The girl I want has a fiance, what should I do?

[Rey C.]

I just thought of something, if she'd cheat on that guy she'd probably do the same to me in the future if things weren't going as smoothly as before.

Ding, ding, ding!!! :thumbsup:

With that revelation, I think you're going to be OK. IMO, if you get mixed up with this winner, in 12 months, you'll be the boyfriend who allegedly beats her, steals her money and never wants to have sex. That's the story that'll be told while she's blowing your replacement.

You said that you work with her? Uh oh! Does she report to you? Are you breaking any company policies by having this relationship? Are you going to wind up having some drama, no matter what happens? Never play where you work.

 

[chimp]

Ding, ding, ding!!! :thumbsup:

With that revelation, I think you're going to be OK. IMO, if you get mixed up with this winner, in 12 months, you'll be the boyfriend who allegedly beats her, steals her money and never wants to have sex. That's the story that'll be told while she's blowing your replacement.

You said that you work with her? Uh oh! Does she report to you? Are you breaking any company policies by having this relationship? Are you going to wind up having some drama, no matter what happens? Never play where you work.

Well said Rey C !!!

 

[anomaly]

MOVE ON! There is no other intelligent option!

 

[Hot Mega]

Ding, ding, ding!!! :thumbsup:

With that revelation, I think you're going to be OK. IMO, if you get mixed up with this winner, in 12 months, you'll be the boyfriend who allegedly beats her, steals her money and never wants to have sex. That's the story that'll be told while she's blowing your replacement.

You said that you work with her? Uh oh! Does she report to you? Are you breaking any company policies by having this relationship? Are you going to wind up having some drama, no matter what happens? Never play where you work.

It's always pleasant to witness human epiphany.:angels:

I mean the moment that little light bulb illuminates in their little thought bubble is one of life's more priceless moments.

 

[jasonk282]

Ding, ding, ding!!! :thumbsup:

With that revelation, I think you're going to be OK. IMO, if you get mixed up with this winner, in 12 months, you'll be the boyfriend who allegedly beats her, steals her money and never wants to have sex. That's the story that'll be told while she's blowing your replacement.

You said that you work with her? Uh oh! Does she report to you? Are you breaking any company policies by having this relationship? Are you going to wind up having some drama, no matter what happens? Never play where you work.

NEVER mix business with pleasure, unless you own a porn company. It's way to risky as she can report you and possible have a sexual harassment case on you. MOVE ON before its to late.

 

[Paulo2221]

Could you not corner this guy and tell him too get lost ??? are else ?

 

[Hot Mega]

Could you not corner this guy and tell him too get lost ??? are else ?

That's an option...However, I suspect someone would end up in the morgue or hospital and someone else would end up in the news.

 

[zell]

It's obvious the the OP is the type of person that thrives on drama just as muck as this girl does.You either found yourself in a situation that you weren't prepared to be in,or you took advantage of this girl,knowing that there would be drama.I'm leaning towards the latter.

If you really want this girl,then the easiest thing to do is to treat her like shit like her fiance already does,just leave out the beatings and pay her a complement or two per week.That way her subconscious mind that craves the abuse with be satisfied and her rational mind will tell her that you are actually a good guy and that you actually like her.

It's all part of the pimp game.

 

[Rey C.]

Could you not corner this guy and tell him too get lost ??? are else ?

That's up to her, not up to him. She hasn't done anything to get the other guy out of her life, so it sounds to me like she's not as miserable as she lets on. She's probably just a drama queen who likes to slut around.

Guys need to learn to let the big head do the thinking, not the little head. Cause it's the big head that ends up getting bruised up when the little head is allowed to make decisions.

 

[broderic_randal]

just leave her the fuck alone

 

[Mrs Jolly]

Tell her you're not prepared to be the other guy, and when she dumps him she can have a spot on your dick, but not until then.

If you have more than one spot on your dick You Might want to see a doctor. If the doctor is a woman and she is hot, You Might want to shag her instead. Apparently women doctors with big tits and clipboards with nothing written on them are crazy for cock.

 

[mrtrebus]

That's up to her, not up to him. She hasn't done anything to get the other guy out of her life, so it sounds to me like she's not as miserable as she lets on. She's probably just a drama queen who likes to slut around.

Possibly. Although being in an abusive relationship is a complicated thing.

 

[ChefChiTown]

This is messed up but I have been conversing with a chick from work, who has a fiance, for the past 3 months. He went out of town and we went out and had sex in her apartment. It isn't just about the sex, I really enjoy her company and could see myself with her...The guy beats her, steals from her and, according to her, never wants to have sex. We have hooked up a few more times since then and she constantly tells me that she's going to leave him but I feel as though she's just stringing me along. Any advice?

I would invite her over for dinner one night and serve her the most delicious pot roast that she's ever eaten. Then, I'd put on some romantic music, ask her to dance and hold her in my arms for hours. I'd kiss her slowly and pull her close to my body so we could feel eachother's heartbeat. I'd look deep into her eyes, shooting beams of raw ecstasy into her soul. Then, just as the tension began to build and love was most certainly in the night air, I would stab her in the rib cage with a Phillips head screwdriver. Then, I would kick her to the ground as hard as I could and smother her face a dirty pair of underwear, preferably ones that had a fair amount of poop residue on them. Then, I'd put on an iCarly DVD and masturbate to it until the screaming stopped and she finally died. I'd pick up her dead body, move it to the garage and then hack it into hundreds of tiny pieces; ones that would slightly resemble Legos. I'd put the pieces into a Hefty bag, tie it closed and then leave it on the front lawn for the garbagemen to pick up in the morning. Then, I'd go finish any leftover pot roast.

OR, I would just realize that she's ENGAGED and leave her the fuck alone.

 

[raychik]

You're screwed, just leave her alone.

 

[sdj374]

So? The girl I want is married to Brad Pitt. You don't hear me complaining, do you? Some day Angelina, some day! :crying:

 

[Rey C.]

Possibly. Although being in an abusive relationship is a complicated thing.

If this is truly an abusive relationship and she's not just playing with the OP's head, then I agree with that. But at the end of the day, he's not a cop (AFAIK). So he'd best not try to play Mr. Tough Guy over somebody else's girl --> no win situation. And if her sad little life is so complicated that she can't figure out how to call 911, and either get him out of her house or herself out of his house, then I wouldn't mess with her.

I went out with a hot as hell girl a few years ago - sexy as all get out! She went from being divorced to separated in the span of a couple of weeks - she couldn't always keep her lies staight. Turned out, she was neither. Her kid, who I couldn't figure out why he looked at me like he wanted me dead, fessed up. His dad, her husband, was in the military and was stationed overseas! Of course that kid hated me - who could blame him?! He was only about 11 or 12, but he saw me as the guy who was breaking up his family. Yeah, I heard all the bullshit stories about how she divorced him because he "abused" her, yadda, yadda. Playing on my sympathies: struggling single mom... couldn't I be a good guy and help her buy little Carlos a Playstation for Christmas, etc.? Her middle name should have been "I Need" or "Gimme". If little Carlos had stopped giving me the evil eye, and hadn't spilled the beans, I might have been the sucker and fallen for that complete line of bullshit.

And yeah, she was without a doubt on my Top 10 Pussy List - she's still there (total freak! :nanner. But just because she could roll her hips like a wild thing and had the skills to be a porn star, I wasn't going to let myself get mixed up in her crazy, drama filled life. I ended up having to change my phone number because of that crazy thing - luckily she didn't know where I lived. Carlito dropped a dime on me to dear old dad when he got home on leave... and I had his silly ass calling me too - and I'd broken up with her months before! WTF?! I don't know if he ever beat her before, but he probably did after that. And ya know what? Not_My_Problem.

People like this are a friggin' nightmare! Don't get involved in their La Vida Loca, is my advice. I've yet to figure it out, but there can be 20 single girls and 1 (secretly) married girl in a room. And for whatever reason, it'll be the 1 married one that I'll end up with. I must put off some kind of weird energy or something.

 

[bodie54]

Apparently women doctors with big tits and clipboards with nothing written on them are crazy for cock.

:1orglaugh

 

[Alyssa Rose]

I would invite her over for dinner one night and serve her the most delicious pot roast that she's ever eaten. Then, I'd put on some romantic music, ask her to dance and hold her in my arms for hours. I'd kiss her slowly and pull her close to my body so we could feel eachother's heartbeat. I'd look deep into her eyes, shooting beams of raw ecstasy into her soul.

For a second there chef, you had me going.


Now OP, She's lying to you. She isn't 'abused' & if she is it's not a severe beating because she let his broccoli touch his chicken its probably more a long the lines of him yelling at her and calling her a stupid whore (which is a type of abuse, imo when you don't deserve it.) when he finds the condom wrappers on the floor. If she was really being beat, she wouldn't have come right out and told you. Victims of abuse usually tend to make up excuses for bruises and cuts, ie: I ran into the door again, I fell etc etc.. They don't usually come right out and cry abuse because they try to rationalize it in their head to where it ISN'T abuse, because they DON'T want to seem like a VICTIM. They want to feel that they are in control of the situation even thought it is clear that they aren't.

Get over her, daddy probably didn't give her enough hugs growing up and now she wants revenge on all men. She's an attention seeking whore and you got it right when you 'realized' that if she cheats on him she will cheat on you. Its true.

Get yourself a normal girl who doesn't need prozac.

 

[titsrock]

Yeah, I'm not sure the fiance is actually beating her or anything she said is actually true about her fiance. If she's willing to fuck, but not willing to end the relationship...hmmm...something smells rotten.

I say move on.

If she left her fiance after sleeping with the OP then I guess we'd have a great story and not much of a thread to discuss...:dunno:

 

[titsrock]

Yeah, I'm not sure the fiance is actually beating her or anything she said is actually true about her fiance. If she's willing to fuck, but not willing to end the relationship...hmmm...something smells rotten.

I say move on.

If she left her fiance after sleeping with the OP then I guess we'd have a great story and not much of a thread to discuss...:dunno: