hey, guys...it's been ages been on here...i feel like it...but anyways...i recently got a girlfriend...lucky me...she lives in a different state, you guys think it's too soon to visit her? or should i test her and see if she's worth it? cuz relationships are like cars...i gotta test drive the thing to see if i like it and see if it's the right fit for me and dependable and not break down on me...any advice in what i should do?