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What Are Relationships Like, Still A Virgin, And Single & Looking....

I wonder what having a relationship would be like, I am going on 32 this year, and have been asking women out since I was around 10 -- yes I know that is kind of young -- but I have been turned down every single time for 22yrs in a row; I've never been on a date, I've never been kissed, I've never had a girlfriend, and I still have not had sex. I do not know why this is happening to me, why I cannot seem to get what everyone else can get. I am lonely. Yes, I've tried personal ads, but they don't even work for me. Because of all this, I've never have had a Valentine's Day, it's the worst day of the year for me, a day I don't even want to leave my apartment, because if I did I'd see everyone who is in love celebrating, and I just can't handle that.
 
Dude , forget about asking anyone on a date....if you haven't got past that stage. How about a paid escort just so that you can get laid and get the virginity part out of the way and the rest of your anxiety will wear off.
 
Dude , forget about asking anyone on a date....if you haven't got past that stage. How about a paid escort just so that you can get laid and get the virginity part out of the way and the rest of your anxiety will wear off.


I am not going to pay for sex, ever! What 'anxiety', I don't have any?!
 

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something, someone will come along for you. for some people it takes longer to find that someone.

Agree. :thumbsup:


Don't rush it it will happen for you.
 
Well, I am not looking anymore after I turn 32 this summer, and if one finally does come along I will be turning her down; because I won't want anyone anymore.
 
Quit the sympathy farming, and just try to do what comes natural- be yourself. From the title of this thread, and your other one, you are obviously interested in finding someone.

I understand you not wanting to pay for sex, and that's fine- that's not for everyone. But for you to say you don't have any anxiety? Come on- you wouldn't be here complaining if you didn't realize there's some problem and have some anxiety about not being with someone.

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I have always been myself, I will not act, dress, etc. as someone I am not...because that would be lying to myself and to the world; and lying is something I stopped doing 20yrs ago as it never got me anywhere -- and neither does telling the truth.
 
Well, I am not looking anymore after I turn 32 this summer, and if one finally does come along I will be turning her down; because I won't want anyone anymore.

Yea, stop feeling sorry for yourself, I've heard the lonely hearts pitch before. For someone whose 31 thats bloody immature, but hey keep it up if you like, your only 7 yeras from being the actual "40 year old virgin".

Seriously though, I despise the "someone will come along" advice, it always sounds like you can sit at home, most likely looking for advice and whining about your lack of love online, and your perfect woman will come along, knock on you door and queue the band.

Youve been trying for 22 years? I'm sorry, but I dont believe that for one minute. No one however hapless can be that hard up for a date.
 
Yea, stop feeling sorry for yourself, I've heard the lonely hearts pitch before. For someone whose 31 thats bloody immature, but hey keep it up if you like, your only 7 yeras from being the actual "40 year old virgin".

Seriously though, I despise the "someone will come along" advice, it always sounds like you can sit at home, most likely looking for advice and whining about your lack of love online, and your perfect woman will come along, knock on you door and queue the band.

Youve been trying for 22 years? I'm sorry, but I dont believe that for one minute. No one however hapless can be that hard up for a date.


thats a good point...if you have been truly trying, going out to bars or whatever and talking to females for 22 years, you are bound to find someone who would give you at least one date.
 
That's true....you can find a guy and be happy!

Sorry, straight guys cannot turn gay...but that always seems to be a suggestion from a fag!

Yea, stop feeling sorry for yourself, I've heard the lonely hearts pitch before. For someone whose 31 thats bloody immature, but hey keep it up if you like, your only 7 yeras from being the actual "40 year old virgin".

Seriously though, I despise the "someone will come along" advice, it always sounds like you can sit at home, most likely looking for advice and whining about your lack of love online, and your perfect woman will come along, knock on you door and queue the band.

Youve been trying for 22 years? I'm sorry, but I dont believe that for one minute. No one however hapless can be that hard up for a date.


No, the "40 Year Old Virgin" could get dates, just not laid...I haven't seen the movie because as soon as I saw the trailer I knew the ending.

I don't care what you believe or not, I've never dated because I always get turned down.

why would you not want anyone after you turn 32? dont be so depressed, its tough but there has to be more in your life to be happy about, females arent everything.

Because, that's exactly 22yrs from when I started asking women out and started getting turned down.

Females aren't everything, I want a have a family, I have never had one of my own...growing up in foster homes & group homes!
 
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