I've heard people talk about this... so I'm interested to know how many of you guys go soft after you cum? Honestly, it never happens to me. After I cum, it always takes me a while to lose my erection... don't know why, it's just always been like that :dunno:. However, the stuff I've been reading leads me to find that I'm in the extreme minority, and that most guys need some time in order to get it up again. Is this true? 