Getting off with anal…
Dear Tera,
I love anal sex, but once I have my orgasm, I want to stop. I spasm, and my ass clamps so tight on my bf’s cock that it hurts really bad. He always gets mad because it happens before he is ready to cum, and then when it gets tighter he loves it even more. I either have to make him stop or continue with it even though I am in agony. If I don't stop after I cum then I am so sore for like 3-4 days after. Do other people have this problem and if so any suggestions on how to make it better or less painful?
semperscrewme69
Dear semperscrewme,
Anal sex can be very tricky. For every girl who clamps up after orgasm, there are two more whose asses relax and physically open up. You might try deep breathing and some concentrated relaxation during and after your orgasm. A lot of girls on the set have a few drinks or even take a muscle relaxer, as they know “relaxing” is the key to a good anal scene. I just shot my first anal movie, which will be released in the spring of 2006, entitled Teradise Island/Anal Fever, and found that my favorite anal position is reverse cowgirl. When I’m on top, supporting my weight with my legs, my tiny little butthole is more relaxed. Experiment with your partner and see what works. I know that when my man is fucking my ass, it’s very hard for me to get him to stop. If I am in excruciating pain and needing to stop, I offer to suck it straight out of my ass (in the business, we call this ATM: ass-to-mouth). This turns him on so much, he usually pops instantly. Tricks of the trade: clean diligently, and just breathe out!