I may be the only guy one earth to be rejected by every girl

[Torre82]

Literally every girl I've ever asked in my entire life has rejected me. The few that have gone out with me have been due to it being a blind date. After the date, they say I'm nice enough but that it won't go anywhere. Afterwards, I never hear from them again.

Be an asshole. When the guard is down, be yourself and they'll take you. If that fails, be an asshole again. Humans crave acceptance and if you give it readily.. they'll move on for a harder target. Dumbass humans.

I heard this same rant from a friend for years, but guess what? He's happily married now.

Yeah, but those first 40 years while he was a virgin really SUCKED. Girls keep one foot out the door until they realize the door is shutting and they better fuckin' compromise because HEY.. they're not perfect.. the perfect guy isnt going to come along.. and all those nice guys they passed up are waiting for their stupid ass to come around to the truth and mature a bit and not walk all over someone who respects them.

 

[Joaqo]

mmm stop being so nice. that happens to me very often. but now i've realized that it is when im drunk and not so nice when i get "lucky" so start from there. that wont make u change who u are. u will just get laid more often and if something serious happens well u can act more like yourself, wich the girl will find very nice.

 

[manninblacke]

Try asking women you don't fancy for a date?
If they say no it doesn't matter, and it's all practice. If they say yes, they say yes. How can you loose?

 

[Jagger69]

I should introduce you to my ex-wife. She'll fuck anybody.

 

[Yankeefan21325]

Most good looking women that I have ever met don't want a niceguy, they want someone who will beat them, cheat on them, and treat them like shit in general. This is who they always seemingly go for. Then they come crying to nice guys wondering why they cant find guys like us, but when the time comes they wont have us.

 

[BenW]

Be funny, be cocky. Thats most of what you need to know, worked for me

I was 18, just finished 6th form and never kissed a girl. Felt really bad about it and read some stuff on dating websites, tried the funny and cocky stuff and a friend asked me to her prom, went to that, got with her and nothing after that but its fine, i didnt want it, i knew i could do better. Week or 2 after, i got with a mates girlfriend who is now my girlfriend of 9 months. I've had other girls fancy me in that time, people have told me they fancy me so the funny/cocky thing works

I used to get regular emails from a guy called david deangelo, cant remember where i signed up but they are WELL worth getting

 

[alex.zeal]

Thank God I am not Alone.... And you too....

 

[Peter Gazinya]

Week or 2 after, i got with a mates girlfriend who is now my girlfriend of 9 months.

You don't appear to be a very good friend, and she appears to be a cheater. Don't be surprised when....it happens to you.

people have told me they fancy me so the funny/cocky thing works

Maybe, but believe me, the funny cock thing rarely works.

 

[BVBV]

This isn't directed toward the OP or anyone in particular - it's just an observation. We are on a Pornography Website. Within a few clicks of your mouse away from this message, you can see some of the world's most beautiful women taking their clothes off and having sex in almost any situation you care to imagine. 99% of the world's women aren't Pornography performers, I think we get the wrong impression.

 

[thepistons101]

when i was 13 to 15 i was so nerves and couldn't talk to girls but then i got a part time job and all the populer type girls worked there i slowly talked to them all and stuff said lots of jokes mucked around acted like an idiot they all laughed and then they were all talking about me in no time......girls do like to talk about them self maybe say to them so you seem interesting tell me about your self(have a nice big smile when ya say this mate) and then listen and take in what she says girls love a good lisner trust me hope i helped

 

[FapFap]

i dont know if this will help,but i think girls are rejecting you because youre either;
a-not aggressive enough
b-too shy
c-dont have a sense of humor
d-too nice

dont get bent over this though,as long as youve got your left/right hand,you can masturbate furiously to the girls that reject you

 

[nearlyinvisible]

Psychology,

I'm a nice guy too. There's nothing wrong with that and there are girls that want a guy like you. The girls that want a cocky asshole get what they ask for. You dont' want that kind of girl anyways.

You need to find a nice girl. Probably one of those girls that is shy and tends to fly under the radar. You won't find her in bars or clubs. Most of the chicks that get picked up at bars are alcoholic trash anyways. They have problems.

Online dating might work, but from the very beginning you must show the girl humor and personality. Set it up so that by the time you meet her, she is already crazy about you. It takes time and patience but can be done.

You'll find nice girls involved in activities and organizations. Join a social club or take a class at a local college. You'll find tons of nice girls at church. Join a youth group. Participate in local events. This morning I walked in the local Race for the Cure. There were thousands of girls there. Girls are very approachable at these events and they will think it is sweet that you are there supporting a cause.

On a first date be sure to bring the girl something she likes and give it to her at the end of the date as a surprise. You must make her laugh! A sense of humor is by far the most effective way to win over a girl in the beginning. In the long run, being a nice guy will pay off for you. Make eye contact. Smile alot. Pay for everything.

Most importantly be yourself. You want a girl that loves you for who you are, not for who you are pretending to be. My girl doesn't care what I look like. She doesn't care about the money I make. She loves me for who I am. You deserve the same. Never give up hope. Things will click for you eventually.

 

[racerXf1]

When u do online dating, make sure ur pics are excellent shots. Make sure u smile..u might have to have someone take 40 pics of you & use the 5 best ones. Dont post pics of cars & stuff. Women notice details when they read. Go over & over ur profile to make sure it represents the real you. Dont have a long 400 word profile-girls wont read it. State what u r looking for in someone. Make sure ur spelling, grammar in ur profile is perfect...when u email them ask things about them. Keep it light. Ask for phone # after emailing eachother 2x. Dont keep emailing for weeks. Close the deal. Set the date. Be real. Be cool. Dont be desperate. Check out sosuave.com for tips on meeting/banging/dating girls.

 

[nearlyinvisible]

when u email them ask things about them. Keep it light. Ask for phone # after emailing eachother 2x. Dont keep emailing for weeks. Close the deal. Set the date.

I disagree with asking for a phone number after a couple of emails. TAKE YOUR TIME! There is no reason to hurry.

I would never give/trust my number to someone online unless I've communicated with them for some time. The girl wants to trust you as well. Emails and chatting are necessary as a screening process. Asking for a phone number too soon just causes reason for suspicion. She'll think that you just want to hook up. That's not the way to approach it.

Here's the way to go:
-exchange a few emails
-ask for an AIM/Yahoo messenger screenname
-chat, and chat alot! This is the true icebreaker. If you can be funny/personable on IM, she will learn to like and trust you
-after a couple weeks of chatting ask if you can call her
-talk on the phone for a week or two
-and then ask if she would be comfortable meeting you

Personality and sense of humor are key. If you play things right she will be totally crazy about you before you ever meet her. Then you have the upper hand. Don't rush anything. Online dating takes time and patience.

 

[Peter Gazinya]

racerx-

Make sure ur spelling, grammar in ur profile is perfect...

Are you missing a "y" on your keyboard?

 

[mlauzon]

I am going on 32 this summer; I've never been on a date, kiss a woman or been kissed by a woman, never had a girlfriend, and still never had sex. I've been rejected for 22yrs in a row. I won't pay for sex, ever, I've put ads up for NSA & FWB and never get any responses to those or regular personal ads!

 

[anomaly]

I am going on 32 this summer; I've never been on a date, kiss a woman or been kissed by a woman, never had a girlfriend, and still never had sex. I've been rejected for 22yrs in a row. I won't pay for sex, ever, I've put ads up for NSA & FWB and never get any responses to those or regular personal ads!

Are you serious? If so PM me for a book that will help you immensely:thumbsup:

 

[Fresno]

I get turned down most of the time, women don't like to go out with a man that limps.

 

[1captainofship]

How about an update...did the guy meet any women the last 3 4 years?

 

[Ace Boobtoucher]

You've made two posts since December and one of them is to resurrect a four year old thread that obviously had everyone here wanting to know what happened to a friendless virgin. Well played.