For all the people who automatically , knee jerkingly argued bio's post read again.
or maybe you just hear what you want to hear.
he gave 3 reasons:
the 1st, I'm not sure of, most everyone has a choice I believe.
the 2nd one, the one most decided to disregard, says some people just see personality, not color.
the 3rd, the one most chose to respond to was about people ( mostly white chicks in reality) who say " I ain't dating no white boy" in their best wannabe black accent.
He saying those are usually the ones with some kind of hate issue.
AND HE"S RIGHT.
It's self hate or hatred of your own race, or your parents, or something that in most cases makes a girl think like that.
A lot of you will deny it, excuse it no matter what but the same ones would call a white man or woman who said " I only date white people" a racist because let's face it, your either small minded, brainwashed, or a true racist yourself.
USA 2011, different rules for different people.
From the guy who ignores the multiple of reasons for women pursing their lips in pics nowadays because it didn't conform to his predetermined notion that they have 'issues'.
Admittedly this is probably going to be too multi-dimensional for you to grasp right away. I don't say this to be mean or a jack-off. Just that I know from the past that you seem to not be able to follow a concept past the first sentence or two or you just ignore a stated position written in plain view.
But consider this, I've held the position in previous threads that women who don't perform interracial in porn are basing their choice on some level of racism. That doesn't mean they are racist bigots but that it's obvious race is a consideration for them for who knows what reason. IN THE CONTEXT OF PORN I think that ought to be obvious.
However, in the context of the average woman who doesn't engage in interracial relationships as a preference...the notion that there is something inherently wrong with her (or those like her) because of that would be absurd IMO.
On the other hand you join others in contending that a woman who doesn't do IR performances in porn are simply making a personal taste choice....However, the average woman (white I presume) who engages in interracial relationships as a matter of preference does so mostly because there is something wrong with them.
Do you see the ironic inconsistency there?:o
It's been suggested these women have 'self-hatred' issues. I have no idea what that means. It's a pretty nebulous, lazy label IMO. I do accept that people have low self esteem issues which manifests itself in many different behaviors. Most significant is in being withdrawn and shy. Most withdrawn, shy people don't usually call attention to themselves through their relationships.
Women with low self esteem find men who tend to dominate them and make all the decisions for them while treating them any way they see fit.
Certainly in many cultures interracial dating would seem to be the antithesis of low esteem as for many it would take much more personal impetus and courage (for lack of a better term) to do so. People with low self esteem seek more diminutive lifestyles....not lifestyles which would tend to call attention to them IMO.