Thanks gorgeous!
Oh, I'm just a middle aged man who suckered a beautiful, strong woman long ago and now she can't escape. I'm closing in on almost 20 years with the same woman. I'm sure I haven't maintained my shape as I should have from being an athlete all those years ago. So I'm going to assume that "gorgeous" is a misprint, or directed elsewhere.
Honestly Prof, I don't think it has anything to do with guys freaking out about getting hair in their mouth or not knowing how to eat out a hairy pussy.... I think you were inching towards the crux of the matter with this comment ....
.... some men hate women who don't shave because... "BALD IS EXPECTED".
It's a form of covert misogyny... It's not that shaving is misogynistic per se. It's fine to have a preference one way or the other. What IS misogynistic is men who think they can go around policing women's femininity. They feel it's their job to make sure women live up to their beauty and grooming expectations and if they don't then they get slammed, cut down to size...p
I do have to agree, I would never want to be a woman because of these expectations. I see my wife go through it, to the point I have to make a joke just to make her feel at ease. If a woman can look her best without make-up, she's the ultimate in my book. I've always loved my wife without make-up and f' what everyone else thinks. When I wake up next to her in the morning, the view can't ever be better.
On the bald v. hair, I still think it still all boils down to fear in an intimate situation. Just one generation ago, the natural form of a woman was art, to be loved, to be made love to and to be enjoyed like no other. Now we've had a generation grown up where plastic surgery is the norm, enhancement is the way, complexion must be perfect (or airbrushed out), not a single hair may show, etc... I think it literally does come down to the fear of men having to take on a lover that is, in their opinion, is "not well molded" or "modified" or "groomed," even if it is a total misnomer. There is this pillar of impossibility they have literally put women on, not just as a figment, but literally their view.
Oh just how many beautiful women on this planet go under-appreciated because of such? I know it was ramping up in the early '90s, when I was still dating. I know I went home with so many women I so did not deserve. And why? Because so many men will invent some fault, some imperfection, some social consideration that ruffles their feathers. How many men have this self-defeating, often among other men, attitude that they must find something of "fault" to exclude or excuse a woman? Just WTF have we really done?
Are the number of people having regular, random intimacy down in the last 2 decades than those 2 prior because we are actually worried about STDs and what not? Or is it because of the social stigmas of exclusion we have actually built up? I was never any catch, but honestly, it was never about some arbitrary argument of "standards." It was always about going after exactly what I desired, and never subscribing to analyzing a woman like I see groups of men do today.
But I'm just an aging man, well beyond his prime, although I thought I started hearing this tune in the early '90s as well.
Oh, snap why haven't anyone told me about this gorgeous goddess?.:tongue::eek:
That's because you were busy asking me for a sig of Sophie Howard. J/K -- Feel free to PM me sometime, and I'll let you know about all the women you've been missing!
Angela has been around since she hit 18. I normally don't take note of such "barely legal" women. But Angela has always knocked me on my ass, quite unexplained, yet easily noted why.
