A difficult situation

I'm so glad you were able to ascertain as much. Would you like my reflections on the tone you convey? Probably not and I really don't care so all's well as far as I'm concerned.

A hint of humility heavily sprinkled with lashings of dickhead again.
 
You're either committed to your gf or your not, and only you can answer that. There will always be distractions whether its today or in 10 years time. Try having a wank while you think about it, that often helps :)
 
On a serious note, capricorn, if you want to flush two years of your life down the toilet and lose a woman that you know cares about you, follow your base instincts and try to juggle them both. I promise you it won't end well.
 
This thread certainly attracted much more attention than I thought it would :)

Perhaps it all comes down to whether I really care about my current gf as much I think I care? I mean, how is it possible for me to even be in a situation in which I fancy her friend? Either way, I don't want to hurt my girlfriend or be a bastard so I'll try to keep as far away as possible from the other girl.
 
This thread certainly attracted much more attention than I thought it would :)

Perhaps it all comes down to whether I really care about my current gf as much I think I care? I mean, how is it possible for me to even be in a situation in which I fancy her friend? Either way, I don't want to hurt my girlfriend or be a bastard so I'll try to keep as far away as possible from the other girl.

As relationships go what you're experiencing is normal...which is what many of us are trying to say in our own ways.

In relationships there are ups and downs and there will be times you will be less passionate about each other and many times have a wandering eye ...even if it's someone close to her.

Point is, it happens...no big deal. But like most things we want to do but realize are stupid when we think about it...there aren't many good bi-products of acting on what you think you feel (now).

Only you know if you and your girl have a future independent of you or her horn dogging someone else.

But my suggestion is if you really have something going with your girl...do something nice and unexpected for her when you have feelings of straying.

It will make you feel better about her and should make her feel better about you.
 
capricorn, men aren't programmed for monogamy. Sure, it's a nice ideal to aspire, but think about where you posted this question; a porn forum. Not exactly a paragon of monogamous virtue. That's why I found it beyond hilarious for certain members to get their panties in a wad over a less-than-sensitive reply to your question.
 
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