Do you let your girl sunbathe topless?

[nylo]

If my GF wanted to sunbathe topless or nude, I wouldn't give a shit. It doesn't bother me in the least....let her show it off if she can. I wouldn't really care if she wanted to pose for Playboy, actually I would think that is pretty awesome and could say "that's mine"...heh

I would be a hypocrite considering the amount of nude women I look at all the time.

Unlike most Americans, I do not see a problem with nude people or sex and etc. Granted I know this comes from the Puritan attitude which is not healthy by the way. Think about it, the media made such a circus about Janet Jackson and her bare boob....really? is that how empty these people's lives are that they had to cause all this shit to happen. Or how about the "controversy" with Katy Perry and her cleavage in that video with Elmo. I just don't get it, but I will stop before I get on one of my rants. In this particular instance, I believe the Europeans have the right idea.

 

[lurkingdirk]

While I would never presume to tell someone I was dating whether this is okay or not, I would make suggestions to the appropriateness of the venue. I'd not care to be with her if, say, she were laying topless at a public beach in the U.S. where people are so odd about boobies, I'd suggest she put her top back on in order to avoid arrest.

But whatever. If you feel you need to control whether your significant other gets her ta-tas out in public, you likely have a small penis.

 

[sualcalay]

I haven't had a girl who's sunbathed topless yet, but when I do get one I'm obiously not gonna hold her back from doing something she likes to do. Obviously if it turns out I don't like it at all, I will tell her so and kindly ask her not to do it anymore, for me. If she refuses then I might just break up with her, depending on how well the relationship with her is going.

What I do know is that I refuse to put up with something I don't have to.

 

[Namreg]

"do you let?"
well, since i don't own her, i guess that's not really up to me.

 

[rizwano]

i would

 

[Supafly]

Are you nuts? If you want to tell your partner what you alow her to do and what not, you have the completely wrong concept of love and partnership.

Would you accept HER to tell you if you are okay to go out of the house without a shirt?

I would think not.

 

[cfacts]

My girl LOVES to do it and I love her doing it!! She doesn't care if someone sees.. I think she gets a bit turned on by knowing someones watching

 

[Mr. Hyde]

"Do I let her....?"

I don't own her. She's not my pet, nor child. I can't "let" her do anything, she can do as she pleases.

 

[MarquisdeSade]

Its not for me to let her or not. If she wants to then there`s no reason why she shouldn`t, unless I had really strong views on it in which case we`d talk about it like adults. And anyway, I don`t care if other men would look at her tits or not - I`mthe one who fucks her so happy there!