...you're (imo) giving too much of yourself over to your fantasy world. If Isobel Wren has set a benchmark for you that's cool, but it would seem healthier (to me) for you to look for someone with her qualities in the real world, rather than being limited by a sort of distant fixation on an "idol". The foregoing assumes that you'd ordinarily be interested in persuing a real time relationship with someone, which, though it sounds like you would, may not actually be the case.
There’s a couple of issues here. First of all, in my experience, and even in what I can extrapolate from my own experience and interpolate from what I see of others, real-life relationships suck – the marriage that I’m in right now being a special case of this general proposition. I find it really hard to imagine a real-life relationship that doesn’t suck, unless you can assume that the partners are something other than normal human beings. For a few months, or even a few years, maybe, there can be a sort of magic that enables people to live together without starting to hate each other, but when the magic wears off, people are just people, and it doesn’t make sense to me that two people can share their lives without being in each other’s way.
Second, if I may say so in this forum, there’s more to life than sex. In fact (assuming one is going to be in a relationship at all, which I don’t recommend), it’s usually a bad idea to choose the person who excites you the most sexually, unless by some unusual chance you happen to be compatible in other ways. I will go so far as to say that, if a real-life relationship with Isobel were a possibility for me, I don’t think it’s one I would choose to pursue (even if I were constrained to pursue a relationship with
someone, which unfortunately I think is perhaps a constraint placed by human nature). I’m immensely fond of her, but that doesn’t mean I think we would make a good couple (even if I could be adjusted into a more appropriate demographic category). And I'm not even taking into account the problems inherent in any relationship between a mortal and a goddess.
