How to ask her out?

[SacramentLoG]

There is this girl that I have been working with for 2 days now, and she is great! She has a great sense of humor, beautiful. The only problem is I'm not sure if she has a b/f... I have never been a person to come out and talk a lot so that hurts the situation. Any ideas on what to do?

 

[ChefChiTown]

There is this girl that I have been working with for 2 days now, and she is great! She has a great sense of humor, beautiful. The only problem is I'm not sure if she has a b/f... I have never been a person to come out and talk a lot so that hurts the situation. Any ideas on what to do?

You work with her, so don't ask her out at all.

That spells nothing but T-R-O-U-B-L-E.

 

[AFA]

I always try to keep it casual.

The less hyper you get, the better. Ask if she wants to go get a coffee with you.

Done.

Only if you need to, press the RED button.

 

[The Paulinator]

Be confident! Ask if she wants to get a drink after work. Just a drink. You must convince yourself of this first. That way you will br more relaxed regardless of her answer. You will find out about the boyfriend situation that way.

If she smiles at you seemingly all the time, twirls her hair with her fingers, or leans toward you as you talk, these are definitely green-light signals that she is attracted to you. Find these or other friendly body-language signs. These help with the confidence thing as well.

Don't try to be overly cool, or overly anything. Be yourself (only more conversational, based on what you said above)

 

[Legzman]

don't ask her right away. Take your time to get to know her at work. Feel it out, you'll know when is the right time to ask.

 

[24788]

I'm sorry I can't help you out. Asking a girl out has always been impossible for me. Never had a girlfriend in my life. I would say try to be careful about it though since it's a co worker.

 

[anomaly]

Put her on the back burner for now and pursue another woman who is just as attractive her or better. Make sure your coworker sees you with this woman. You could also invite her out for a group thing with some other colleagues and let see your great personality.

 

[choctaw gringo]

Ghey

 

[AFA]

The best thing is not to get wound up before you get a date.

I've been emailing someone for a while and just asked her out for lunch. Either response is okay although I would like a yes.

 

[spartan7]

yeah, man. Best advice is to be patient. It's two fucking days. Try to be charming, witty and have a "I couldn't care less to go out with you" attitude without trying too hard and eventually, she go looking for you.

 

[Peter Gazinya]

Give it a little more time...like 3 more years. And jerk off alot, you won't care so much.