Because some guys are shallow. Attraction is important but is deeper than just physical attraction. I like a man to be funny, smart, intelligent, self confident...
THANK YOU!
There's much more to it than looks.
I was once in a casual relationship for 2 years with a girl who I didn't find that attractive.
6 foot tall, blonde, blue eyes.
Normally I like em short, thick, dark in hair and eyes.
But she was so much fun. So honest and bullshit free. I didn't care that I didn't find her ever so attractive. She was smart too. Not only smart in the way that she was a Genticist PHD, but she was smart when it came to life in general.
At the end we had to go our different ways because we were falling for each other and it wasn't the right time of my life (too young) and, if I'm honest, I wasn't good enough for her at that point (too prone to infidelity in any relationship, so I stuck away from relationships... That's changed now btw).