I just think suggesting that his woman is being unfaithful is kinda reaching...the problem likely IS alot simpler than her just getting pounded on the side. Ie. her just not enjoying it for whatever personal reason. Like I said, every woman has something she either doesn't enjoy, or isn't comfortable doing. Doggy could very likely be just her thing she's not into. I'm just saying you don't need to go out and suggest that the OP's gf is a whore simply because she's not into a certain position.
So based on what you think of the situation, you simply disagree with my conclusion. 'whore' is your word not mine.
The OP said she used to
want to all the time...now she doesn't because it reminds her of rape. 'reminds'?? Doggy style seems like the most popular position among women....Usually when someone likes something like that at one time...it's very rare a person will just wake up one day and unlike it.
I'm not a psych but I do have some background reading what people may say even when they're trying desperately to lie or lead you to believe something else. The first, easiest and most obvious word I picked up on was, 'reminds'...then the phrase, 'she won't do it anymore'. There's nothing conclusive about that nor do I know enough about her to be sure (never said I was sure of it). But in the context of the situation and explanation he's said she offered.. those words are pretty suggestive to me.:2 cents:
I suggest it not to make the guy paranoid nor accusatory...just something he might be less blind to.
And fyi, until you've had a clit, and done missionary being on the bottom, you really can't say anything about "your experience" in how it feels to a woman. Missionary is well known for being a position that isn't great for women, clitorally. The only way a guy can penetrate while hitting the clit simultaneously is either by grinding his pelvis on her at the same time, which usually wouldn't feel great unless he's completely shaven and knows wtf he's doing, or unless his fat gut slaps the magic button. I know this is where you're going to step in and say that I'm not experienced enough blah blah blah, so save yourself the trouble, but I've had enough partners, have had enough penetration and since I have female anatomy, know enough to decifer which positions feel good to me or not. I'm not arrogant enough to tell you what positions give YOU optimal pleasure, since I don't have a dick...so just stop lol.
fyi....a man doesn't need to own a clit in order to know how to stimulate it any more than a woman need own a cock in order to understand different techniques to stimulate
it. Besides that, the head of a cock and a clit are mostly the same when it comes to the nerve sensitivity of the two. IOW, they respond to the same stimulation.
But since you are apparently unaware of this, a man grinding his pelvis on the clit
is not the only way to stimulate the clit in the missionary position. A man can position his body forward leaning enough so that his dick slides down back and forth over the clit while she positions her hips downward instead of upward.
I've done it many times with several different women and they absolutely get their clits stimulated that way too.....because
they say so not me.:2 cents: I'm not sure if it will be better than a pound of bacon for
you though but they seemed pretty convinced of the technique and it was something they'd never tried before. It's not arrogance..it's called experience and creativity.
Try it the next time you're with a guy who has enough dick to do it and enough imagination to understand what he's attempting to accomplish.
You know, cause simply telling a guy to push a button or turn a knob until a light lights up on a some machine doesn't mean he understands the machine.
