I don't get it.
- Thread starter kaliforniacatio
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i see where you are coming from.
it sounds like a hypocrite. she was all ready to sleep with you and have a one night stand, but then she got all high and mighty about "respect" and it "being degrading to women". IMHO she threw respect and dignity out the window by letting a semi stranger (you) eat her out.
regardless. if she doesn't want to give you head she doesn't have to. it's just frustrating but thats the way things go.
it sounds like a hypocrite. she was all ready to sleep with you and have a one night stand, but then she got all high and mighty about "respect" and it "being degrading to women". IMHO she threw respect and dignity out the window by letting a semi stranger (you) eat her out.
regardless. if she doesn't want to give you head she doesn't have to. it's just frustrating but thats the way things go.
Did you ask if she takes it up the ass? Maybe she won't suck your cock but she likes anal.
seriously though, you shouldn't have passed on the opportunity to fuck her, maybe she won't blow you on the first night but maybe she'll do it on your next fuck sessions if you are eating her out real good, just hope that she'll return the favor eventually. I have an ex who doesn't like to give head but she did it eventually after I keep eating her out.
seriously though, you shouldn't have passed on the opportunity to fuck her, maybe she won't blow you on the first night but maybe she'll do it on your next fuck sessions if you are eating her out real good, just hope that she'll return the favor eventually. I have an ex who doesn't like to give head but she did it eventually after I keep eating her out.
I can relate with the frustration of the situation.
Why woman who find degrading to suck a dick always tell that after being eated out? I mean, you are into oral sex or not in my books. If a woman consider giving head disgusting, why, in her mind, being eaten is not as much disgusting?
If oral sex disgust someone, male or female, he should just refuse to give and receive it.
Of course, life is not fair. Sexual relations are (almsot always) not equitable.
But regardless, if something else than a regular fucking session (you know, the way we make babies) happend, it have to come from mutual agreement.
After few frustrating experiences like the one described by kaliforniacatio, i'm nowadays speaking about several things before the action. And i have turned down some sexual occasions that i didnt wanted to get in - even if the girl was gorgeous (no, it wasn't related with oral sex
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You can't leave it at that! What was it related to if not oral sex? My mind reels with possibilities!
It's nothing that much arousing i fear :1orglaugh
One of the time i left a woman willing to fuck, legs wide open on the bed, without regrets. Here's the story:
It was summer time. A very hot day. My body sweats a lot so i was very sticky and smelly. While i was leaving university, a friend of mine invited me to a supper at his home like we often invited each other after class to discuss about class-related stuff. Few months ago, he was trying to lure me in a pseudo blinddate with a friend of his wife - but didnt spoke about that since several weeks... so i wasnt expecting to meet a girl.
The supper went well. It was clicking quite well with the girl he wanted me to meet. So, after the dessert, she invited me at her home - and her intentions were quite clear.
We walked and chated to her home, it was fun and relaxed. Once at her home, we went into action as soon as the door was closed behind us. I was aware i had to take a shower due to my sweating problem in warm times. So i asked her, between two kisses, if she wanted to take a shower. She said no. I thought to myself that she wasnt minding the odors so we kept kissing and everything while slowly heading towards her bedroom. Once there, she removed my t-shirt and expressed her disgust with a loud Ewwww. I laughed and appologized and asked her again if she wanted to take a shower. She again said no. Wtf?
We kept removing clothes of each other, kissing, and she was clearly not confortable with the odor. I asked her if she didnt wanted to take a shower together, i could burrow his shower for myself. She said no. Wtf?
Once on bed, i kissed her boobs, stomach, slowly heading toward her secret garden. She stopped me saying she was not liking oral sex. Ok, fair game, nothing wrong with that so i went back to her boobs.
While i was kissing her, i put a condom on. The time for the real game was right. We were almost in a missionary position so i slowly moved over her... she again had a noisy Ewww. I again tried to turn the situation to a good laugh, telling that i was going to take a shower. She said no again.
I told her that it will be very unconfortable for me, and for her, to fuck in those conditions. That either going doggystyle or cowgirl was our way to go.
She told she was not enjoying cowgirl and that doggystyle was too bestial for her tastes. Wtf!
I again tried to turn the situation in a good laugh, telling her i was running out of ideas. I was honestly very unconfortable - i never wanted to take a shower more than at that very moment.
We kept kissing each other. More and more passionately. I was hard as hell and she was ready for the show - yet, i had no idea what to do and she didn't helped at all. Its at that moment that her dog entered the room, jumped on the bed and start sniffing us. I laughed, asking her if we could leave him outside the room and close the door. She said somthing like: No. My dog is doing everything with me. Wtf! I asked her if she was serious. She fucking french kissed her dog...
Do i have to say why i left her alone and didnt fucked her? :dunno:
I took a taxi, went back home, and took my fucking shower alone.
Just because one person likes doing something to the other doesn't mean the opposite is true. If somebody doesn’t like something they don't like it, and just because you like doing it to that person doesn’t make the opposite ok. I wonder if she would have allowed anal sex if it would all of a sudden become ok for her to then turn around and demand that she repeatedly get to probe your ass with a stick, and get upset when that request was denied.
Your a moron! If she won't even suck a cock what the fuck makes you think she is going to take a load on her face you retard.
Sorry mate, you're going to have this not only once but more ... giving or receiving head, if you wanna make sure you have head and "repay" her by eatting her, simply have a 69 ...
If she, or any other girl lying naked on the bed and you don't wanna do it, just give me a call ... i wouldn't care less. That's sex, it ain't always the way that you want it to be ... just don't turn an upportunity away .
Dawn, i would have done this in your situation : starting missionary,then slowly getting up with upperbody, sit on knees, her legs up, her feet next to your face, kinda like doggy or cowgirl ... she just lays down, she don't smell you and you have it in a way that you want it ...
If she, or any other girl lying naked on the bed and you don't wanna do it, just give me a call ... i wouldn't care less. That's sex, it ain't always the way that you want it to be ... just don't turn an upportunity away .
Dawn, i would have done this in your situation : starting missionary,then slowly getting up with upperbody, sit on knees, her legs up, her feet next to your face, kinda like doggy or cowgirl ... she just lays down, she don't smell you and you have it in a way that you want it ...
Sad but true.
But they're the first ones who want their dick sucked.
...I've known more than a few guys like that in my life.
