Stereotypes pornstars really take offense to ...

[Johan]

A few corrections...

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I'd be tempted to say : "You're a slut, embrace it !".

I mean, is it wrong to be a slut, to be promiscuous, etc ? Who said it is wrong ? Being in the adult industry shouldn't be something to be ashamed of : By your work, you're bringing joy (would I go ever further and say "happiness" ?) to many men, you're job is pefectly legal, you don't hurt or cause harm to anyone, you make good many, you pay your taxes, etc...

Our society decided that porn is shameful but, from a moral point of view, I think it should be much more shameful to be in the arms industry than in the porn industry. I think it should be much more shameful to be a wall street trader than a pornstar.

 

[D-rock]

Sure there is a negative sexual term for men. It is just the opposite of women, virgin.

Take a man and woman both 25: Female virgin - she is saving herself for the man she falls in love with. Male virgin - loser, or what the hell is wrong with that guy.

As mentioned before it is a double standard, it just works in opposite for the sexes. Like all stereotypes it is rather silly.

I don't know. I'm not saying you don't have a point, but I don't think it's totally the same. I've rarely heard fully grown mature adults rag on somebody for being a virgin, especially if it's by choice. At least in a matter that was hostile anyhow, and wasn't blatantly obvious it was good natured ribbing between friends. I'm sure there are jerks that have never grown up that still do it though. Even then it's something a lot of them won't utter very publicly for fear of then being called out as the idiots they are. Pretty much a wide encompassing group of people will still think of promiscuous women as sluts however, and most of them don't care who else hears them say it. Even more so is, and something that kind of makes this a moot point, is that any more being a virgin when there is a negative stigma behind it is almost as bad for a woman as it is for a man. Decades ago you might have had a point, but I don't know if there really is that big of a double standard anymore as the gap in perception closes and the silly expectation that everybody have sex at an early age continues.

 

[Little Red Wagon Repairman]

Maggie Green[/URL][/B], post: 7507955, member: 346743"]Anyway, who DOES like stereotypes about their group? I'm pretty sure nobody does.

As a White man I don't mind. Mostly good but I take delight in reminding people we're kinda serial killy.

 

[fkknuckle]

Aaliyah Love[/URL][/B], post: 8586206, member: 370968"]Now, assholes on the other hand.. not so much.

Kinda like swinging a baseball bat in a two car garage

 

[BusterLoads]

I mean, is it wrong to be a slut, to be promiscuous, etc ?

Only if you're with someone that doesn't know you're being a slut with other people.

 

[Aaliyah Love]

Kinda like swinging a baseball bat in a two car garage

or throwing a hotdog down a hallway..

or.. any of those other lame, tired metaphors LOL!

 

[BusterLoads]

Aaliyah Love[/URL][/B], post: 8588489, member: 370968"]or throwing a hotdog down a hallway..

or.. any of those other lame, tired metaphors LOL!

Tired maybe but still gets the point across.