that can be pretty grueling that we never see (makeup, photo shoots - you try holding that remarkably uncomfortable pose for more than 20 seconds, and a bunch of other little behind the scenes stuff I would be completely ignorant about).

You've got that right. I always tell people about the story of my first hardcore still shoot (10/09 Naughty Neighbors magazine). I was squatting with my feet on the armrests of this big chair with a guys dick partially inside me. I had to pose like that for a good 20 seconds. I cannot tell you how fucked my mind was. Imagine putting your dick in a pussy and just not moving. To this day, I am NOT a fan of doing hardcore stills. I can do them, just... ugh. And yeah, make up is crazy. Not to mention getting my hair nice, shaving, blah blah.

And, off work, I am sure most actually lead rather boring, normal lives. Hey, they are simply people, after all.

My life is so fucking mundane. I live with my parents outside the major part of the city and have no car. The only reason why you'd see me up late at night posting on here is cause I have no life, hahaha.

All porn stars fake it.

Only if I'm sick/in a bad mood/talent isn't doing it for me. Other girls, I don't know. It seems like it kind of defeats the purpose of doing porn. You are having sex after all.

 

[ed007]

i'm hoping KimoraKlein and/or JaneB will answer ChefChiTown's question from post #71 :hatsoff:

 

[KimoraKlein]

What is the difference between being an escort and being a pornstar?

Wikipedia and Google are your friends.

Also, common sense.

 

[ChefChiTown]

Wikipedia and Google are your friends.

Also, common sense.

But, common sense would tell you that escorting is no different than being a pornstar. Like I said, the only difference (from what I see) is that escorts are paid to have sex with strangers, whereas, porn stars are paid to have sex with people who work in the adult film industry.

I'm not trying to insult you or anyone other female pornstar, but I notice you post quite frequently here and I was hoping to get an honest, heartfelt answer.

 

[KimoraKlein]

But, common sense would tell you that escorting is no different than being a pornstar. Like I said, the only difference (from what I see) is that escorts are paid to have sex with strangers, whereas, porn stars are paid to have sex with people who work in the adult film industry.

I'm not trying to insult you or anyone other female pornstar, but I notice you post quite frequently here and I was hoping to get an honest, heartfelt answer.

Holy fucking shit. The only difference? You obviously didn't look up "pornography" and "prostitution".

And guess what? I'm insulted. Not because you're getting me confused with a prostitute, but because I KNOW you didn't bother to do some research before you asked this ridiculous question. There. Heartfelt. Don't waste my time if you're not going to do your own research.

 

[Jack Davenport]

:1orglaugh

Hell hath no fury!


Chef is a good guy though. Just put his foot in his mouth. :1orglaugh

 

[ed007]

^^ she's funny you've got to give her that. :rofl: :rofl:

 

[KimoraKlein]

:1orglaugh

Hell hath no fury!


Chef is a good guy though. Just put his foot in his mouth. :1orglaugh

Foot, balls and elbow.

 

[Jack Davenport]

With all that talent, maybe he should consider a career in porn.