42 year old man thinking about going gay

[biomech]

:rofl: This is classic, great stuff.
On serious note, if it makes you happy then do it. Go gay it up my friend.Good luck to you.:hatsoff:

 

[PirateKing]

Are we supposed to talk you out of it or something? You are what you are.

Yarrrr! Plunder that booty!

and remember to use lube. :hatsoff:

 

[pete rose]

I read somewhere, that often, when you think "should I/should I not" it actually means you should. So I guess Pete was right, you're probably already gay.

My advice is, try it out, because In that moment where it's just you and him...all alone in that dimly lit room, and you're about to have, let's say, fill the hole, the decision you should take will become very clear.

In short, either you'll screw him, or you'll get the hell out of there AFAP. So I say go for it...bro!

PS: yeah, I do hope you're the giver mate :/

I don't know, he may even be bisexual. There's no shame in this. If you're attracted to men, then you're attracted to men. It's not a big deal.

I say do what you want to do. You Might not even enjoy it, but at least you can say you've seen both sides.

 

[ICanHasLogin]

 

[lurkingdirk]

Be gay, but fully embrace it. Sing songs about feeling pretty, start wearing mascara, and use a lisp when speaking.

No? Oh, that's right. Not all gay men exactly fit the stereo types.

Enjoy your life, be what you have to be. Odds are good you already know what that is. I hope you are able to be yourself and be happy.

 

[LukeEl]

Whatever makes you happy there captain.

 

[simontim]

i guess i'm worried about not being able to hide the fact i'm gay once i've removed all doubt and gone through with it

i actually thought you guys would flame me much worse

obviously, if i can't handle your criticism, then i couldn't make it in the real world either

ok, maybe i want to be the taker not the giver

does that make me a bad person?

hasn't anyone else gone through this?

 

[Ulysses31]

i guess i'm worried about not being able to hide the fact i'm gay once i've removed all doubt and gone through with it

i actually thought you guys would flame me much worse

obviously, if i can't handle your criticism, then i couldn't make it in the real world either

ok, maybe i want to be the taker not the giver

does that make me a bad person?

hasn't anyone else gone through this?

No we're all pretty normal

 

[lurkingdirk]

If you can't handle the criticism, it's going to be a rough road. But likely one that you'll have to take eventually anyway.

And don't let people here give you crap about being giver or taker.

Your family and friends will get over it. Almost all of them. Eventually.
That doesn't sound great, right? It will be rough. But when it's done, you're not hiding anymore, and the people still standing beside you are the ones who love you, no matter what. And there will be some who do.

Cheers man. You're in a tough spot.

 

[GregCentauro]

Gertrude Stein once said: "A hole is a hole is a hole." And I think she's right.

 

[simontim]

you guys are pretty cool
thanks!

 

[lurkingdirk]

Gertrude Stein once said: "A hole is a hole is a hole." And I think she's right.

Did you have a preference? 'Cause at least one of yours is going to be violated when I get there tonight. I'm hoping for ear.

 

[simontim]

haha
i don't think your dik will fit in my ear

 

[Hot Mega]

Any man who would consider that..isn't thinking of "going gay"..you already are and were just waiting for the opportunity/excuse to come out.

Might explain the 3 women. Straight men don't think of going gay because of a dry spell.

 

[pornophile]

i guess i'm worried about not being able to hide the fact i'm gay once i've removed all doubt and gone through with it

i actually thought you guys would flame me much worse

obviously, if i can't handle your criticism, then i couldn't make it in the real world either

ok, maybe i want to be the taker not the giver

does that make me a bad person?

hasn't anyone else gone through this?

Nah, we're good people here. We wouldn't ridicule you too much. Besides, I think we have some closet gays and even a pedophile on this forum, not gonna give any names away. But are you attracted to men only? Do you still look at women, even through porn? Maybe you just might be bisexual.

Anyway, feel free to tell us how your gay date went.

 

[PirateKing]

haha
i don't think your dik will fit in my ear

You'd be surprised.

 

[lurkingdirk]

haha
i don't think your dik will fit in my ear

You'd be surprised.

It does take a lot of lube and patience, and you can't care a lot about your ear drum, but it's amazing.

Okay, see that? I'm being stupid. Others will too. We're not making fun of you, even if it seems like it. We're just trying to be fun and silly.

Now, lay on your side. Show me the ear you like best.

 

[Jagger69]

I admire your willingness to come out of the closet (especially here on Freeones!) :eek: That takes a lot of courage....you put a big bullseye on yourself when you made this thread! :hatsoff:

I can't take issue with you about this if it is really what you want to do. To each his own. I would also agree with prior posts that contend if you are thinking about it (seriously, that is) you are probably already there. Perhaps you are just having a difficult time accepting who you think you are.

I assume you aren't married. If not and no one else gets hurt, do whatever your heart tells you. Just because I can't relate to it doesn't mean it isn't OK for others to feel differently. There are lots of heterosexual fetishes and fixations that I don't get either so what the hell is the difference? :dunno:

I hope you find happiness no matter what you decide. :thumbsup:

 

[PirateKing]

It does take a lot of lube and patience, and you can't care a lot about your ear drum, but it's amazing.

Okay, see that? I'm being stupid. Others will too. We're not making fun of you, even if it seems like it. We're just trying to be fun and silly.

Now, lay on your side. Show me the ear you like best.

Say goodbye to your cochlea and hello to the cock.

 

[simontim]

I admire your willingness to come out of the closet (especially here on Freeones!) :eek: That takes a lot of courage....you put a big bullseye on yourself when you made this thread! :hatsoff:

I can't take issue with you about this if it is really what you want to do. To each his own. I would also agree with prior posts that contend if you are thinking about it (seriously, that is) you are probably already there. Perhaps you are just having a difficult time accepting who you think you are.

I assume you aren't married. If not and no one else gets hurt, do whatever your heart tells you. Just because I can't relate to it doesn't mean it isn't OK for others to feel differently. There are lots of heterosexual fetishes and fixations that I don't get either so what the hell is the difference? :dunno:

I hope you find happiness no matter what you decide. :thumbsup:

thank you