My POSSIBLE Hiatus/Retirement

[Gordar]

It's not like I'm trying to be a jerk here, I'm not trying to pick on Kimora and I don‘t want to be the bad guy, but I have to ask something. Just in a common sense way, how can anybody in the industry think that what they do will never get out, especially in the Internet age when it was almost impossible to hide it before.

True. We dutch have saying...

Al is de leugen nog zo snel, de waarheid achterhaalt haar wel.

Translation

Even though the lie is very fast, the truth will catch up.

Simply put, don't lie or keep essential info from people that have influence over you or that you care about, because they'll find out evenually & then all hell will break loose, as you might have found out by now.

 

[Icewater Jones]

Wow, that's pretty heavy Kimora. Even though this is a tough L to take, you gotta remember that you still gotta live your own life, and in it, you make the calls on your own happiness. It's like my mom says: 'If you want something enough, it becomes a need... and it's pretty damn hard to stop somebody from getting what they need'.

If this lifestyle is a need for you in your life, that is the way you'll live. Hopefully those in your life will see that need and understand you fulfilling that, even if they don't accept it. Blood is still gonna be blood, and it's always been thicker than water, so their understanding will take time, their acceptance could however take as long as never, but as long as they accept you and not what you do...

Everything will work itself out.

 

[Jane Burgess]

but the accept hardcore pics ?

The only hardcore I have ever shot is with my man that I have been with for years. I have also only shot it for my website, so I own all of the content. So in that case, yes they are fine with it.

 

[lurkingdirk]

Work it out, and do what you want to. In the long run, they'll be fine. You're blood. Do your thing, they'll accept whatever eventually.

Good luck

 

[316sherm]

Hey hey hey good bye

 

[LaLiLuLeLohan]

Family first. I'll miss seeing new content from you, but you're making the right decision by choosing the ones who'll be there for you no matter what.

Family first? Above self? Even when your own actions don't impact the lives of others?

I suppose I should be a Catholic than. My family's Catholic and they're disappointed that I'm smart enough to not belive in that bullshit.

I don't know. I don't mean to be a dick, but it seems that people are willing to give up on life to appease family...meanwhile, family's a matter of luck and lottery. Most of us agree that society sucks once it begins to feed off of the ignorance of each other, but family's exempted? Based on what? DNA?

When you're dealing with someone who is both an adult and not a spouse, ultimatums are for assholes. There are no exceptions. Being a loving family member shouldn't depend on somebody's career or recreation.

Blood IS thicker than water. But idiots and assholes are really fucking thick as well.

 

[Peashooter]

That had to be hard to break it to the family like that. I hope everything works out.

 

[Rey C.]

Family first? Above self? Even when your own actions don't impact the lives of others?

I suppose I should be a Catholic than. My family's Catholic and they're disappointed that I'm smart enough to not belive in that bullshit.

I don't know. I don't mean to be a dick, but it seems that people are willing to give up on life to appease family...meanwhile, family's a matter of luck and lottery. Most of us agree that society sucks once it begins to feed off of the ignorance of each other, but family's exempted? Based on what? DNA?

When you're dealing with someone who is both an adult and not a spouse, ultimatums are for assholes. There are no exceptions. Being a loving family member shouldn't depend on somebody's career or recreation.

Blood IS thicker than water. But idiots and assholes are really fucking thick as well.

Kimora seems like a bright girl. So I'm sure she's smart enough to think things through on her own. She has shared this bit of her life with us, but only she knows the relationship she has with her family and what that means to her. She says that she currently lives in her parents' house. And while she may not be happy with their reaction to this or how this was handled (with her grandparents), the fact remains, it is their house... and so their rules. I'm sure that as bad a day as this was for Kimora, it probably wasn't the best day of their lives either.

Family first? Abso-fucking-lutely! Very few people (successfully) go through this life as an island. Does that mean that you jump through hoops to please your family? No. But you sure as hell would look to your family before you'd listen to a bunch of anonmymous swinging dicks on a message board, whose only real attraction to you is the fact that you've got a pretty ass and sexy tits. There may be some who are delusional or just liars who'll say different... that they love her and they'd marry her tomorrow. And she seems like the kind of sharp girl who'd shoot back: "Muthafucka, please! You don't even know me!" (probably her exact words too ) If she was (God forbid) in a car crash, what a great many people here would really care about is whether or not she still had a pretty face and no scars on her body. And the same would probably be true of every porn producer she's ever known. The ones she's become close to might feel bad and might slide her a few bucks, but they're not going to make a job for her or take care of her financial issues in her time of need. I suspect her family, whether she's on the outs with them or not, WOULD be there for her.

Obviously, some people have closer/tighter families than others. But only a fool would choose a stranger over his/her family - and let's face it, everyone who doesn't share your blood is a stranger (and even some who do). People should do what they feel is right for them. But they can usually do that in a way that doesn't distance them from the people who will likely be there if they fall on their ass. At least that's the way it is for those of us lucky enough to have familes. I know not everyone is so blessed.

I wish Kimora well. I hope things work out for her. And I hope things work out so that she can maintain a healthy relationship with her family.

 

[Lust]

Family first? Above self? Even when your own actions don't impact the lives of others?

I suppose I should be a Catholic than. My family's Catholic and they're disappointed that I'm smart enough to not belive in that bullshit.

I don't know. I don't mean to be a dick, but it seems that people are willing to give up on life to appease family...meanwhile, family's a matter of luck and lottery. Most of us agree that society sucks once it begins to feed off of the ignorance of each other, but family's exempted? Based on what? DNA?

When you're dealing with someone who is both an adult and not a spouse, ultimatums are for assholes. There are no exceptions. Being a loving family member shouldn't depend on somebody's career or recreation.

Blood IS thicker than water. But idiots and assholes are really fucking thick as well.

just a matter of who you're family is. some people hate their dad for beating the shit of them every day of thier childhood or hate their mom for never approving of anything they did etc....

but some people like me love their family more than any amount of money, or other material possession because of the care, respect and loving nurturing they gave me. sure i'm an adult and can make my own decisions but i'm very eager to make my parents proud of me because i respect them tremendously. i actually have friends who want my parents respect more than they want their own parents respect. i'm just fortunate to have very awesome parents, i guess. siblings, well they can be dicks....thats another story though. if i decided to do porn my dad would probably laugh and my mom would probably just roll her eyes and thats probably the worst that would happen.

i love my family very much, the time i spend with them is exponentially more rewarding than the time i spend with others with the exception of my GF and far more rewarding than any material possession i've had or wanted. so yes, i would put family before any career you can name including porn and i'd still be happy and satisfied with my answer. the problem here seems to be is that others would not be happy and satisfied with my answer and they would berate me for not following what they think i should do. at that point i'd say they had become the very monster they claim to be fighting.

fortunately my family is not the type of family that would look down on me for a career decision and the fact that this is what they are like, makes me even more galvanized in doing things to earn thier respect and approval. the reason is that thier respect and approval means far more to me than respect and approval of anonymous people i will never meet and want to watch me fuck in front of a camera. call me crazy. i know a lot of people at work that pursue their career simply to impress thier friends. i prefer my own current reasons. as far as approving myself of my own actions, the smartest most intelligent and loving people i know love the fact that i love what im doing. you can't put a dollar amount on that no matter how hard you try.

different beliefs, different families, different results. one size doesnt fit all. perhaps the relationship kimora has with her family is very important to her and she wants to do everything that she can do while keeping some form of independence and familily continuity. who are we to judge?

 

[~~whimsy~~]

It seems some have a neutral or "who cares what the family says" stance on it because it doesn't directly affect them. However, I wonder how they would react if they would find out their own daughter/granddaughter is doing hardcore sex in many forms for the world to see, most likely a different tune will be coming out.

If one can directly piss their family off for whatever reason, whatever, I don't care. Thing is, Kimora is obviously going to respect her family's wishes, especially considering the fact she is living under their roof and going to either temporarily stop or stop all for good in the business. Either way, it is her choice, and she is doing what will keep her family from abandoning her. It might not mean much to some, but to others, family respect is important. And the porn business is usually a temporary business anyways. It's good to start on college and have a safety net in a college degree.

I am sure it was very emotional when she was confronted and feelings were running rampant on both sides. In the end, that's over with, at least her family didn't disown her or anything. She is looking to move out; which hopefully isn't jumping the gun on a financial stance.

When you are in the porno business: one day the family will find out and when they do it will go one way or the other.

It seems her family is indeed a family and full of unconditional love, because they obviously didn't stop loving her and all that, hopefully everything will heal over time if there should be any bad blood and be worked out.

I hope your college goes over well and you end up good to go :hatsoff:

 

[YumiYumi_1988]

Damn that sucks. Good luck with everything, vaya con dios

 

[P Smith]

Kimora should do whatever is most consistent with her values. We should respect her decision and wish her well with it.

 

[GuidoCA]

Kimora should do whatever is most consistent with her values. We should respect her decision and wish her well with it.

That was very well said P Smith. Only we ourselves know what is truly right for us.

Kimora, I hope things work out well for you. Don't worry about the fans. True fans and friends would want you to be happy and healthy regardless of their own concerns. I've found that things in life often work out when you give them time and don't try to force things to happen.

Also, even if you are not doing any porn work, please keep tweeting. I know you've been concerned in the past that you should only discuss porn related things. But many of us have said we enjoy hearing from you no matter the topic. And as I've said, people are the most interesting when they're truly just being themselves. In other words, follow the wisdom of that great Taoist philosopher Popeye, "I yam what I yam and that's all that I yam."

Wishing you the very best,

Guido

 

[P Smith]

Also, even if you are not doing any porn work, please keep tweeting. I know you've been concerned in the past that you should only discuss porn related things. But many of us have said we enjoy hearing from you no matter the topic. And as I've said, people are the most interesting when they're truly just being themselves. In other words, follow the wisdom of that great Taoist philosopher Popeye, "I yam what I yam and that's all that I yam."

Wishing you the very best,

Guido

Yes! I've really enjoyed reading her tweets. I would hate for her just to completely disappear.

 

[KimoraKlein]

Update!

UPDATE 1/31:
I will not be retiring permanently, but will be on a brief hiatus.​

There is still no internet at my house, I am currently at my grandparents' using theirs.

I am not being kicked out of my house, but I have always felt it would be the best choice to live out of my parents'. The reason why I was there in the first place is because they're the types that want me to be close at all times and think it's silly for me to have to pay for rent when I can live with them for free. The only reason why I stayed there is because there was never a point in time over the past year in which I had enough money to pay a first and last month's rent. I was not working enough to save that kind of money. Today they explained they don't want me to leave, but I feel inappropriate because I have younger siblings in the house.

My plan is to first find a part-time job, save up, move out, and continue my adult career. I have invested far too much of my time, energy and money into all of this to just quit it all like that.

Thanks again for all the kind words.

P.S. I will personally autograph 4 or 5 Belladonna's Fuck Face DVDs to auction off ASAP. The only DVD so far where you can see my no-tonsils deep throating in action! Please watch my Twitter, @kimoraklein, for when I post these up. I will also shortly advertise it on FO.

P.P.S. Just checked -- something else I shot in LA the other week is now published at OnlyTeenBlowjobs.com. Here's a cap. If you can find me a trailer or more caps, please let me know! Otherwise, this is the only page I can find with pictures.

I love you guys! :wave2:

 

[Rey C.]

Again, the very best of luck to you, Kimora. I believe you have the spirit and intelligence to do a great variety of things. :thumbsup:

 

[titsrock]

If you're looking for non-industry related part-time jobs...maybe try Costco? They pay really well.
Or, try to find a part-time job that will still help you with your porn career--a job at Borders so you can stock up on Graphic Design books and computer textbooks?

Just don't do anything rash or impulsive. There's no sense making a difficult situation worse. Porn ain't going anywhere and you can always come back in with a new perspective...new ideas, etc.

 

[KimoraKlein]

If you're looking for non-industry related part-time jobs...maybe try Costco? They pay really well.
Or, try to find a part-time job that will still help you with your porn career--a job at Borders so you can stock up on Graphic Design books and computer textbooks?

Just don't do anything rash or impulsive. There's no sense making a difficult situation worse. Porn ain't going anywhere and you can always come back in with a new perspective...new ideas, etc.

That's funny, I just got back from Costco. I don't think I could work in something so retail-based -- I'm trying to find a paid internship at an ad or creative firm. Otherwise I'd much rather a service job.

Good news, I just checked my e-mail and I have an interview tomorrow at a day spa! I think I'd make an awesome receptionist. :]

That's SO true about porn not going anywhere. That's exactly how I feel. Thanks for... getting it!

 

[Skyraider22]

I'm still wishing you all the luck in the world and hope to hear from you soon:hatsoff::wave2:

 

[whoremaker]

Tough situation. I understand the pull of family wanting you to live a certain way and the conflict of fearing to lose them if you don't. It's a horrible place to be, and whatever you do, I wish you happiness and best of luck.

That said, I offer this. You are living your life. They aren't going to live it for you, and you can't live theirs for them. Ultimately, you must follow the path of your choosing, even if that means disapproval from your family. Trust me, you can try to live their way, but that is a long, unhappy road which eventually ends in resentment, bitterness and an even worse strain on your relationships. Tough decisions lie ahead, but it is your life, and your happiness which you should be most concerned with.

I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. Best of luck, gorgeous!