Stereotypes pornstars really take offense to ...

Elwood70

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LucyOHara

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This is true. I have no soul.
:D

Wait... do souls tie in with melanin somehow? :confused:
It's possible.

I get the odd fleck of ginger in the ol' facewarmer, where do I stand on the whole soul thing?
Quiet, you! Get that facewarmer back down there and tickle that clam!!

... Having their pictures shown in ads without their permission. (Probably from an old webmaster) ...

Someone took a screen shot of my pic on a "Moms looking to get laid" pop up once... I was so confused. ><'
 

Petra

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Maggie Green

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Wow never really saw it that way because I always though that the looser a girl's pussy was, the better. Now what if you were having sex with a guy and afterwords he told you that your pussy feels loose yet really good, would you be offended by that?

FYI, do not ever tell a woman that you slept with that she has a loose pussy! Yes, it's offensive.
 

Deepcover

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Maggie Green[/URL][/B], post: 7510454, member: 346743"]FYI, do not ever tell a woman that you slept with that she has a loose pussy! Yes, it's offensive.

I'll have to remember this thanks
 
Well the whole having a "loose pussy" insult is a myth that guys who know next to nothing about sex assume happens when a girl has lots of sex. Vaginas are like rubber bands. They expand and retract, they stretch, they do not get bigger or more loose when fondled with more.

Anyway, in addition to the things already listed, what I take a lot of offense to is being treated like an object rather than a human being with a brain, heart, and soul. For example, people I get into relationships with assuming that I'm simply ok with them wanting to fuck other people while being with me because out of all people, since I do adult work, I should understand and them having sex with other people wouldn't bother me. Or people, be it online or in person, only talking to me as if I'm some sort of sex on legs, talking to me like, "Oh I bet you'd love to fuck my big hard cock. I bet you like it rough." And people asking me if I do adult work because I'm an exhibitionist or some shit, when in reality there is no real reason other than the fact that I'm comfortable with my body, there is no.... thought process behind it. I just like it. I don't get off on other people seeing me naked, I'm just comfortable with it, but people seem to think that we're some other species of woman entirely. Nah, I'm not a real person, I'm a walking sex object.

This is a great response Harley! I'm sorry people (including myself) don't/can't fully understand that. Thanks for being comfortable enough to share with us!
 
You know, the stereotype that all adult performers is pretty much true. The reason being called a slut, skank, whore, etc. is not because we don't think we are promiscuous, but because of the negative connotation the words hold. When people call someone a slut or other similar word, they mean it in a negative manner, as if it's so awful and disgusting to sleep with so many people. If the words weren't thought of as so negatively, it wouldn't be considered an insult.

This is an old thread I know, and it's somewhat off on a tangent, but since it was just bumped up I thought I would add something along the lines of what Harley said I have always observed. There just doesn't seem to be a negative term along the lines for slut or whore that's ever used for men. If a man sleeps with a bunch of women it's often seen as some great accomplishment and the guy might even be congratulated for it. The more juvenile among men high five each other for it. If anything he might be called a stud or people think he must be awesome. There is no negative term for them, and the rare person that actively speaks out against them for it are restricted to the most adherent of moral guardians that want to impose themselves on others. Yet women who do the same thing are considered sluts. There are no positive terms for them, and a gigantic portion of people no matter their moral outlook will have no problem calling them that and looking down on them. The stereotype existing in the first place is bad, but being so one sided makes it even worse.
 

LeyaFalcon

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When people assume I do privates or escorting that fuckin bothers me to the umpteenth degree. Or when they think I will fuck around with whoever off camera...oh and the whole drugs thing I get that a lot too even though ive never touched a hard drug in my life, I guess its understandable though a lot might think that as eclectic as I am.
 

Harley Spencer

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This is an old thread I know, and it's somewhat off on a tangent, but since it was just bumped up I thought I would add something along the lines of what Harley said I have always observed. There just doesn't seem to be a negative term along the lines for slut or whore that's ever used for men. If a man sleeps with a bunch of women it's often seen as some great accomplishment and the guy might even be congratulated for it. The more juvenile among men high five each other for it. If anything he might be called a stud or people think he must be awesome. There is no negative term for them, and the rare person that actively speaks out against them for it are restricted to the most adherent of moral guardians that want to impose themselves on others. Yet women who do the same thing are considered sluts. There are no positive terms for them, and a gigantic portion of people no matter their moral outlook will have no problem calling them that and looking down on them. The stereotype existing in the first place is bad, but being so one sided makes it even worse.

I completely agree. I guess it's just something we have to learn to live with, as I doubt the standard is ever going to change much. The only word I can really come up with that would be negative toward guys who sleep around a lot would be man-whore, though even that doesn't sound bad. People still don't take it seriously or hold it anywhere near the same light as for women.

Suppose the best way to handle it is to own up to how much you have sex. Be proud of it, don't defend yourself, just own it. If someone calls you a slut, say "So what?" In the end, it's all about jealousy, and by retaliating you're giving the accuser what they want. Give them an "I don't give a shit" attitude and they might stop to think about their stance for a second. The best way to start changing people's views on the matter is to act like you don't care. If it's treated as a big deal if a girl sleeps with so many guys, it always will be.
 

RichardNailder

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All of the men talking about "loose pussies" very matter of fact-ly but are 100% wrong just show their lack of experience with a real vagina. Pussies can stretch a LOT. they snap back. Many porn girls have super tight, tiny little vaginas. Now, assholes on the other hand.. not so much.

Obviously guys with more experience with assholes than pussy ;)
 

BlkHawk

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This is an old thread I know, and it's somewhat off on a tangent, but since it was just bumped up I thought I would add something along the lines of what Harley said I have always observed. There just doesn't seem to be a negative term along the lines for slut or whore that's ever used for men. If a man sleeps with a bunch of women it's often seen as some great accomplishment and the guy might even be congratulated for it. The more juvenile among men high five each other for it. If anything he might be called a stud or people think he must be awesome. There is no negative term for them, and the rare person that actively speaks out against them for it are restricted to the most adherent of moral guardians that want to impose themselves on others. Yet women who do the same thing are considered sluts. There are no positive terms for them, and a gigantic portion of people no matter their moral outlook will have no problem calling them that and looking down on them. The stereotype existing in the first place is bad, but being so one sided makes it even worse.

Sure there is a negative sexual term for men. It is just the opposite of women, virgin.

Take a man and woman both 25: Female virgin - she is saving herself for the man she falls in love with. Male virgin - loser, or what the hell is wrong with that guy.

As mentioned before it is a double standard, it just works in opposite for the sexes. Like all stereotypes it is rather silly.
 

SabrinaDeep

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I don't know. I read about this thing of adult performers getting "hurt" when called sluts and i keep not understanding it, so i guess it's either a limit of mine or a limit of theirs.
If we are talking adult performers, here, and not softcore nude models and exhibitionists leaking sexual intercourses with their beloved one:

- You cannot take a word out of context. If it's fans calling adult performers sluts, it's not like a total stranger calling you a slut after an altercation.
- We shoot movies and clips where we get called sluts all the time while being hammered like champs and we often even encourage that type of language
- We ourselves use that term in a dense way on our websites, videos titles and descriptions, blogs etc aka keyword stuffing because you never know...you could make a sale from someone looking for a slut taking dicks like a champ.
- We are promiscuous, and we are openly promiscuous: so openly that we make a living out of taking dicks up our twats and asses like champs
- Even if all the above wasn't enough, i always notice that most of the girls who complain about being called sluts, call real and potential fans dickheads, small-dicked, fat asses, losers, retards, ugly, wankers (and i could keep going forever) any time these people simply disagree with them about something or are critic about something: don't do to them what you don't want them to do to you, someone once said.

To me a slut is a woman who has many casual sexual partners and i see no stereotype in calling slut an adult performer; the stereotype eventually is pretending not to be called a slut when you are an adult performer taking casual dicks like a champ.
How could porn even exist without sluts? Isn't porn about slutty women being open and proud of taking casual cocks like champs for a living? What am i missing here?
Who cares if in our private life we fuck only our husband or partner (not my case, but that's a different matter)? When we are an adult performer and interact with people with our adult performer name, we are that adult performer, not the loyal, monogamous next door girl. We proudly tell people that we make a living out of being sluts and this can be thrown back at us, sometimes. I'd be tempted to say "Don't do porn if you don't want to be called a slut and seen as one". Well, i've said it ;)
 
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I don't know. I read about this thing of adult performers getting "hurt" when called sluts and i keep not understanding it, so i guess it's either a limit of mine or a limit of theirs.
If we are talking adult performers, here, and not softcore nude models and exhibitionists leaking sexual intercourses with their beloved one:

- You cannot take a word out of context. If it's fans calling adult performers sluts, it's not like a total stranger calling you a slut after an altercation.
- We shoot movies and clips where we get called sluts all the time while being hammered like champs and we often even encourage that type of language
- We ourselves use that term in a dense way on our websites, videos titles and descriptions, blogs etc aka keyword stuffing because you never know...you could make a sale from someone looking for a slut taking dicks like a champ.
- We are promiscuous, and we are openly promiscuous: so openly that we make a living out of taking dicks up our twats and asses like champs
- Even if all the above wasn't enough, i always notice that most of the girls who complain about being called sluts, call real and potential fans dickheads, small-dicked, fat asses, losers, retards, ugly, wankers (and i could keep going forever) any time these people simply disagree with them about something or are critic about something: don't do to them what you don't want them to do to you, someone once said.

To me a slut is a woman who has many casual sexual partners and i see no stereotype in calling slut an adult performer; the stereotype eventually is pretending not to be called a slut when you are an adult performer taking casual dicks like a champ.
How could porn even exist without sluts? Isn't porn about slutty women being open and proud of taking casual cocks like champs for a living? What am i missing here?
Who cares if in our private life we fuck only our husband or partner (not my case, but that's a different matter)? When we are an adult performer and interact with people with our adult performer name, we are that adult performer, not the loyal, monogamous next door girl. We proudly tell people that we make a living out of being sluts and this can be thrown back at us, sometimes. I'd be tempted to say "Don't do porn if you don't want to be called a slut and seen as one". Well, i've said it ;)
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I'd be tempted to say : "You're a slut, embrace it !".

I mean, is it wrong to be a slut, to be promiscuous, etc ? Who said it is wrong ? Being in the adult industry shouldn't be something to be ashamed of : By your work, you're bringing joy (would I go ever further and say "happiness" ?) to many men, you're job is pefectly legal, you don't hurt or cause harm to anyone, you make good many, you pay your taxes, etc...

Our society decided that porn is shameful but as a matter of fact, from a moral point of view working I think it should me much more shameful to be in the arms industry than in the porn industry, I think it should be much more shameful to be a wall street trader than a pornstar.
 
I'm impressed by this thread: pornstars seem to be much more clever than average people (and it's not a surprise).
My English is horrible, but the idea I'm trying to express is that pornstars deserve my esteem :)
 
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