Ashleigh, who is the most important person in your life?
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Ashleigh, thanks for responding so gracefully, thoughtfully and honestly to my question, you've reaffirmed everything I already know about this important topic. If guys expect to retain a relationship, they just better learn a thing or two about intimacy, otherwise, their former g/fs will seek out other means of satisfaction. :lovecoupl
Originally Posted by Facetious
Ashleigh -
Have you ever ''faked it'' before ?
If so, why do women do this ? I understand that the list of reasons can run long but what would you offer as the top 3 most likely reasons (?)
Thanks
Originally Posted by Facetious
Ashleigh -
Have you ever ''faked it'' before ?
If so, why do women do this ? I understand that the list of reasons can run long but what would you offer as the top 3 most likely reasons (?)
Thanks
Yes I've faked it. Tons of times. Unfortunately I spent two years with a guy who couldn't last more than 30 seconds in the sack, and instead of trying to make up for it in other ways, refused to "finish me off" afterwards or even before. He'd get kinda upset with me if I didn't "finish" while he was penetrating so honestly, it was just easier for me to fake it than deal with his attitude. He turned out to be a bigtime douchebag so I ended it but yeah.
Women do it for many reasons. I'd say the big one is trying to protect their guys feelings. They don't want their man to feel like a failure. And unfortunately, most women aren't comfortable asking for shit in bed, so they don't speak up about what they want. Either that or they actually don't KNOW what gets em off so, they just assume that orgasms are just for guys and not girls since they've never had one. Orgasms are a myth for many women.
Another reason why they fake it, is because its just easier to. Some guys are assholes and expect women to cum, and if they don't, then its their own fault. So sometimes its easier to fake it and get the sex over with sooner. Or like in my case, deal with being berated for not being able to cum. Cases like this, I think its fine for the women to fake. They're obviously with guys who don't give a shit about how good the sex is, otherwise their head would be between their legs instead of in their face barking at her to climax.
But most of the time, I think girls need to grow up and just be open. If he's not doing good enough a job that you have to fake it, then speak up and tell him what you need. Most guys I like to think would enjoy working at figuring out what curls their womans toes, am I right? Its just a sad thing when guys get off and girls don't, and pretend they do. Lying to the world!
SpexyAshleigh
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Damn...hardest question yet. I don't even think I have an answer. I'm not really close to my family, and I don't have any super close friends or spouses. I guess you could say I've become a bit of a loner in the last year or so since I moved across country
I'll say that my nieces and nephew are the most important people, because if anyone fucks with them, they fuck with me. They're the sweetest kids and I miss em to death.
SpexyAshleigh
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no, I'm fucking jealous.
SpexyAshleigh
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if you like Lush Bath products, then sure!
Seriously my baths are so filled with bubbles and bath bombs and stuff...smells nice but ehhh. Other than that, I'm not too dirty so I'm sure the water is clean. I shower in the morning, bathe in the evening.
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"Hey...you don't mind going to Mcdonalds on our anniversary right?"
Facetious
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I guess you could say I've become a bit of a loner in the last year or so since I moved across country
When do you anticipate coming out of hiding ?
If it's a legal matter, I understand, your lips are sealed. . . no need for follow ups.
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Well...I think my whole adult life has been pretty personally successful. I was booted out on my ass right after highschool for choosing to leave the church (dad didn't want to support me if I wasn't going to follow god lol) so I got my first bachelor apartment (tiny one room place, cost 400 a month) and worked my ass off. Eventually moved to a new city, and worked my way through college and university. Now I own my own business. My dad, when he kicked me out told me "you'll never make it on your own, I know you'll be crawling back here and begging for forgiveness in less than two months" and you know what? I never did. I've been through alot of personal shit...spent a year in court because of an ex, got through that, am currently going through another trial but I honestly think that the situation I was put in when I was 18, gave me such amazing resilience...so now whatever happens is just like meh! lol.
I mean its not like I cured cancer, or adopted a child or did anything of serious importance. I AM just a camgirl at the end of the day. But I like to think that I did my best and came out on top. Alot of people don't....especially in my family.
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When do you anticipate coming out of hiding ?
If it's a legal matter, I understand, your lips are sealed. . . no need for follow ups.
hahaha well I'm not in hiding persay. I just moved to a new part of the country last year and unfortunately, my lifestyle (working from home with both of my jobs) hasn't given me the opportunity to socialize as much as I'd like. I'm hoping to move back to my home province next year, and get back to my friends and life.
im from canada too and 15.25cm around if that helps aha
That's not so much strange as it is pathetic...
Hey Spexy, have you ever been in an interracial relationship?
SpexyAshleigh
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SpexyAshleigh
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never in an actual "relationship", but I've dated interracially. (that even a word?)
do you have any plans on starting paysite?
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