I wonder what having a relationship would be like, I am going on 32 this year, and have been asking women out since I was around 10 -- yes I know that is kind of young -- but I have been turned down every single time for 22yrs in a row; I've never been on a date, I've never been kissed, I've never had a girlfriend, and I still have not had sex. I do not know why this is happening to me, why I cannot seem to get what everyone else can get. I am lonely. Yes, I've tried personal ads, but they don't even work for me. Because of all this, I've never have had a Valentine's Day, it's the worst day of the year for me, a day I don't even want to leave my apartment, because if I did I'd see everyone who is in love celebrating, and I just can't handle that.
What Are Relationships Like, Still A Virgin, And Single & Looking....
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Dude , forget about asking anyone on a date....if you haven't got past that stage. How about a paid escort just so that you can get laid and get the virginity part out of the way and the rest of your anxiety will wear off.
something, someone will come along for you. for some people it takes longer to find that someone.
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Quit the sympathy farming, and just try to do what comes natural- be yourself. From the title of this thread, and your other one, you are obviously interested in finding someone.
I understand you not wanting to pay for sex, and that's fine- that's not for everyone. But for you to say you don't have any anxiety? Come on- you wouldn't be here complaining if you didn't realize there's some problem and have some anxiety about not being with someone.
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I understand you not wanting to pay for sex, and that's fine- that's not for everyone. But for you to say you don't have any anxiety? Come on- you wouldn't be here complaining if you didn't realize there's some problem and have some anxiety about not being with someone.
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....stay a virgin then....live long and prosper!:eek:
why would you not want anyone after you turn 32? dont be so depressed, its tough but there has to be more in your life to be happy about, females arent everything.
Yea, stop feeling sorry for yourself, I've heard the lonely hearts pitch before. For someone whose 31 thats bloody immature, but hey keep it up if you like, your only 7 yeras from being the actual "40 year old virgin".
Seriously though, I despise the "someone will come along" advice, it always sounds like you can sit at home, most likely looking for advice and whining about your lack of love online, and your perfect woman will come along, knock on you door and queue the band.
Youve been trying for 22 years? I'm sorry, but I dont believe that for one minute. No one however hapless can be that hard up for a date.
Type David DeAngelo in Google. He might be able to help.
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then read this:
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thats a good point...if you have been truly trying, going out to bars or whatever and talking to females for 22 years, you are bound to find someone who would give you at least one date.
Sorry, straight guys cannot turn gay...but that always seems to be a suggestion from a fag!
No, the "40 Year Old Virgin" could get dates, just not laid...I haven't seen the movie because as soon as I saw the trailer I knew the ending.
I don't care what you believe or not, I've never dated because I always get turned down.
Because, that's exactly 22yrs from when I started asking women out and started getting turned down.
Females aren't everything, I want a have a family, I have never had one of my own...growing up in foster homes & group homes!
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yeah i can see that. :rofl:
the hell they cant. and whats with the flame there mister? :dunno:
Gay people are born gay, I have no attraction to guys.
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