42 year old man thinking about going gay

[simontim]

hi, my name is shawn age 42

i've only been with 3 women in my life and the last one was in 1995.

i recently got into good shape thanks to some steroids and a personal trainer.
to make a long story short, my personal trainer is gay and 24 and very good looking.

so should i fuck him? i mean he's gay and would let me hit it, probably, he buys me dinner and shoes so it's like a bromance allready.

yes, i know it's a weird situation, i've never had gay sex before, but at this point in my life, beggars can't be choosers

I'm mostly curious about similar situations but feel free to hate if that turns your crank.

 

[Shifty]

 

[simontim]

what does that mean?

 

[Shifty]

It's not an insult. I'm just waiting for posts.

 

[Ace Bandage]

This probably isn't the best place to ask for advice on a topic like this. It's nothing against you, it's just that this a predominantly straight board. Hell, there are boobs on the main page and lists of hot women / galleries. All you're going to hear from the posters here is derision and off-color humor. Don't say I didn't warn you...

 

[meesterperfect]

what kind of roids did you do?

but before you go gay maybe take a vacation to a south american country a few times a year.
a few grand gets you some serious pussy for a week or two.
I'm talking beautiful young women.
college girls even.
Chicks that while youre fucking them youre thinking "wow, i can't believe I'm fucking such a hot girl".
That is unless of course you've got your mind set on this gay thing.

Bromance?
Oh man i hope that term doesn't catch on.
please, nobody repeat it , ever.

 

[DJCowboy]

Do you think you're gay or bi? When was the last time you even tried to go out and have a conversation with a woman? Go hit the town, get some drinks and see where it goes! Gay guys can be good wingmen for straight guys to pick up girls

Bromance?
Oh man i hope that term doesn't catch on.
please, nobody repeat it , ever.

Unfortunately for you, it has been around for a couple years now

 

[BlueBalls]

Well, if you've given it enough thought to even consider doing it then why not. You seem to have no reservations about it, so all I'd say is get as much willing hole as you can before it drops off you dirty sinner!

 

[Smallville417]

Go with what you feel, it's your life.

 

[pete rose]

You're already gay.

 

[Smallville417]

You're already gay.

Agreed, if his feelings are that strong, he is already there.

 

[meesterperfect]

You're already gay.

Thats really all there is to say I suppose.
Nice call Pete.

 

[PlasmaTwa2]

He buys you dinner and shoes? Are you sure your name is Shawn? I'm pretty sure it's actually Anna Nicole...

 

[Ulysses31]

If you can feel that way and not be disgusted in yourself than you obviously prefer the other sex, but are u sure u want 2 mix business with pleasure or the possibility that u might ruin ur friendship? ps Ur only 42, not 72 as u seem to have resigned urself to.

 

[jod0565]

Go for it, just wrap that bacon.

 

[316sherm]

:dunno:Just as long as you are the "giver" and not the "receiver".:rofl:

 

[sualcalay]

I read somewhere, that often, when you think "should I/should I not" it actually means you should. So I guess Pete was right, you're probably already gay.

My advice is, try it out, because In that moment where it's just you and him...all alone in that dimly lit room, and you're about to have, let's say, fill the hole, the decision you should take will become very clear.

In short, either you'll screw him, or you'll get the hell out of there AFAP. So I say go for it...bro!

PS: yeah, I do hope you're the giver mate :/

 

[Red Spyder]

I guess if you can think about having sex with a person of your own sex without feeling nauseous, you're gay or curious, or you're bikecurious

 

[Peter Gazinya]

Let me ask you this: Does your decision really depend on what people say here?

And by the way, I smell something...it's....it's...(sniff, sniff)... I think it's bullshit. But I could be wrong. I'm only certain that I don't care.

 

[LaLiLuLeLohan]

Your gay personal trainer bought you shoes and you're "thinking" of going gay?? Ummm, buddy, you're already plenty gay. Enjoy it I guess.