There's a girl that a friend of mine (supposedly our friendhip is close like "brothers") met at the bowling alley one day he started talkin 2 her but from wut he told me he only liked her as a friend n got her number. He then says he got her number for his actual brother cuz he sed he liked her. Now his actual brother we were friends at 1 point but over the years we havent been close like we used to but the 1st friend i'm mentioning we are cool like i sed "brothers". Came 2 find out the girl didnt like the friend i used 2 be cool with so i came in n started talkin 2 her but i knew my friend (supposedly brother) was talkin 2 her 1st n wen i came in n talked 2 her i told him if its ok if i can talk 2 her cuz i liked her too. He said it was fine n that he only liked her as a friend. As me n her started talkin she tells me she likes my friend (so called brother) so i kinda try n hook them up but then me n her got kinda close n she started building up feelings for me (from always talkin late at night to like 5am) after i tried hookin those 2 up i guess my friend felt like he didnt want 2 get into a relationship wit her for his own personal reasons so after that was all said n dun, me n her got close even more n for the record we didnt have sex but we did mess around. Anyway the more i think that me n her got sumthin goin on, i notice her still talkin 2 my friend "brother" n 1 day wen we were at a walgreens she went inside n i waited in the truck n she leaves her cell phone. I go thru the phone n i see her textin my friend "brother" n i see dirty text messages in there n them callin each other baby n all that bs. Now 1 thing i do kno is that she duz still have feelings for him but she says she has feelings for me too but everytime wen i confront my friend about how he feels about her its always the same n he says i jus like her as a friend until like maybe a couple weeks ago. Now he says he has strong feelings for her n that he loves her now im lookin at it like so basically u lied to me about it for the past 7 months on this situation. Me n the girl has had arguments about it cuz i feel like maybe she has a hard time moving on n then shes gunna throw at me well ur not my man so stop makin demands but the only reason y im makin demands is cuz maybe i let my feelings get the best of me n also at the end of the day my focus is always on her. I have nobody else. But her focus is on me n my friend "brother" (for the record we also had arguments about her ex still being in her life too she says she has no feelings for him at all but i know he still has feelings for her. I think becuz they still comunicate every once in a while but shes not getting anything good from him) anyway to make a long story longer idk wut to do i still care for her n i still want 2 have sumthing with her but since we already got into a few arguments idk what she really wants from me but she still says she has feelings for me. And idk wut 2 do about my friend "brother" cuz he basically lied to me....anyway idk wut 2 do. does it make me look like more of the bad guy because i should've respected my friends wishes even though he was talkin to her 1st? Should I still remain friends with my friend and the girl or should i just back away from both for a lil while? Because of this situation things between me n my friend have gotten awkward. And have anybody on here ever been in a similar situation? btw i'm 29 my friend is 20 n the girl is 19. She can also be some what of an attention seeker. and also i have asked other close friends for advice about this situation and they all told me to walk away but I want to see other people's advice to see if sumthin different comes up before i make a final decision. Any advice will help. Thanx.
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Relationship Advice: Me and my friend like the same girl
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Ace Boobtoucher
Founder and Captain of the Douchepatrol
Use paragraphs, proper words, and punctuation. I assure you, this advice will help and more people will be prone to read your post (which I tried, then gave up on).
^ don't listen to him. Nothing says alpha male like a wall of text and words like "becuz" and "sumthin".
Fuck spellin' and grammar; you're too busy gettin' laid.
Is he? See, I didn't get that far...
Me neither.
:1orglaugh
Ace Bandage
The one and only.
I only read the title, but I would venture to guess that you have a rival for a female's attention... murder him.
Gator don't play no shit.
Gator don't play no shit.
BCT
Pucker Up Butter Cup.
Gators bitches better be wearing Jimmy's.
Ace Boobtoucher
Founder and Captain of the Douchepatrol
Neither your story nor your typing correlate to that.
Anyway......
a) You went through her phone? That sucks. You don't trust her straight away, that's a great start.
b) She has been fooling around with your friend and kept it from you. That she kept it from you should set off warning bells.
c) He told you he wasn't interested in her, but then obviously stuff has happened that he's kept from you. That should set off warning bells.
If I wanted to be harsh I'd say all three of you sound like dicks, but they're kids so maybe I let them off. Either way, there's no trust involved between you and either of them so leave the pair of them to it and try hanging around with people your own age if you want to find a relationship, which this doesn't sound like. Oh, and stop going through girls' phones when opportunity presents itself.
Ace Boobtoucher
Founder and Captain of the Douchepatrol
Anyone who asks for relationship advice on a porn forum deserve the advice they get.
lmfaooo yeah sorry for the grammar i did it from my phone thats why
bobjustbob
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This situation is going to be difficult to manage because, believe it or not, you and them are of 2 different levels of maturity. Sure he's your brother, your younger brother. Your discussions with each of them separately is a foreign language to them. When the 2 of them get together they talk about you as the old man. All 3 of you going out and doing stuff together is fun but that's not all that is going on. You and your brother are each reaching out for her attention and have been doing so for the past several months. At some point you want a choice to be made. The problem is that neither of them thinks a choice has to be made.
You mentioned that your talks with her gave you the impression that the 2 of you have something going on. Have you taken any steps to move it to that level? Spend 100 bucks on her. Don't go to a club or show. Those are places that people get distracted from each other. Go to the mall together and buy her a blouse or 2. The rest of the $100 you treat her to Red Lobster. You have now spent quality time together and she has more than just your talk to go by. Will it work and change her mind? We won't know until you try. 100 bucks will surely show that you are stepping up your game.
You mentioned that your talks with her gave you the impression that the 2 of you have something going on. Have you taken any steps to move it to that level? Spend 100 bucks on her. Don't go to a club or show. Those are places that people get distracted from each other. Go to the mall together and buy her a blouse or 2. The rest of the $100 you treat her to Red Lobster. You have now spent quality time together and she has more than just your talk to go by. Will it work and change her mind? We won't know until you try. 100 bucks will surely show that you are stepping up your game.
Oh yeah, now we're talking. Once you spend $100 or more on someone, they'll obsess over you forever.
Ace Boobtoucher
Founder and Captain of the Douchepatrol
Bob weighs in with a thoughtful, coherent suggestion.
FUCK YOU AND YOUR LOGIC, BOB!
"You must spread one hundred bucks around before you can give it to bobjustbob again."
FUCK YOU AND YOUR LOGIC, BOB!
"You must spread one hundred bucks around before you can give it to bobjustbob again."
Ace Bandage
The one and only.
Well, one of them pees on girls, and the other one made not one... but two songs about cheating on his girlfriend.
But here's some advice anyway: if you're suspicious, call your friend and sing to him about what's going on.
But here's some advice anyway: if you're suspicious, call your friend and sing to him about what's going on.
Ace Boobtoucher
Founder and Captain of the Douchepatrol
I have come to a conclusion. There is not a problem facing anyone that a hundred bucks won't solve.
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