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Help Me Stop Masterbating

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After a long and extensive Google search, I have decided against taking SaltPeter

I was just joking anyway. I honestly don't know how to answer you. I walked away from cigs cold turkey, I gave up sodas cold turkey. I'm sorry but its a matter of wanting to in my way of thinking. Don't ever feel guilt though its a natural thing, but if you feel its disrupting your life work on it.

Heres a thread I did awhile back. Give it a shot maybe it will help. :dunno:

http://board.freeones.com/showthread.php?t=200236&highlight=break+habit

LL
 
I used to be addicted to masturbation, I was doing that a few times everyday for years but what I did first was cut down a lot. The trick is to keep your hands busy and try not to be alone alot cause seriously are you going to wank off while you are not alone? Do alot of things at home just enough to make you tired (too much wanking does that anyway:1orglaugh:rofl:) and have a quick wank before you go to sleep and only do it a couple of times a day (two or three at the most). If you wish to stop altogether again cut down to only once every couple of days and so on.
 

Legzman

what the fuck you lookin at?
Why would you want to stop?
 
SaltPeter. :)

LL

Hey leave me out of this. I'm not qualified to stop anyone from doing anything. That would be throwing rocks from my glass house.:thumbsup:

But it sounds to me his regret is centered around the opportunity cost of masturbating. He regrets it becuase he feels like could be doing something more productive than beating off.

Does anyone see the irony here? If anyone here knew how to help him, we'd be doing something more productive than discussing inane topics on a porn forum.

But if your productivity is suffering from so much masturbation, maybe you should try to jerk off quicker.
 
holy fuck. Mods delete this thread. This forum is retarded, too much post whoring and trolling for me. Please do not ban me, I love the other sub forums, but this is ridiculous. I can see why some of you have 3000+ posts in a single year FFS

Look at this guy! 10 posts and he's already trying to tell the mods what to do! You sir, are the one who is retarded, coming on a porn board and asking for medical and/or psychological advice. Maybe if your thread wasn't about something so asinine as that, we all could have had a constructive discussion (as you would find in just about all the other threads).

And even if I was a post whore, at least I would be contributing, unlike someone who just leeches off the forum without contributing at all, Mr. 10 Posts. I contributed about 50 new links yesterday alone. What did you do?
 
holy fuck. Mods delete this thread. This forum is retarded, too much post whoring and trolling for me. Please do not ban me, I love the other sub forums, but this is ridiculous. I can see why some of you have 3000+ posts in a single year FFS

Forgive me for possibly sounding a tad harsh, but just who the hell do you think you are?

You actually believe you can start a thread on a message board, looking for advice to keep your hands away from your bloody cock, and think that the majority of that advice is going to be given freely and 100% seriously?

If you want to do something constructive, do something constructive with the time, but unless you are walking around with a permanent erection 24 hours a day, you must be putting yourself into a state where you feel the need for sexual release!

Oh, and as for the post whoring and trolling, alot of the members here have the post counts you mock because they are avid posters and with limited exception actually contribute greatly to the board.

If you had a real problem youd be sitting jerking off as you wrote the OP in which case you want real therapy, not answers fed to you from a group of strangers you think are going to take you seriously and not rip the piss out of you, hell im glad they did!
 
Dude, masturbate while your dick is still alive. In your oldie days, you will miss these days. If you want to really stop doing it then find a real pussy and stop complaining.
 

villiageidiot

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First, I wasn't able to find another thread like this, so I apologize if there is one floating around this forum.

I am 22 years old and began jerking off to internet porn since I was 11. The longest I've gone since then was 9 days at summer camp, other than that, maybe 5 days max, but it's mostly been at least once a day for the last 11 years. I have a somewhat active sex life, with no steady partner but I am tall and have decent looks and enjoy going to bars to pick up women, so I don't think it's a result of outright sexual frustration.

I consider myself to be someone with great will power and self control, I set high life goals for myself and almost always achieve them. I've graduated University with high marks and am off to law school in the fall. This has taken great mental discipline, but some how I cannot control myself when it comes to jacking it to porn online. If I am around my mates all day, the thought usually doesn't cross my mind, but if I am alone in a house, I'll spank it 3+ times until my penis actually starts to hurt. I always feel guilty afterwords and tell myself "this is the last time", but the next day I always rationalize it to myself and end up doing it again.

I want to say that masturbation has many positives. I do not feel it is a immoral or bad activity, but I feel my time can be spent doing something more productive, and I believe that the amount i've spanked it leads me to become lethargic and tired. I want to kick the habit, and "move on". Has anyone went through this before? What helps and what should I avoid? Any suggestions would be appreciated, I've tried searching Google but nothing seems tailored to my situation.

Thanks in advance, and I wish to restate that I have no ill feelings towards masterbation or those who masterbate, but I feel on an personal level my life would be enriched if I stopped, or at least cut back severely (wet dreams are gross lol, i'd rather rub one out every week or so to avoid it :) )

Dude, I know exactly what you are going through. I have been on a frenzy for the last month. I was a 1 or 2 time a day guy for years, then a few weeks ago, I discovered the hottest fucking girl I have ever seen.(see my sig). At first it was only her, lately it's girls gone wild video's. I go sometimes 5 or 6 times a day. It is getting to the point that it hurts and my dick is bleeding, but I can't stop. When it is bleeding, I just find a different way to hold it. I am neglecting everything, I can't wait to get home from work to do it, I get up in the middle of the night and do it. I stopped doing work around the house, my yard looks like shit. It has taken over my life. I have always loved jerking it. Sometimes, I would rather jerk it than have sex with my wife, or I would watch her play with herself and whack off. I'm just weird that way. But it is getting ridiculous! I have never been this bad, not even when I was a teenager and I'm 39 now. I feel terrible immediately after, but 10 minutes later, I'm doing it again. The thing that is bothering me is I can't explain what has happened recently. I don't do it because it feels good, I don't know why I do it. All I know is I can't stop. I hope you find the answer you are looking for, I'm looking too. I hope it will just wear off.
 
Villageidiot, a lesser man would believe that story. Thankfully im not a lesser man and am not inclined to believe a word of that!
 
Don't worry bro, just use the blood as lube and keep going! Keep fap-fapping until it falls right off!
 
First, I wasn't able to find another thread like this, so I apologize if there is one floating around this forum.

I am 22 years old and began jerking off to internet porn since I was 11. The longest I've gone since then was 9 days at summer camp, other than that, maybe 5 days max, but it's mostly been at least once a day for the last 11 years. I have a somewhat active sex life, with no steady partner but I am tall and have decent looks and enjoy going to bars to pick up women, so I don't think it's a result of outright sexual frustration.

I consider myself to be someone with great will power and self control, I set high life goals for myself and almost always achieve them. I've graduated University with high marks and am off to law school in the fall. This has taken great mental discipline, but some how I cannot control myself when it comes to jacking it to porn online. If I am around my mates all day, the thought usually doesn't cross my mind, but if I am alone in a house, I'll spank it 3+ times until my penis actually starts to hurt. I always feel guilty afterwords and tell myself "this is the last time", but the next day I always rationalize it to myself and end up doing it again.

I want to say that masturbation has many positives. I do not feel it is a immoral or bad activity, but I feel my time can be spent doing something more productive, and I believe that the amount i've spanked it leads me to become lethargic and tired. I want to kick the habit, and "move on". Has anyone went through this before? What helps and what should I avoid? Any suggestions would be appreciated, I've tried searching Google but nothing seems tailored to my situation.

Thanks in advance, and I wish to restate that I have no ill feelings towards masterbation or those who masterbate, but I feel on an personal level my life would be enriched if I stopped, or at least cut back severely (wet dreams are gross lol, i'd rather rub one out every week or so to avoid it :) )
GOSH YOUR LUCKY SO SO' WISH I WAS YOU. AH':thefinger:thefinger:glugglug:
 
sex and love addicts anonymous...SLAA

http://www.slaafws.org/

It's a good program...obviously nothing is bulletproof, if it was I wouldn't be here, but it can help uncover some of the shit that leads many of us to masturbating as a way of self-medicating.
 
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