How many of the girls I come across at any given bar or club would be a virgin like me? I think I have better chances of buying a lotto ticket. My point being, it will not only be awkward, it may never happen. Of course, I won't volunteer my secret, but I think any chick with experience in the bed will figure that out. Then what? She thinks, why is this dude 30 and still a virgin? Then she'll most likely lose her interest and take off... Of course, I could just get fucked up and then bang the fattest and ugliest chick I can find. It will be memorable, but I might be fucked up in the head for some time to come.
*Insert sound of baby crying for its milk bottle*
Why do all these people who have yet to have sex treat it like it like the most important aspect of their life?
If you meet a girl at a bar and sex is the first thing on your mind then you are rightly doomed to failure. What is wrong with meeting a girl, getting to know a girl and in turn beginning a physical relationship when both parties are ready for it? If you are open and honest about it and you both trust each other, what shame is there in her finding out?
Sex with one girl is likely to be entirely different with another girl, so fact you are a virgin is something being blown tragically out of proportion. Its not a damn disability, you don't get stickers for your car and priority parking at the airport.
Everyone starts off as a virgin funnily enough, dress up whatever excuses you have for staying one, but don't act like a special case to the ladies because of it.
"Oh they will lose interest" Why? I think you underestimate the maturity of women at 30 years old.
This thread really doesn't need to exist because there is no problem here.