Anybody who thinks that "Hair Metal" actually has ANYTHING to do with "Actual Metal" never bothered to listen "Actual Metal". Hair metal was a bunch of burnouts who somehow found a loophole in life: "If we play this shitty music, we can get BJs and ride harleys all day without actually working". It was all about image and sex for them, never about music, which is why they sucked, royally, I might add. "True Metal" on the other hand is brilliant in many different capacities, all depending on your preferences and open-mindedness. I'll be the first to say as a "metalhead" that 90% of all the new (to me) metal I hear sucks. However, that 10% is so much better than any other music I've ever heard that it really doesn't matter. And that 10% to me is probably completely different than the next guy's 10%. Don't even start with the musicianship nonsense, because Grunge is equally as guilty of that as most metal. Not to mention the fact that a lot metal players are phenomenal musicians, you just have to know where to look. Bands like Mastodon, High On Fire, Baroness, Amon Amarth, SkeletonWitch, Kylesa, The Hidden Hand, Type O Negative, and Testament all boast amazing talent and songwriting across a bunch of metal genres. I don't **** grunge, even though I don't really listen to it. Alice In Chains are excellent. The Screaming Trees were pretty cool (Lannegan's the fucking man). Pearl Jam has some good tunes. I never really saw the attraction with Nirvana even though Dave Grohl turned out to be quite a music man. I think metal and grunge are linked (even though they didn't think so at the time) because they are/were alternative heavy music for people who were fed up with radio bullshit. In closing, you heard Cinderella on the radio in the late 80's and decided "Metal Sucks". Cinderella most definitely sucked, but that's no reason to throw what might be one of the widest, most diverse genres of music under the "Suck Bus".