this is typical for people your age, seraphim, who've dated and whatnot in their youth and played around a bit in their youthful follies, but who were not specifically looking for the next person to fuck just for (literally) the fuck of it... That's where/why i find this notion of keeping score, counting, and telling people about it like it's a sports score to be appalling.
I don't give a damn about how many any of the members here have slept with, but if friends tell me in confidence, fine. Otherwise, it's none of my business and it's their personal health (mental & physical) concern.
The only point in telling anyone here, publicly, about the number of sex partners we've had is to somehow make some sort of impression, and i find it pointless. I'm glad that people are opening up their lunchboxes, though - you can see part of their true characters that way.
People in their early 20s who've slept with dozens of other people perhaps need to review their priorities, imo. That's pretty much a summary of my opinion here. If you're 24 and have slept with (i.e. Had sexual relations) approximately 30-50 people, and assuming that your sexual activity started at around 16-18 years of age, that's just way too many, and is indicative of a problem; e.g self-validation through sex, triggered sexual response from a bad childhood or abuse, lack of true love/intimacy in your life, etc. That's just my opinion. Feel free to go fuck as many babes (or guys, or both) as you want, but be careful. That's just not my style.
But hey, to each their own... I just happen to be one of these people who thinks that sex isn't, or shouldn't be, a communal recreation like baseball, but rather an intimate thing between two people.
Oh well. :hatsoff: :2 cents: