Lotta cross talk on the "Rough Sex..." thread; but it made me think of a question. I kind of have the opposite problem:
I've dated several girls who liked to be held down and ******. And they asked me for the same.
Now, look... I love me some women. but I'm not normally into that kind of thing. So, it bothered me when they asked. I participated begrudgingly --and it did vastly improve the experience for the girls. Like a lot. So, I kept it up, just being careful I didn't hurt anyone. It felt very weird to me, but Lord it did alot for them.
These girls didn't like the spanking thing, don't like S&M to my knowledge. I know depleting the oxygen supply can increase the intensity of the experience; but these girls wanted to be held down, ****** and fucked.
This kind of thing escapes me. What is the deal?
I've dated several girls who liked to be held down and ******. And they asked me for the same.
Now, look... I love me some women. but I'm not normally into that kind of thing. So, it bothered me when they asked. I participated begrudgingly --and it did vastly improve the experience for the girls. Like a lot. So, I kept it up, just being careful I didn't hurt anyone. It felt very weird to me, but Lord it did alot for them.
These girls didn't like the spanking thing, don't like S&M to my knowledge. I know depleting the oxygen supply can increase the intensity of the experience; but these girls wanted to be held down, ****** and fucked.
This kind of thing escapes me. What is the deal?