its her fun not yours.
in my relation i let my girl play with another female. i encouraged it.
but if she was ever okay with me joining i wouldnt be okay with her. not who i thought she was and i'd be gone. its okay if i cheat on her? right in front of her?.
your wife having lesbian fun is like watching a lesbian scene and you get to fuck one of the stars when you want.
if your not okay with your wife sexually you should have thought twice before marrying her.
maybe im fucked up.