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Virginity at 22 Problem
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Phaeton
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Could be worse. You could be Jewish in 1942 Germany. Sounds harsh and it is, but try to put some perspective on shit. Your alive and healthy with enough wealth to jerk-off over a complex web of expensive computing machines. But fuck all that, you have to cry us a river.
I give less than a shit about your problems. Try living in the hard parts of the world, then complain about your lack of pussy. Jackass.
I give less than a shit about your problems. Try living in the hard parts of the world, then complain about your lack of pussy. Jackass.
Heh.. I cant recall it, but a study reported that Asian women are preferred by American males because they're percieved as ultra-feminine. They generally know how to cook, treat their partner well, and they dont 'have something to prove'. I believe the word 'dainty' was used somewhere in the reasons cited.
It gave examples of American women demanding respect just for being female. The image of the American female is tarnished by the high obesity rate. Percentage of smokers in western society. Also, the submissive aspect of a relationship came into play. American women are much more demanding. Hard to please with often unrealistic expectations set upon them by our western standards. That itself led to another link about how American society pushed the 'you'll find true love one day, read cosmopolitan, soulmate' type issues pushed upon adolescent females.
Anyhow, I know I'm butchering it with my haphazard memory recollection. There are plenty of studies on every last issue you could ever want to know about. But! I'm hungry and irritable. Dieting doesnt make for a happy me. :kindly bows out:
Iamforever
Banned
no studies, but trust me. it isnt a white guy thing. :thumbsup:
There there, no need to insult this man. He's clearly misinformed about the reality of it all. Don't pay attention to the article, you can read it just don't take it in and believe it. What really happens is, if you start to believe that non-asian women don't find asian men attractive then, it will start to happen around you and to you. I know plenty of white women that find asian men attractive, they always say "God asian guys are sooo HOT" And I am asian myself, I might add.
It's BS to think that non-asian women don't go for asian men, this is the reality. Women in general don't usually go for men. They usually go for the personality of men. If for any reason they do reject you, it might be what you say, what you do, how you act, or any some cases, she might NOT like asian men (Or your making it seem so). But for the most part, its total BS to think ALL non-asian women are like that. Thats racism, on your part.
It's BS to think that non-asian women don't go for asian men, this is the reality. Women in general don't usually go for men. They usually go for the personality of men. If for any reason they do reject you, it might be what you say, what you do, how you act, or any some cases, she might NOT like asian men (Or your making it seem so). But for the most part, its total BS to think ALL non-asian women are like that. Thats racism, on your part.
:sigh: But he's NOT a yid in the motherland. It's not 1942. It's 2007 and there are no starving children posting on this board. The lot of us rarely have to worry about little other than what BRAND of bread should we buy tonight?
And.. judging at the birth rate in those third world countries, even the starving kids dont have to worry about getting pussy. So this is actually a problem for the poor lad! Have a heart!
No offense, but you're getting a little way too PC. I haven't ever heard of your self-proclaimed phenomenon. Racism, selection, etc. exists. It's there, its the way people will always be.
Listen, I 'll be real enough to admit that my appearence and that of many asian males (and probably yourself as well) don't particularily fit the "American/Western" stereotype of attractiveness,handsomeness, etc. Rugged features, etc.
My "Article" is unfortunately the truth. I wouldn't post it just for a reaction. It's a real problem that I'm frankly, too embarrassed to talk about it if not anonymously.
Seeing that "Da-Sickness" must be the asian player super-duper seducer of white women, I'd like to hear about your assumingly excellent strategy to overcome these natural hurdles?
Iamforever
Banned
you need to lighten up bankmonkey. you said you were 22 or some shit? you are acting like you are going to die at 30. relax, it will come. im 26 soon, and you make me feel 56. calm down, wait a while, and your blond goddess will arrive. it happened to me. it can happen to you as well.
Listen to what iamforever said he's giving good advice. Dude, your only 22, and so big deal your asian, One of my best friends is asian and the guy get more tail than anyone I know. besides whats wrong with asian women, I find them gourgous.
As far as looks go, I was badly burned in an accident when I was teen, facial and upper body burns, yet I am married to a beautiful, smart, caring woman.
You are putting too much pressure on yourself. Give it time.
As far as looks go, I was badly burned in an accident when I was teen, facial and upper body burns, yet I am married to a beautiful, smart, caring woman.
You are putting too much pressure on yourself. Give it time.
I agree with KittyKat and hotdude .. don't beat yourself up about this .. the time will come .. what's the rush? I didn't lose my virginity until I was 19.
Thats because everyone thinks they have small penisis :tongue: (sorry had to say it
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Thats because everyone thinks they have small penisis :tongue: (sorry had to say it
Well. Yeah. There's that whole stig...err no, it's not actually a stigma. I think it's www.penissizedebate.com and www.penis-website.com should prove either enlightening or depressing.. based on what you carry downstairs.
Thats because everyone thinks they have small penisis :tongue: (sorry had to say it
How very grown up of you! .. so, the sum total of a man is how big his cock is ..
sorry had to say it is a pathetic "get out". The words age shoe and size spring to mind.
I'm not taking sides here, but penis size certainly is an elephant in the living room for all males. Ignore it, call it immature.. but.. well howzabout this: Show me a guy who doesnt want a bigger dick. Show me one who is completely secure in their length/girth. It's not the sum of things, no.. but you dont want your race's reputation to precede you in matters of sex!
I think part of your problem is that you have the wrong mindset on things. You cant expect women to approach you. That almost never happens (at least not to me). It happens to me sometimes, but rarely. And I have girls smile at me and stare me down with lust almost every day here. But if I waited on them to approach me, then I’d never hook up with any girls.
What else is she going to love you for… your looks :rofl: ?? :rofl: Yeah right… the more realistic answer might be your wallet (if she’s that kind of girl). I can tell you that looks are not everything when it comes to girls. I see jacked up, ugly guys with girls that look like models all the time (and no, they dont all have thick wallets).
Re-read what I posted above.
I for one HAVE seen an Asian male in porn. So you are once again proven wrong. :hatsoff:
Again with your appearance
… Almost no one fits the “American/Western” stereotypes of attractiveness anymore. There are a lucky few who do, all the rest have to pump themselves full of chemicals and/or get tons of plastic surgery to attain an almost unattainable image. Stop worrying about your image image so much. You're taking yourself out of the game before it even gets started. BTW, I’ve met Asian guys who get tons of girls. So it’s not impossible… even for you. And you should know that I also know girls who think Jet Li is hot. (He’s Asian right?? :dunno: )
I dont want a bigger dick. Im completely satisfied with my length and girth. :thumbsup:
Word .. xxaru ..
I'm completely secure in who I am not to bother about whether my cock is pornstar huge .. if you were to poll women .. I'd love LLs thoughts on this .. they'd go for a guy with an average (whatever that is) sized cock who was a decent human being, over a well hung jerk.
Relationships are a good deal more than sex .. whilst it's hugely important to me, it's NOT the be all and end all in any way.
I'm completely secure in who I am not to bother about whether my cock is pornstar huge .. if you were to poll women .. I'd love LLs thoughts on this .. they'd go for a guy with an average (whatever that is) sized cock who was a decent human being, over a well hung jerk.
Relationships are a good deal more than sex .. whilst it's hugely important to me, it's NOT the be all and end all in any way.
The funny thing is, old bankmonkey here is complaining that white women etc. don't find Asian men attractive, then says he doesn't find Asian women attractive...
Besides, being a virgin at 22 isn't bad at all. Just do your own thing, you have your whole entire life to have sex. If you're so desperate, buy a protitute or an escort.
Alternatively, go out to clubs and bars, hone your 'technique' and try and be more confident about approaching women and I'm sure you'll get lucky eventually. Or use dating sites online or something. There are a ton of options man. It's not like you're 50 and have never had a girlfriend and feel desperate...
Besides, being a virgin at 22 isn't bad at all. Just do your own thing, you have your whole entire life to have sex. If you're so desperate, buy a protitute or an escort.
Alternatively, go out to clubs and bars, hone your 'technique' and try and be more confident about approaching women and I'm sure you'll get lucky eventually. Or use dating sites online or something. There are a ton of options man. It's not like you're 50 and have never had a girlfriend and feel desperate...
Heh, I'm fond of this line:
'Always remember that actions speak much louder that words. NEVER, EVER believe what women tell you. Instead, WATCH FOR THEIR ACTIONS.'
or
Why Nice Guys Dont Get Laid (Well, when there's a saying that goes 'Nice guys finish last'...)
But this is a perfect read:
http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/2006/what-women-want-in-men.php
No lies.
"“Just be your natural self” is another piece of awful advice dating and communication teachers tell people. In fact, being your natural self in many areas of life will get you into trouble."
" the alpha male takes lead. He chooses a movie or place to have dinner. He does not say “I’m happy with whatever you want” or “I don’t care where we go”. It relates back to taking control and having power within the relationship.
Attraction isn’t a logical process.
Attraction isn’t decided.
Attraction isn’t a choice.
If you’re still hanging onto your nice boy characteristics around women because you believe they are better then these alpha male attributes, then my advice is you need to stop acting stubborn with what you think is right and listen up to what actually works.'
Damn straight.
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