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What? All I'm saying is guys going around having all these high standards for whats sexy, boobs aren't big enough, waist isn't slim enough, they aren't tan enough, makes a lot of girls feel like shit.. that is all.
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What? All I'm saying is guys going around having all these high standards for whats sexy, boobs aren't big enough, waist isn't slim enough, they aren't tan enough, makes a lot of girls feel like shit.. that is all.
squallumz
knows petras secret: she farted.
some do. not all.
Wait... are we talking run-of-the-mill porn stars or the "top shelf" girls? Because really, the majority of adult stars are not anything that great... but we al tend to focus on the mega-stars, who are usually pretty hot.
ChefChiTown
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I'm not trying to say that women don't feel pressure, but...in a man's eyes, women have high standards and do the same thing to men too.
Guys are ALWAYS insecure about their penis size, muscles, "looks", etc.
In all reality, it's all shallow, superficial, vain, self-absorbed, meaningless bullshit that nobody truly cares about.
it's a pretty simple equation, observation influences perception. Influences, but doesn't necessarily
dictate.
people are very adaptable, that's part of our evolutionary biology. which is to say that we get used to things very easily.
it's the chicken in the egg scenario when it comes to violence. society is violent, so we have violent media which exposes people to more violence, ad infititum. substitute sex, anything, you'd get the same results.
we all know sex sells. media and advertisements shape people into the forms they express. not everyone becomes that way, but enough people are subconsciously conditioned that some of them do- just enough to keep it growing or rising.
also posting the way that you (and women in general acting like porn stars) do could lead men to that conclusion. I'm not saying it's bad or wrong, just what it is.
dictate.
people are very adaptable, that's part of our evolutionary biology. which is to say that we get used to things very easily.
it's the chicken in the egg scenario when it comes to violence. society is violent, so we have violent media which exposes people to more violence, ad infititum. substitute sex, anything, you'd get the same results.
we all know sex sells. media and advertisements shape people into the forms they express. not everyone becomes that way, but enough people are subconsciously conditioned that some of them do- just enough to keep it growing or rising.
also posting the way that you (and women in general acting like porn stars) do could lead men to that conclusion. I'm not saying it's bad or wrong, just what it is.
I don't think there is anything wrong with people being attracted to beauty, whatever that might mean to them. Most women don't like some small, smelly, dork as much as a nice looking guy for instance. I think the problem is when too much emphasis is placed on something that shouldn't be important enough to be an all encompassing factor when it comes to a person. In the overall scheme of things it's not the most important thing, and people shouldn’t feel bad if they don't have it. One also shouldn't put too much emphasis on what others think. Not being beautiful is far from what makes somebody a worthless person. However there is nothing wrong with being beautiful or people likening that. Some people are lucky and are born with it and some aren't. Such it is with many things in life. I appreciate it for what it is.
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What about when you actually FEEL beautiful, but hearing over and over you don't have something, that you are ugly or not good enough, it does get to people after a while, expecially females. We feel if we are not perfect we aren't good enough. I mean me personally, I love myself and love how I look, but I'm just talking about the generalzation of how guys state women should look.
ChefChiTown
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First of all, not all guys are huge, shallow jerks like you're kind of assuming.
Second of all, men have the same exact standards to live up to. It works both ways.
Third of all...
This can all be blamed on society. Society makes it seem like women have these unrealistic standards that they have to live up to. Society makes it seem like 100% of men won't love a woman unless she is absolutely perfect looking. None of that is true.
The reality is that most guys are actually good people and don't really give a fuck how women look. Personally, looks aren't important at all. You could be the "hottest" girl to ever walk the face of the earth, but if you're not smart, funny, caring, honest, etc...I want nothing to do with you.
They need to learn not to care what those other people think especially if they feel good about themselves. If other people feel that way, they're not worth their time. Some people out there will think the same as they do and will deserve the attention that is given to them. If a person is doing nothing wrong, why should they even care about others that ridicule them. There are people out there that deserve them more.
I think the problem is entirely gender relations. I think a big part of it has to do with the fact that women have babies whereas men just feel like they are the "sperm donors". that's a statement taken right off of this board. men are physically stronger, they are the hunters and the warriors. So people got this notion in their heads like about that women are the creators of life and men are the destroyers.
We don't have those roles anymore in our society, but the values still carry on to the superficial extreme. It all boils down to just sex and everyone is really hung up about it, feeling inadequate and having these standards of beauty or of strength.
women are judged by who they are and men are judged by what they do. they both have unrealistic and unhealthy images they are pressured to live up to. it's really the same thing.
We don't have those roles anymore in our society, but the values still carry on to the superficial extreme. It all boils down to just sex and everyone is really hung up about it, feeling inadequate and having these standards of beauty or of strength.
women are judged by who they are and men are judged by what they do. they both have unrealistic and unhealthy images they are pressured to live up to. it's really the same thing.
listen, as long as a girl can deepthroat and go for some anal, and maybe a threesome every once and awhile she's straight.
oh she needs to know how to cook! that's something most women forgot how to do! you'd be surprised how many men you can catch with this single ability, even if you're butt ugly!
oh she needs to know how to cook! that's something most women forgot how to do! you'd be surprised how many men you can catch with this single ability, even if you're butt ugly!
cuz we have a hard time seperating fantasy from reality......
well.... at least i do....... *shrug*
I just want the girl to love sex as much as I do.
ChefChiTown
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The word weiner?
I'm a 26 year old man and it still makes me giggle.
You've seen me out and about, huh?
that's probably a little true (OP's post that is, too drunk to read all the replies)
although beauty really comes from the inside, at least a major part of it.
I could fuck around with pornstars, but in the end real beauty is when a girl you love smiles at you and you realize you both feel the same thing
cheesy i know, but it's true nevertheless
although beauty really comes from the inside, at least a major part of it.
I could fuck around with pornstars, but in the end real beauty is when a girl you love smiles at you and you realize you both feel the same thing
cheesy i know, but it's true nevertheless
I do sometimes, I look for a pretty girl. She doesn't have to be perfect. I want someone who is able to run and take care of there body though. I love running and will for many years. I look for the minor things though. I need someone who is definitly more laid back like me and doesn't worry about drama. I know thats alot to expect from a girl becuase most of them seem to love to drama. I want a girl/tomboy kind of girl. They look like a girl, but they love paintball, biking, wakeboarding, snowboarding or anything outside. I don't want to have them being a tomboy, but not to girly they can't do anything.
I don't think I personally could date a pornstar though. They are very attractive and good at sexual things from what i've seen. I don't want a chick who is way out of my league like that. I want someone I can relate to and not worry about going out.
I don't think I personally could date a pornstar though. They are very attractive and good at sexual things from what i've seen. I don't want a chick who is way out of my league like that. I want someone I can relate to and not worry about going out.
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Marry them. They get over it. :crying:
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