Have u ever Hit a Woman?

[Ace Bandage]

No, absolutely not. That's unacceptable - I don't care what the circumstances are.

 

[avj89]

Oh god that was light years ago.

Are some members saying "yes, I hit a woman" by looking at the thread without commenting? :dunno:

:dunno: yea some guys prally won't admit it

 

[Rey C.]

:dunno: yea some guys prally won't admit it

I would admit to that long before I'd admit that I had allowed myself to be somebody's punching bag.

 

[avj89]

Im with u rey c. I would admit to that before admitting to being sum1s punching bag if u let a woman hit you. U have to be the lowest self esteem man I know

 

[Rey C.]

Yep, it's a simple rule that guys and girls should follow: keep your hands to yourself.

To suggest that females don't have the mental or emotional capacity to act in a civilized manner is in itself a form of sexism, IMO. I expect no less and no more from a woman than I do from a man.

 

[lurkingdirk]

not only will i not hit a woman, i won't hit a man. there is always another way to solve things if you're smart enough to think about it.

 

[avj89]

What lurking dick so your saying if u would find out your gf was cheating on u and the other guy would eventually confront u and knocked u on ur ass you would say " hey lets work this out " sure bro good luck on that one.

 

[lurkingdirk]

yup. that's exactly what i'm saying.

 

[Sicario]

One time I took a few slaps from a simple bitch after her idiot boyfriend pushed me hard enough that we went at it. Looking back, I should have knocked her out too.

Any guy who beats up or hits a woman is scum, but if a woman chooses to join in when men fight then she deserves what she gets. I had a cousin in a fight who got KO'd by a chick with a wine bottle because he refused to take her out. In that situation, a woman with a glass bottle is just as great a threat as a guy, and should be treated as such.

Like I said, any guy who is abusive to women should be dragged out into the street and shot, but women should know that if they're going to jump into brawls with testosterone filled men they forfeit the protection usually reserved for their gender.

So true with everything you wrote. There are always exceptions to this rule.

In high school, there was this big fat black chick named Alicia and she easily stood 6 ft tall. She was a SOB bully because all of her brothers were Gangster Disciples. One day during a home basketball game with a rival high school, she tried to punk out a group of Vice Lords. At first they ignored her, but she thought she was real cute by slapping one of them upside the head. Needless to say she got it just as bad as a regular dude and was quickly expelled from school after that incident. I've seen women with big balls trying to punk out guys, and seen a few women kick some man ass. You can bet that I won't be put in a situation like that.


:2 cents:

 

[Ace Bandage]

What lurking dick so your saying if u would find out your gf was cheating on u and the other guy would eventually confront u and knocked u on ur ass you would say " hey lets work this out " sure bro good luck on that one.

Okay, first of all, no. Why would the guy attack me? If she's cheating on me, he can have her. There's no need to even fight about it. Our relationship obviously isn't going to work if she's not faithful. Why you would want to be with someone who's sleeping around is beyond me.

 

[CunningStunts]

Nope. I've had a few hit me, and I WANTED to hit them back, but that's just not right.

 

[Rey C.]

not only will i not hit a woman, i won't hit a man. there is always another way to solve things if you're smart enough to think about it.

In some situations, that might be true. But it's not a catch all: easier said than done sometimes.

When I knocked on the door of one of my apartments and was faced with a crackhead coming at me with a knife, I didn't see running as an option. Another option was I could have shot him. But again, I didn't think I'd be quick enough to get to my ankle holster. So, we went at it. That was his option. I owned the building. I had every right to be there. And he attacked me. Did I feel guilty because I was much bigger than him? Nope. Did I feel bad because of his race or that he might have had an unfortunate childhood? Nope. Did I feel bad because his drug addiction might have been considered a disease and he couldn't help or control himself? Nope. Did I wish that this situation hadn't taken place? Absolutely. But when I got his silly ass to the edge of the stairway, I still punched him and threw him down the stairs. And yeah, it tore me up emotionally for awhile. For one, I thought he was dead (which he wasn't). And then I realized that I might have been killed. That bothered me even more.

And if this creep had been a female, she would have gone flying too. If you have a knife, the fact that you also have a vagina isn't going to save you. I'm actually a very peaceful kinda guy. But I like peace. And I like quiet. I try to let that be known, so nobody gets surprised. But no, I wouldn't allow anyone to do harm to me. I wasn't raised that way. Don't start no shit... don't take no shit. That's what Dad told me as a youngster and it's worked pretty well for me in the decades since. No scars on my face and very few on my knuckles.

But I agree that if everybody would learn to use words as opposed to actions, we'd all be so much better off.

 

[lurkingdirk]

In some situations, that might be true. But it's not a catch all: easier said than done sometimes.

When I knocked on the door of one of my apartments and was faced with a crackhead coming at me with a knife, I didn't see running as an option. Another option was I could have shot him. But again, I didn't think I'd be quick enough to get to my ankle holster. So, we went at it. That was his option. I owned the building. I had every right to be there. And he attacked me. Did I feel guilty because I was much bigger than him? Nope. Did I feel bad because of his race or that he might have had an unfortunate childhood? Nope. Did I feel bad because his drug addiction might have been considered a disease and he couldn't help or control himself? Nope. Did I wish that this situation hadn't taken place? Absolutely. But when I got his silly ass to the edge of the stairway, I still punched him and threw him down the stairs. And yeah, it tore me up emotionally for awhile. For one, I thought he was dead (which he wasn't). And then I realized that I might have been killed. That bothered me even more.

And if this creep had been a female, she would have gone flying too. If you have a knife, the fact that you also have a vagina isn't going to save you. I'm actually a very peaceful kinda guy. But I like peace. And I like quiet. I try to let that be known, so nobody gets surprised. But no, I wouldn't allow anyone to do harm to me. I wasn't raised that way. Don't start no shit... don't take no shit. That's what Dad told me as a youngster and it's worked pretty well for me in the decades since. No scars on my face and very few on my knuckles.

But I agree that if everybody would learn to use words as opposed to actions, we'd all be so much better off.

You are, of course, right. However, I don't own buildings, and I have the luxury to (as much as is humanly possible) keep myself out of situations where others dictate whether a conversation comes to blows or not. This is also why I will never own a gun - I'm not opposed to others having their own views on guns and carrying or whatever, but I can imagine absolutely no situation in which I could possibly level a weapon at a person and pull the trigger. I just couldn't.

Now, I do actually have a second degree black belt in a very offensive martial art, but that was all an exercise for me. But even with that, I just won't hit someone.

 

[habo9]

Okay, first of all, no. Why would the guy attack me? If she's cheating on me, he can have her. There's no need to even fight about it. Our relationship obviously isn't going to work if she's not faithful. Why you would want to be with someone who's sleeping around is beyond me.

My attitude exactly :thumbsup:

 

[om3ga]

Nope...

 

[Lonilover]

no never, and a woman never hit me . so i figure i'm doing well

 

[Rey C.]

You are, of course, right. However, I don't own buildings, and I have the luxury to (as much as is humanly possible) keep myself out of situations where others dictate whether a conversation comes to blows or not. This is also why I will never own a gun - I'm not opposed to others having their own views on guns and carrying or whatever, but I can imagine absolutely no situation in which I could possibly level a weapon at a person and pull the trigger. I just couldn't.

Now, I do actually have a second degree black belt in a very offensive martial art, but that was all an exercise for me. But even with that, I just won't hit someone.

And I can respect that. Really. There is no shame in being a pacifist. If I'm not mistaken, Mahatma Ghandi was a pacifist too - and a truly great man. That philosophy just wouldn't work for me. But I do consider it to be admirable.

 

[Alyssa Rose]

hmm.. well I've thrown some shoes at my hubby when I've gotten really pissed off but I mean we've never really been in a physical altercation.. (sex not included right? lol)

 

[darkwarrior3007]

I have never hit a woman and never will unless my life was in danger. I was told by my mom to never ever hit women but if she's trying to kill you then you take the bitch out.

 

[Artimus]

I have never hit a woman and never will unless my life was in danger. I was told by my mom to never ever hit women but if she's trying to kill you then you take the bitch out.

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For some reason was reminded of the Final Fight games just now.

I agree. I have no qualms with hitting a woman in self-defense.