hey, guys...it's been ages been on here...i feel like it...but anyways...i recently got a girlfriend...lucky me...she lives in a different state, you guys think it's too soon to visit her? or should i test her and see if she's worth it? cuz relationships are like cars...i gotta test drive the thing to see if i like it and see if it's the right fit for me and dependable and not break down on me...any advice in what i should do?
advice on moving too fast? or not?
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for me, you should visit her because of the fact that she is already your gf.. for sure she misses you now.. take care..
I think we need more info here.. did you meet online? Have you met her in person ever?
If she is your "girlfriend", they absolutely go visit. Otherwise she's more of a pen pal, it would seem to me. If the relationship can't advance without you physically meeting, I would say it's not right for you.
If she is your "girlfriend", they absolutely go visit. Otherwise she's more of a pen pal, it would seem to me. If the relationship can't advance without you physically meeting, I would say it's not right for you.
Will E Worm
Conspiracy...
If you call her your girlfriend then why not go see her or have her make the trip to see you?
I'd rather not have my girlfriend living in another state.
I'd rather not have my girlfriend living in another state.
Long distance relationships rarely work. But I would go see her if you are close enough to consider her your girlfriend.
If you want our help, yg, you gotta give something to us. A little "raw meat" so to speak. Describe your GF--body, job, etc. Have you messed around already and if so, what is she good at? If it's an online relationship...how do you consider her a GF without having actually met in person?
As for your sitch---of course you need to go visit her! Put in some effort! Show her you like being her boyfriend. With gas prices back to "normal" range, make the trip now while it won't break your bank.
As for your sitch---of course you need to go visit her! Put in some effort! Show her you like being her boyfriend. With gas prices back to "normal" range, make the trip now while it won't break your bank.
ChefChiTown
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I'm assuming you met online...:dunno:
If you did, I would check with her and make sure she really wants to meet you. If you two actually know eachother and have met before, then I would go see her. It's your girlfriend, you know?
Another thing if you met her online too, is make sure she is who she says she is. Make sure she isn't a dude, and even worse, a dude that is some sort of psycho ********. I'd be careful if this is just an online relationship.
^^^ or even much worse than that: a dude that you think is a lady
Of course that might be a possibility, hopefully you've had some contact other than on the net but if you havent I think phoning before hand is your safest option.
......the Supreme Court of Freeones hereby request more information pertinent to the case before we offer a judgement .:thumbsup:
Call her or email her and make sure she wants you to come by. If she wants you to be there then your all set.
However... there are rules for the road:
1. Make sure you have PLENTY of money for food, date, gas, & general entertainment.
2. No matter what she says... GET A HOTEL ROOM!!!
(incase things go bad, you already have a place to stay)
3. Meet her at a neutral place, preferably one you can find.
(incase neither of you are what you each expect, even if you've had extensive phone forplay)
The rest will be up to you. :thumbsup:
....and yeah, this is a "been there, done that" situation I've ALREADY had.
However... there are rules for the road:
1. Make sure you have PLENTY of money for food, date, gas, & general entertainment.
2. No matter what she says... GET A HOTEL ROOM!!!
(incase things go bad, you already have a place to stay)
3. Meet her at a neutral place, preferably one you can find.
(incase neither of you are what you each expect, even if you've had extensive phone forplay)
The rest will be up to you. :thumbsup:
....and yeah, this is a "been there, done that" situation I've ALREADY had.
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i am so confused. i mean, if she is your "girlfriend" why not visit her. last i checked, that's what girlfriends are for - someone to be with. if you haven't spent time with her, you cannot consider her your girlfriend, more like an acquaintance.
just by asking that question, i don't think you two are that close. but how can you get to know her better if you aren't with her in the flesh? did you ask her if she wants you to go to her place? that's where i would start.
just by asking that question, i don't think you two are that close. but how can you get to know her better if you aren't with her in the flesh? did you ask her if she wants you to go to her place? that's where i would start.
thanks guys i really appreciate all the answers...we'll i just wanted someone's insight...yup, we met online...and i got her number...we're already talking...and i pretty much made up my mind...i just wanna be sure...that's all, and she is who she says she is
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