42 year old man thinking about going gay

[sualcalay]

i guess i'm worried about not being able to hide the fact i'm gay once i've removed all doubt and gone through with it

i actually thought you guys would flame me much worse

obviously, if i can't handle your criticism, then i couldn't make it in the real world either

ok, maybe i want to be the taker not the giver

does that make me a bad person?

hasn't anyone else gone through this?

Nah, I am unable to flame someone who has balls enough to come out of the closet like you did. Respect man! Ali G style.

Taker or giver, it really doesn't matter, that's your business. My best advice for you is to go ahead if you believe it can bring you happiness and never regret it. People in the real world will flame you indeed, either ****** or friends, but that's just life.

People are constantly flaming us for various reasons. Whether we're straight or not, so there's not much point in listening to others when you believe that you're doing what is best for yourself as a person. Remember, only you know what is good for yourself, people can give you advice, but in the end it's up to you.

PS: A bad person is one which acts out of spite/****/jealosy/selfishness and all those other non-honorable feelings. And no, I have never gone through this, nor do I ever wish to.

 

[simontim]

Nah, I am unable to flame someone who has balls enough to come out of the closet like you did. Respect man! Ali G style.

Taker or giver, it really doesn't matter, that's your business. My best advice for you is to go ahead if you believe it can bring you happiness and never regret it. People in the real world will flame you indeed, either ****** or friends, but that's just life.

People are constantly flaming us for various reasons. Whether we're straight or not, so there's not much point in listening to others when you believe that you're doing what is best for yourself as a person. Remember, only you know what is good for yourself, people can give you advice, but in the end it's up to you.

PS: A bad person is one which acts out of spite/****/jealosy/selfishness and all those other non-honorable feelings. And no, I have never gone through this, nor do I ever wish to.

props for being straight with me, ha!

 

[PlasmaTwa2]

So long as you don't steal porn, we're a cool bunch. You'd fit right in at one of BlueBalls' "Guess who's in my mouth" parties.

 

[grower_boy]

Are you sure you don't just like guys and girls? You don't really have to be one or the other like the rest of us closed-minded neo-con pervs here at freeones.

As the school whore told me in high school, "I swing both ways." :1orglaugh

P.S. - I'm surprised nobody mentioned this...but are you sure that you're not just happy that someone likes you?

 

[Legzman]

why is there even a thought process about this? You've spent your whole life enjoying pussy...why change to cock?

 

[Ace Bandage]

Is it a coincidence that 42 is the answer to the ultimate question of life, the universe, and everything? I think not...

Meditate on this, I will.

 

[lurkingdirk]

Is it a coincidence that 42 is the answer to the ultimate question of life, the universe, and everything? I think not...

Meditate on this, I will.

It will go better if you just accept it, then slam your head into a toilet or two.

 

[meesterperfect]

I admire your willingness to come out of the closet (especially here on Freeones!) :eek: That takes a lot of courage....you put a big bullseye on yourself when you made this thread! :hatsoff:

I can't take issue with you about this if it is really what you want to do. To each his own. I would also agree with prior posts that contend if you are thinking about it (seriously, that is) you are probably already there. Perhaps you are just having a difficult time accepting who you think you are.

I assume you aren't married. If not and no one else gets hurt, do whatever your heart tells you. Just because I can't relate to it doesn't mean it isn't OK for others to feel differently. There are lots of heterosexual fetishes and fixations that I don't get either so what the hell is the difference? :dunno:

I hope you find happiness no matter what you decide. :thumbsup:

Yeah but jag don't you think he should go to a South american country and have a 2 week sexual fiesta with many beautiful young girls for the cost of one of them there plasma TV's or a 1985 Toyota Cressida first?

Theres a lot of pussy down there, and youre gonna pay for it one way or another so why not just head south for a week or two, rather than get it on with a dude.

If he won't listen to me maybe he'll listen to you.
Dude you could bang a chic like this for 50 bucks:
imagine looking down and seeing that face wrapped around your dick, better than some dudes no?

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btw, she is an ex gf, don't think she's available at the moment.

 

[simontim]

Yeah but jag don't you think he should go to a South american country and have a 2 week sexual fiesta with many beautiful young girls for the cost of one of them there plasma TV's or a 1985 Toyota Cressida first?

Theres a lot of pussy down there, and youre gonna pay for it one way or another so why not just head south for a week or two, rather than get it on with a dude.

If he won't listen to me maybe he'll listen to you.
Dude you could bang a chic like this for 50 bucks:
imagine looking down and seeing that face wrapped around your dick, better than some dudes no?

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btw, she is an ex gf, don't think she's available at the moment.

wise you are in the ways of lust

 

[STDiva]

42 year old men say bromance??

 

[mrtrebus]

hi, my name is shawn age 42

i've only been with 3 women in my life and the last one was in 1995.

i recently got into good shape thanks to some steroids and a personal trainer.
to make a long story short, my personal trainer is gay and 24 and very good looking.

so should i fuck him? i mean he's gay and would let me hit it, probably, he buys me dinner and shoes so it's like a bromance allready.

yes, i know it's a weird situation, i've never had gay sex before, but at this point in my life, beggars can't be choosers

I'm mostly curious about similar situations but feel free to **** if that turns your crank.

Meet me baby,

Cubicle 4
Men's Toilets
Kings Cross Station
London
England

 

[digdiggler]

If ur thinking about it ur already gay. No sex since 1995!!!! **** man pay for it. It's 2010, whatever ur doing wrong please fix it. It makin u gay.

 

[roronoa3000]

This thread is gay.

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[ICanHasLogin]

"What Happened When I Went Undercover at a Christian Gay-to-Straight Conversion Camp"

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[Shifty]

Meet me baby,

Cubicle 4
Men's Toilets
Kings Cross Station
London
England

Don't waste your time. He never shows up.

 

[oscabares]

If he bought you shoes... you have to hit him in compensation, c'mon men! you own him!
Your idea of romance is far more strange than your need to justify you are as gay as your trainer.

 

[coleman_stoops]

If you're still unsure, try getting a broom handle, coating it with rancid shortening, and shoving it up your ass. If you like it, then you're in business. If not, well...time to re-evaluate.

 

[meesterperfect]

If you're still unsure, try getting a broom handle, coating it with rancid shortening, and shoving it up your ass. If you like it, then you're in business. If not, well...time to re-evaluate.

Hey hey hey, thats not nice.
You know a fellow could get hurt that way.
you don't want to see anybody get hurt now do you?

 

[KimoraKlein]

I'm surprised at how tame these replies have been. But honey, as much as I love FreeOnes...

this is NOT the place to be asking.

 

[meesterperfect]

I actually gave him sound advice.
Go to south America and have a sexual fiesta with many beautiful young women.
Fuck do it every few months, don't cost much.

But he seems to have his butt set on the idea of being with a dude, so what can you do.