Re: The Official Harley Spencer Thread!
Now, no offense, but why would I want to "learn" all that?
You see, this is what Janna, me, and other members on the board are talking about when we say that you aren't nice. Even when you say that you don't mean to offend, it is offensive. You say stuff like this all the time.
You Might not have poor intentions, but the comments themselves are poor, they come across rather shallow.
To answer your question, it's exactly what Happy says below. I'm more than just a body. If you can't listen to direction, take a hint, and actually care about what a particular girl wants and likes, why would any girl want to accept any of your propositions about giving us orgasms, trying you instead of our boyfriends, having babies with you, etc? We are real people. And being treated or talked to as if I'm nothing more than an object of sexual desire hits pretty close to home with me, which you can also read about in my journal. I've had quite a few people in my personal life, and in porn (which is a big reason why I quit porn, as you'd learn in my journal if you bothered to read it), treat me as if I were nothing but an object, so I've lost a lot of friends, been treated very disrespectfully (and still am every single day even when I go out for my morning coffee), so it bothers me pretty deeply.
THAT is why you would want to learn all that. To not make mistakes, to learn a little more about people other than yourself, to not rub people the wrong way.
Why would you want to get to know another human being better, to understand them? Especially one whose nipples you apparently want to suck on? You... you do know there's more to her than a body, right? She's totally a person. And a really cool one too. And interesting. And intelligent. And thoughtful. Absolutely worth getting to know better. :yesyes:
And c'mon be generous. It's 3:30 am here! 
