Ladies, Do You Like Guys That Are Jerks Or Assholes?

[alexpnz]

I've heard that all women like older chauvinist guys who have plenty of euros.


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.....the fuck?
That's the worst picture I've seen in years.

Nice find.....

 

[Little Red Wagon Repairman]

Yeah.. isn't everyone an asshole in their teens/early twenties? I know I was, and most of the people I hung out with were, too! LOL! But hopefully you live and learn.. some people do, some don't

I was fat growing up and a sheltered Catholic School boy. I couldn't get a date in high school. I got in shape at 21 and had a serious chip on my shoulder. The more bad behavior I was rewarded with the worse I became. Later on I realized that I didn't sleep with women for my pleasure but mainly to stroke my ego bragging to my friends about it. If I could do it all over again I would do it all over again. A 20-something character has immaturity and lack of experience as some excuse but if you're over 40 that makes you a lecherous sleazeball. I'm just enough of a pervert to enjoy this board and a few dirty massages here and there.

Aaliyah, I'm glad you go out with nice fellas. You are the smart one and you know your decision is what pays off over time. I hope you have influence over many other ladies too.

 

[Little Red Wagon Repairman]

I've heard that all women like older chauvinist guys who have plenty of euros.


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.....the fuck?
That's the worst picture I've seen in years.

Nice find.....

I agree. Excellent job. The contrast is hideous. Keep up the good work.

 

[cestmoi2010]

I was young and dumb. I don't think I should be held accountable for any of my stupid decisions from when I was young lol! I learned my lesson and moved on tho.. You men spend too much time trying to figure out WHY a woman does what she does. but most of the time, you don't believe you when we tell you anyways.

Here's an example of something I've encountered on this very board MANY times:
"All pornstars are gold diggers!"
me: "Ive never dated a guy who made more money than me or had anybody but myself pay my bills. I grew up poor and work my ass off to pay my bills. I live in a small apartment in the valley. what?"
forum guys: "yeah right, she's lying!"

LOL.. Seriously, just be yourself and hang around like minded people. If some chick is gna date an asshole, let her. She's too dumb for you anyways.

Also, being NICE is a BARE MINIMUM. You don't get laid just because you're a good person. I always hear guys whine about "why don't chicks like NICE GUYS?!" but.. what do you have to offer.. in terms of personality, passions of yours, things to talk about, etc? Maybe sometimes the "bad guys" get picked over someone who is "nice" because they are intriguing. They have things going on in their lives that are interesting other than being a "nice dude" and a "good listener."

Personally I'm attracted to multi-faceted guys.. Guys who are passionate about SOMETHING, and pursue that passion. Someone who has interests and hobbies and family and friends in their life whom they are social and active with. Someone who's going to have more going on in their life than just a job they hate and... ME. I also like to date people I feel are slightly out of my league. People who I think are smarter than me and have their life figured out a little more than I do. They inspire me and attract me.

After I posted a few scathing replies this one might catch people (and you) a tad off guard here

I've never net you. Probably never will (Your loss )

I 100% agree that what and how we acted when we were younger shouldn't be held against us if we have shown signs that we have changed and matured. I know people get married at 18, or so. I know I NEVER could have gotten married before completing college. The thought of another person to be responsible for (and if I had a kid - even more than 1) is something I couldn't have done. But I knew it. I am 100% sure if I had gotten married before I was 25 at least 1 of us would have ended up DEAD - if not both of us. But the key here s "I knew that" so I didn't put myself in that situation and thus I am older and don't have any felonies for beating someone up or killing them.

When I was 18-25 what I looked for in a woman was nothing more than a hot face and bod so we could fuck 24/7. Talking and working things out? NOT important to me - just her spreading her legs and mouth for me to stick my cock inside them. The only talking I wanted to do was "Ready to go again?"

Now that I am a tad older and somewhat more mature the type of woman I want is far different. Her looks are important but not the "be all/end all" for me. I know you can't have a successful relationship of any kind without 2-way communication and trust. I am 180-degrees now of what I used to be.

I have been lucky enough to meet a ton of Playmates/Porn Stars/Models and the like. I see that a large number of them are devoid of logic and brains. I now understand why so many Playmates and Models are single and in their 30s or older and might never get married (again?). They are annoying to be with in public so I can only imagine how bad they are in private.

There are exceptions but for the most part you will not find a more insecure group of women with low self-esteem than women who make their living with their body. They fret over everything because if they gain 3 ounces it greatly affects their livelihood.........which is why so many SMOKE cigarettes - it depresses their appetite and keeps them thinner than if they don't.

I have said this about you before...............you strike me as someone who is fun to be with and someone who makes a guy happy he is in a relationship with you. On our first date I could see it lasting 5+ hours with us doing nothing but talking - and having it be something where we never know it lasted 5 hours until it was over because we had so much fun. You appear to be well grounded and someone who when I took home to Mom and Dad for the first time to have you meet them they would fall in love with you as much as I am - which is why I brought you over. You have that sly, seductive grin and smirk that is so very appealing and sexy.

I know you would probably love to find a guy to spend forever with - and I don't blame you. You seem like a very worthy "catch" and unlike the example of the woman I gave - I could see the guy marrying you being very happy and never wanting to leave or cheat. More importantly - if you ever have a kid I am 100% sure that kid will know how lucky they are to have a mother like you.

I realize you would like to find that "someone special" but I tell people: As much as I would like to be with someone I know the only thing worse than being single is being in a committed relationship with someone you don't want to be with and/or can't stand. Marrying someone just to be married is awful when 5 years later you have 2 kids and a mortgage and things get nasty and everyone loses in the divorce.

I know you don't get down on yourself - but hold your head up high (or as high as you can at your height) and DO NOT SETTLE! If the guy you are with doesn't make you #1 in his life - dump him and find someone who will. Find someone who loves his mother but isn't a Momma's Boy and who will side with you over his Mom if need be. Find someone who stimulates above your neck more than he does between your legs. When you go out to eat on dates - pay attention to how he treats the staff at the restaurant because this is how he treats people all the time. If he is an asshole to the server RUN! if you have an animal and the guy comes over to your place and the animal growls and hates him - dump the guy....the animal knows more than you about what kind of person he is.

You really do sound like someone worthy of putting an expensive diamond on your left ring finger so go out - have fun and before you know it.......................

 

[Will E Worm]

 

[Captaingault]

cestmoi2010, great reply.
where did you get to date playmates? And what was the pickup line that old man used in order to get that pretty girl, please do not say money.

 

[Will E Worm]

how we acted when we were younger shouldn't be held against us

People like to use age as an excuse. (Either youth or old)

It's not an excuse.

Also, females looking for a guy who has money, is funny, or "ambitious" is not an excuse.

People need to think.



Chris Farley had money, fame, and was funny.

Where were the females running after him?

 

[Captaingault]

Although from a porn site, but what is the pickup line that old men use in order to get beautiful girl like her, because I'm seeing that and the old man in not rich.

 

[Will E Worm]

Although from a porn site, but what is the pickup line that old men use in order to get beautiful girl like her, because I'm seeing that and the old man in not rich.

Some females like older guys.

Some have daddy issues.


Most younger guys don't care about females anyway.

 

[cestmoi2010]

cestmoi2010, great reply.
where did you get to date playmates? And what was the pickup line that old man used in order to get that pretty girl, please do not say money.

I never said I dated a Playmate because I didn't. I said I MET a lot of them and that I did. I have been to Glamourcon (.com is the site) a few times and met many of them there. If you read the article/description about the Playmate you can usually find a few interesting things to talk to them about. Ask them about a pic or 2 in their shoot and they will be more than happy to tell you about it. One time I asked Jennifer Walcott about her Playmate pix and how she posed in a bathtub - I asked her how long she was in it. She told me she was in it to long her hands got "Prunish" and the water was cold and she couldn't wait for the shoot to end. One time I got a pic signed by a Playmate and it was all of the Playmates that year. I showed her the picture and the first thing she did was say how cold it was that day and how she was freezing - there was another Playmate from the same year next to her and she showed her that pic and they started talking about the shoot and how cold it was and the second the pic was taken they put on robes because it was so cold...........something I never would have known w/o them saying it. Those that are into sports - talk to them about it. One Playmate went to Auburn or Alabama - I forget which one (and I know there is a huge difference). I spoke to her about the Iron Bowl and her eyes lit up and she got excited to talk about it and said how her boyfriend was a supporter of the other school and how the week when they play they have to be separated or not talk about the game to prevent arguments and it was great to hear her say this.

Playmates and the like really like it when you read up about them (as long as it is public info and not borderline stalker stuff) because it shows you care about more than their body and you took the time to learn a little bit about them.

 

[Bribi1]

Most will say no, most will act like yes.
It's known, assholes get the girls. Treat them like crap, but still get them"
A nice guy will get crushed, by assholes AND the girl he wants (or gets for a brief time)

 

[xfire]

being NICE is a BARE MINIMUM. You don't get laid just because you're a good person. I always hear guys whine about "why don't chicks like NICE GUYS?!" but.. what do you have to offer.. in terms of personality, passions of yours, things to talk about, etc? Maybe sometimes the "bad guys" get picked over someone who is "nice" because they are intriguing. They have things going on in their lives that are interesting other than being a "nice dude" and a "good listener".

It's been my experience that once you start dating a woman, any woman, whether she's hot, average, or homely (and I've dated all sorts), she tries to kill all of your other interests. It takes an "asshole" to say no and pursue his own interests. I've been called selfish, I've been given guilt trips, and I've been threatened by women that didn't want to take no for an answer, and strangely enough the more I've said no the more they've wanted me.

I dated a girl over twenty years ago that unintentionally gave me the best advice I've ever gotten when it comes to dealing with women; we were in bed, still had some clothes on, kissing and things were getting heated, I slid my hands between her knees and she pulled away. I expected her to open her thighs and give me full access, but instead she stopped and said I was moving too fast, that women like it when a man doesn't rush. I didn't date her for much longer after that, but what she said was intriguing. A few weeks later I was laying in bed with another chick, not really paying her any attention, just watching some tv, and she practically jumped me. When we were done I asked her where that came from and she said she found me hottest when I was ignoring her. I caught onto a pattern that I've used since then, show some initial interest, be kind and sweet, but know when to employ the cold shoulder, and don't chase. Women want what they can't have, I don't know why, but it's the truth, and if a guy makes himself unavailable they will throw their panties at him. Asshole or jerk move? Maybe, but that's the way the female brain works.

 

[BusterLoads]

Will E posted a Tom Leykis clip. I want post one of my own. This guy is just awesome.

 

[cestmoi2010]

Will E posted a Tom Leykis clip. I want post one of my own. This guy is just awesome.

It also should be noted her has been married/divorced 4 times. He is entertaining to listen to but only in limited quantities.

 

[BusterLoads]

He's stated that numerous times. Him being married in the past doesn't mean that he doesn't mean that he doesn't bring up good points. Shit, I used to chase pussy in the past before I realized how stupid that was.

 

[Little Red Wagon Repairman]

Tom Leykis is a smelly, fat piece of shit but still gets ladies who know their place. Do you ladies want us to learn from him and follow his example? Some of us just want the path of least resistance to the pussy. If you ladies put yourself in that position then it is the man with the money who makes the rules. If you want to be his whore then you can help him find his wiener.

 

[raiden594]

You're exactly right on that. You wanted to have a serious relationship before everything happened; offered stability and a genuine interest. She refused. Hey, we all make choices in life; and for every one we make (good or bad) there are consequences.

If you're gonna play, you gotta pay.

 

[Aaliyah Love]

It's been my experience that once you start dating a woman, any woman, whether she's hot, average, or homely (and I've dated all sorts), she tries to kill all of your other interests. It takes an "asshole" to say no and pursue his own interests. I've been called selfish, I've been given guilt trips, and I've been threatened by women that didn't want to take no for an answer, and strangely enough the more I've said no the more they've wanted me.

I dated a girl over twenty years ago that unintentionally gave me the best advice I've ever gotten when it comes to dealing with women; we were in bed, still had some clothes on, kissing and things were getting heated, I slid my hands between her knees and she pulled away. I expected her to open her thighs and give me full access, but instead she stopped and said I was moving too fast, that women like it when a man doesn't rush. I didn't date her for much longer after that, but what she said was intriguing. A few weeks later I was laying in bed with another chick, not really paying her any attention, just watching some tv, and she practically jumped me. When we were done I asked her where that came from and she said she found me hottest when I was ignoring her. I caught onto a pattern that I've used since then, show some initial interest, be kind and sweet, but know when to employ the cold shoulder, and don't chase. Women want what they can't have, I don't know why, but it's the truth, and if a guy makes himself unavailable they will throw their panties at him. Asshole or jerk move? Maybe, but that's the way the female brain works.

Well then it seems like YOU are the one dating assholes, not the girls LOL! Dump those bitches who try to change you and move on. There's assholes everywhere, but it's not fair for you guys to generalize "all women.." over a few jerks. Pick better people.

 

[Chopper3000]

I'm clean, pure and unadulterated. The perfect catch.

 

[Little Red Wagon Repairman]

Sometimes when fellas fly the coup they book a one-way trip to Asia. The grass might not be greener on the other side but it's probably quieter and also maybe no grass on the lawn at all.

This is the real enemy, ladies. She steals from you at every opportunity. If you don't defend your turf your turf will end up being the ghetto. Good luck in your future endeavors.