Dicks are such a turn-on!

[Evil]

Bi-curious

 

[senob44]

i'm turned on by my dick and nobody else's.

Exactly. For me too. fizzmaster's dick is the only one for me. :yummie:

 

[Ceska]

Sex is not a cut and dry thing. Ask a woman who is straight... is there one woman on earth you would have sex with. She might say... maybe... Angelina Jolie. Does that mean she is bi? Hell no! That means that, perhaps, once in a lifetime, she might consider doing it just for that one woman. That's not bi!

Who are you to tell her that she's not bi? Labels are not *valid*. Right? If she wants to consider herself bisexual she has the right to do so. By your "logic" she decides not you. What's so wrong with being bi anyway?

Bisexual is a term for people that (a) are attracted to both sexes, (b) consider themselves bisexual (you are the only person who can say you are bi, it's nobody else's job to label you), and (c) it's not just a little fantasy or a "walk on the wild side" or a consequence of just being very horny (like Prince), but it's actual genuine attraction to both sexes.

That's what the original poster had said - he is geniunely attracted to both sexes.

There you go again. Creating a "label" even though it's not *valid*. In fact your "box" or "label" is so narrow it is defined in three specific parts or criteria. Don't you even realize that parts a+c contradict b?

In other words, part (b) does not allow you to "label" Prince's "walk on the wild side" or "horny little fantasy" as not genuine attraction. If Prince believes he is bi then he is. If he believes he is straight then he is. If he believes he is gay then he is. Why are you defining him in such a "closed-minded" way in contradiction of (b)?

I love cocks. They are hot. I would suck them. Fuck them. But you know what? Men don't turn me on. Cocks are sexy.

...And I am living proof that a man can love cock, but not be bisexual, because men, hair, man ass, mens legs, mens bodies in general, mens faces, mens hair, mens hands.... UGGHHHHHH. Not my thing. Sorry!

But cock - hell yes!
See? Not attracted to men - at all. Repulsed even, sometimes.

If you are attracted to penises and enjoy fucking men but consider yourself not attracted to men, that's fine with me. Really. Calm down, it's fine. It's just that if you like their penises so much I can't see what you have against the rest of them. Seems pretty "closed-minded."

... in the real world, we all come in different shapes and sizes, and the only person who can announce what "sexual label" we are, is us.

...And yet you reserve the right to label Prince and others by your definition as you see fit. I see..

One of the reasons some bisexuals and gays don't label themselves as such is because so many of YOU guys use it as an insult or put down.

I didn't label anyones sexuality a "horny little fantasy" - you did.

Contrary to what you believe, calling someone bisexual is not an insult.
I did not intend for my post to be a put down. I am sorry if anyone else perceived it that way. He said he was attracted to men and attracted to women. I said that means bisexual (just as you did in part c of your definition). Why do you consider being called a bisexual a put down or an insult?

Several members on this forum have said you are a "troll". Trolling
Now I see what they mean.

Normally I try not to respond to such trolling comments but I didn't want my statements to be recast as saying something they are not and potentially offend the original poster.

As far as I'm concerned, you are free to define yourself as you like. Simply understand that most other people are operating under a different set of agreed upon definitions (for the simple sake of communication) and they don't find bisexuality as offensive or insulting as you appear to.

In any case, I meant no offence.

 

[Ceska]

Calling me a troll is pretty offensive. I have no problem with you. Just one of your posts, that's all. That doesn't make me a troll. I've never gone looking for your posts to discredit you and such. It pisses me off when someone tries to tell someone else what they are when they are not even sure themselves. You can take it back now, but your original post was doing exactly that. Prince has described himself as a highly sexual straight man, same way I see myself, others claim he is bisexual, who are they to say. There's nothing wrong with being bisexual, but saying that because the OP is attracted to cocks (not men, but cocks), he is cut and dry bisexual, you are defining him. There's a lot more to sexuality than that.

Your post was an example of a wider view, and the wider view of this thread, and of society. I wasn't addressing you, but the entire mindset of heterosexual males which *a* likes to define things as a, b, or c, cut and dry, and *b* uses bisexual in a derogatory way, 80% of the time, and you know it. I don't accept anyone telling me what I am based on being attracted to cocks or whatever, and I felt the same about the OP. And you can diss me for not being attracted to the rest of men, but I'm just not, we can't help what we are attracted to. It's my loss. Read through the whole thread. Read through every thread that mentions cocks, bi, gay. It's stacked with homophobia. It's sad. It makes me sad.

Peace.

It was not my intention to make you sad. Sorry if I did.
It seemed as if you were attacking my post and me directly. (for example Y-O-U in caps)
I am not trying to tell anyone what they "are" in the sense of what they "must be."
I was merely pointing out how a person fitting that description also fits in the accepted definition (for the sake of communication) of bisexuality. (your definition c)

I am not defining him per se - Merriam-Webster has already defined him (and everyone - again for the sake of communication)
Merriam-Webster is not trying to tell anyone what they "should be"
_____________________________________________________________________
Merriam-Webster: BISEXUAL
Pronunciation:
\(ˌ)bī-ˈsek-sh(ə-)wəl, -shəl\
Function:
adjective
Date:
1824
b: of, relating to, or characterized by a tendency to direct sexual desire toward both sexes
_____________________________________________________________________

I was also expressing my hope that however he defines himself (or is externally defined) that he will be comfortable with who he is.

Rather than changing the word (or its meaning) because some members of society abuse people with the word (they do that with many words), perhaps it would be better to try to change the perception of those members of society.

If you feel that a new word should be added to the lexicon because the above definition doesn't properly take into account those who have changed their sexual organs or those who are attracted only to sexual body parts (which I still don't completely understand), feel free. Perhaps one is needed to clarify the meaning of "sexes" given that the traditional (1824) classifications of (XX chromosomes - vagina) / (XY chromosomes - penis) are not necessarily fixed.

For now, that's what we've got (at least in English) and it's much less confusing than allowing everyone to make up their own personal definition.

In any case, no hard feelings. No, I don't even mind that you negative Rep'd me. (I don't really pay much attention to that stuff anyway) Water under the bridge.

Go have some fun. As for me .... I'm gonna go watch some porn!:thumbsup:


Peace :wave:

 

[germanboy]

i love big black cocks.

http://www.vippornlinks.com/tgp/bigcocks/pic07/madpicrichi.html

 

[BlueBalls]

I know mine is :nanner:

 

[black amal]

i love big black cocks.

http://www.vippornlinks.com/tgp/bigcocks/pic07/madpicrichi.html

wow, interesting.

*shakes head and exits thread*

 

[ashten]

I'm a guy and the sight of a big cock turns me on. I don't care what the guy looks like i just care if he has a nice cock. I don't think I'm gay, I'm probably bi because I love women and I could never be in a relationship with a guy. Sometimes it's just fun to throw a nice big cock in the mix.

 

[Evil]

I just like the idea that everybody wants my dick.

 

[mikeandmich]

I'm a guy and the sight of a big cock turns me on. I don't care what the guy looks like i just care if he has a nice cock. I don't think I'm gay, I'm probably bi because I love women and I could never be in a relationship with a guy. Sometimes it's just fun to throw a nice big cock in the mix.

this thread is misleading.. it should be renamed "Love pussy but cock is fun with pussy sometimes"

if anyone saw my thread i think its the same thing. im not gay and at first i would of never considered having another guy in a threesome but after me and one of my good friends i known since child hood did a double vaginal on her and them cum, i thought it was pleasurable...but the sight or thought of looking at the guys face or body or doing anything with the guy is still nasty as fuck to me.

but just the dick as long as there is pussy makes things i guess...better? i thought it felt good.

 

[cocklover]

Well for one, I love watching porn with big male dicks in it. It's only natural for me.

 

[alladinsane11]

Julian i have had the same feelings for years and they began with being turned on by cocks in straight porn scenes...more and more that thought developed into many fantasies of playing with cock, sucking it, getting fucked....have i acted on these.....no, ...will i ever....who knows ....but i think nice hard cocks and cum are a huge turn on, and i enjoy watching them in straight porn all the time....i find male anatomy very attractive ...but i am only turned on by say 1% of males with nice bodies....mostly its about cock, and even a nice cock looks great in a scene, even if the guy is repulsive, i'll watch a girl suck it all day....and Miss Brittany i agree totally....please come back and keep this thread in perspective, and those who contributed pics....very nice!

http://www.xxxfilm.ru/img.php?starp...p://www.cekcshop.com/Pics/Stars/Big/302/5.jpg
love this pic

 

[kuruption]

I was hoping Chica was the one who started this thread.

 

[phunlee]

Maybe it's your fantasizing of the take the male's place is what is really turning you on. The mind can be a tricky thing.

 

[IRfanatic]

Yeah, I have to say I'm quite turned on by seeing male genitalia in porn films and pics. I'm a heterosexual male but still feel this way. Don't try to tell me I'm a closet homosexual 'cause I've tried watching gay porn and find it a complete turn-off. I'm only interested in dicks, the other parts of the male anatomy don't attract me in a sexual way at all. I just love seeing erect dicks and heavy scrotums in scenes with women. I've thought about trying to give a guy a blowjob and had a good opportunity to do so not too long ago. I chickened out though, the thought still repels me a bit at the same time as I'm intrigued by it.

Anyway, does anyone else feel this way among the heterosexual males on this board? It wouldn't surprise me since there seems to be such a big market for dicks even in the branch of straight porn: just think of all the "big dicks" sections on porn sites, all gangbang scenes in films, the heavy focus on the ejaculation etc.

I kinda know what you mean. I mean every guy who watches porn wants to see a dick in the film theyre watching or theyd only watch lesbian porn.

Do you like seeing a tiny shriveled dick in the porn you watch? No, you want to see a big throbbing cock fucking a girls face or pussy.

That alone is somethin thats weird but....to tell the truth yeah ive thought about giving a sloppy blowjob. I dont think id have the guts to follow through though.

 

[ilovelenka]

I'm a guy and the sight of a big cock turns me on. I don't care what the guy looks like i just care if he has a nice cock. I don't think I'm gay, I'm probably bi because I love women and I could never be in a relationship with a guy. Sometimes it's just fun to throw a nice big cock in the mix.

Agreed!

Love to see awesome hard cocks in the mix.

 

[friendsofmine]

nothing bores me like girl on girl

i just cant relate,and yes i eat lots of pussy but i want to see a dick in there somewhere
i love watching girls suck dick
love watching dicks go in and out of asses and pussies
definately like the way the pussy moves while a cock is in her ass(fuckin yum)

girl on girl is just another form of gay porn.............sorry just my opinion

 

[friendsofmine]

no?

 

[ilovelenka]

nothing bores me like girl on girl

i just cant relate,and yes i eat lots of pussy but i want to see a dick in there somewhere
i love watching girls suck dick
love watching dicks go in and out of asses and pussies
definately like the way the pussy moves while a cock is in her ass(fuckin yum)

girl on girl is just another form of gay porn.............sorry just my opinion

gotta have a dick in there

Think about it, if you have ever jerked off to a picture of just a girls face and a huge cock thrust into her mouth, then you like cocks. I love pictures where its just a few cocks and a girls face.

 

[NavyBlue]

Yeah, I have to say I'm quite turned on by seeing male genitalia in porn films and pics. I'm a heterosexual male but still feel this way. Don't try to tell me I'm a closet homosexual 'cause I've tried watching gay porn and find it a complete turn-off.

I'm only interested in dicks, the other parts of the male anatomy don't attract me in a sexual way at all. I just love seeing erect dicks and heavy scrotums in scenes with women.

I've thought about trying to give a guy a blowjob and had a good opportunity to do so not too long ago. I chickened out though, the thought still repels me a bit at the same time as I'm intrigued by it.

These sentences tell me even if you aren't a complete gay you are at least a bi. Straights just aren't enarmored with guy's genital so much that they are willing to watch gay porn and thinking about giving blowjobs to justify how they feel about it. In a porn I may be turned off if the guy's dick is small or limp because who doesn't want to see woman getting pounded by big dicks? Your post though says a lot more about you than you think. Time to face the facts and accept that you are turned on by guy's penis which is always a sign of homosexuality.