HARLEY, I was NOT implying you are stupid. At least not in this case. You know what made me think you are a stupid bitch once. But I got over that.
No, the facepalm wasn't even directed at you. It was more a facepalm to the situation and your guy! It's not fair of him to cum and "leave". That's not how a man should act. I'm not a feminist, but both should get the same chance of cumming.
I'm aware of your problems to orgasm! It's because you never had sex with me! Ha, just kidding. No, seriously, in your case it's all the more the guy's task to try to make you cum. Or you need to "work" at it together. Your guy is a douche (hence the facepalm) if he doesn't care about your orgasm!
The sex is not just to please him, but both of you! It's like a contract that both parties sign and both have to fulfill.
So your guy is just fucking you until he cums or what? What egoistic guy is that you have there? Rather take me. (Okay or HHJJ. :o)