Virginity at 22 Problem

[da_Sickness]

what the hells an american/western stereotype for attractiveness??

I've seen plenty of asian models, and I agree with xxaru, I've seen asian male pornstars also. haha

The funny thing is, old bankmonkey here is complaining that white women etc. don't find Asian men attractive, then says he doesn't find Asian women attractive...

WORD

 

[Torre82]

what the hells an american/western stereotype for attractiveness??

I've seen plenty of asian models, and I agree with xxaru, I've seen asian male pornstars also. haha



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I'm not entirely sure, but I believe he means Asian pornstars in America. Sure you can see 'em over in Japan. lol But I dont think I've ever seen one outside of Japan.

Western stereotype for attraction? Well.. if you dont know the answer to that you havent been looking around the internet much, have ya? har har! Barbie-thin, barely legal, shaved and unnaturally horny would probably sum it up. A'course, I aint, I say I aint buying into that. Reality kicks everyone in the ass all thru high school and puberty when you learn girls are confusing, contrary, or just not interested in yer young ass.

Hm. Coffee's ready. :walks off:

 

[cost]

Agreed

Coming to this from a woman's perspective - it's nothing to be ashamed of that you are still a virgin at 22!

As for being an Asian male, I know two American females who would probably adore you. They love Asian men. Not all hope is lost.

 

[baultista]

Take a chance dude... take a chance... cause you never know what's going to work.

If you do what I did for many years and refuse to take a risk because you're afraid of straining a current friendly relationship, rejection, or something else, you're going to be a single virgin for quite a while. Meeting good people isn't the easiest thing to do, so if you find someone you could see yourself with, just GO FOR IT.

 

[jibbijib]

If you got a music sharing program (Limewire, Ares) Then d/l some of David Deangelo's dating stuff. Or head to www.doubleyourdating.com , sign up for the news letters, buy his shit. Whatever. It works great. Sounds to me like your jsut not comingo ff as attractive in real life. Has nothing to do with race if you know how to do it right. If a hot girl finds you "attractive" then you have your foot in the door. And it's not all on the outside. It's how you are with them, how you make them feel. Trust me. Get the shit, you'll see what your doing wrong, and you'll get a better outlook on life with it.

Wah wah virgin at 22. So what. I hear girls saying that they wish they still had their virginity. So don't be such a bitch about it. Just makes you seem like a wussy.

 

[trickster223]

Don't worry about it, your time will come. I was the same age when I lost it. Tbh I could have lost it at 17 and on a few other occasions after that but I wanted to do it with someone I really liked. Not just someone I was'nt really attracted to for the sake of it. I'm glad I waited. I got teased for been a virgin by my mates on occasions but looking at the people they had done it with I would have rather remained a virgin for alot longer. As for the race issue, that's not true. Lots of asian guys get with girls of any race. No need to worry about that.

 

[ai-ni-ichi]

confidence and patience are all you need. go out to a few bars, talk to women, be a nice guy... it might take time but eventually you'll get there.

 

[Roughneck]

I like reading all these fanciful theories about "race" and "which race has it worst when it comes to dating".

Really, I love reading this stuff. Makes for an interesting read and on a boring, slow day when I can't see/read enough to get a laugh out of.

Or better yet, what "women in general go for" and what they don't.

Yada, yada, yada.

Wow! Y'all have human relationships split down, deciphered and boxed into these convenient labels and personalities! The bonus of classifying entire genders or races too!

Fascinating!


As for "virginity at 22" being a "problem" ... well, that sentence in itself is a "problem".

Decide what you want kid:
1. Do you want a meaningful relationship, of which sex might be just one part of many hundreds? If so, you're "focus" is wrong. Stop thinking about your gratification alone....
2. Do you want sex but don't want to bother establishing long standing (or even short standing for that matter) 'relationships' - hook up with a swingers club.
3. If sex is all you have in mind and don't give a rats ass about "relationship" - look up a good escort.


Time to stop whinging and start working on solutions.

- R.

PS: My private thoughts:

Stop approaching women as "commodities" and start treating them as more than "fuck buddies". Sex isn't the be all and end all of a man's relationship or association with a woman (or man. Sexual orientation doesn't really matter. My point is valid for any relationship).
There is nothing "essentially" immoral about treating them as "fuck buddies" or "commodities" - just don't act dumb and surprised at the result of treating them as such.....

 

[crost2]

I dont know what to tell you

 

[ILoveHotSluts]

Nothing to be ashamed of mate! BTW, why do you think you couldnt get a non asian girl?

exactly dude, this is 2007 race doesnt matter you need to look past that, im sure you can get a hot chick from any background to blow you ,just be confident, there are hotties from white black hispanic east europeran asian etc just look around and dont worry about race that means nothing, why should that even make a difference girls see people not color

 

[themonk]

i am 21 virgin have the same fucking problem ..

 

[xxaru]

i am 21 virgin have the same fucking problem ..

You're Asian too??

 

[Hazardmandan]

Dude, go to Europe and be with her if you love her.
Watch the move Eurotrip. Your story sounds exactly like this movie.
Its very funny.