You fell in love with a prostitute/pornstar...

[Vanilla Bear]

Let's pretend you're on a date with a hot girl. Or you've already fallen in love with her.

Now she tells you she's a prostitute or doing porn.

Would you still want to be with her? Would you want her to quit?


Probably been asked before, but it just came to my mind. :o

 

[Pattheprovo]

Your fucked.

 

[DOA82]

Your fucked.

What exactly does that mean?

 

[Pattheprovo]

You have already fallen in love with her. What if she is happy with her career choice. So either get used to it or lump it. Not a position I would envy, this is such a hot topic. I mean not all prostitutes or pornstars are misfortunate individuals getting used blah blah yadda yadda.

I mean fuck if your a high class escort you probably make a right bit of dough, different story if you ain't, You gotta fuck alot of John's. Pornstar that get big too make an awful lot of dough from well the act of fucking. There are alot shitter ways to make your money on the planet.

But to be actually comfortable enough with that, Perhaps I am just a ordinary bloke who isn't comfortable with the sharing aspect?

 

[cosgrove2nice]

Let's pretend you're on a date with a hot girl. Or you're already fell in love with her.

is she also in love with you? how long has the relationship been going?

 

[ApolloBalboa]

I'd probably still want to be with her. If my feelings for her were that deeply developed already, I think I'd want to be mature to allow them to continue rather than hurt her or myself because of her career choice. I'd only want her to be safe (i.e. condoms and making sure to be tested and stuff) and continue a an emotional relationship with me and only me.

I don't know, I can't imagine I'll ever be faced with a situation like this, so I'm just guessing how I think (and how I'd want) to act, ideally.

 

[L3ggy]

I did? When did I do that?

 

[Mr. Hyde]

Love is love...if I loved her, there's not a lot she could do that would make me stop loving her.

Also, your post presumes that those are bad things. They're not.

I could be in love with a porn star and deal with her continuing to work.

Prostitute? I think I could deal with that too.

Love is love...if I really loved her and those were things that she wanted to do, ok.

 

[~~whimsy~~]

I did? When did I do that?

When you met me, big boy.

 

[Jack Davenport]

You go to Disney World?

 

[Ace Bandage]

That would mean that she was deceitful. Unfortunately, I'm afraid I'd have to kill her for that.

Gator don't play no shit.

 

[~~whimsy~~]

^^^ I cheat on you all the time. ^^^

 

[Ace Bandage]

^^^ I cheat on you all the time. ^^^

We broke up, remember.

 

[Jack Davenport]

I have never dated anyone in the pr0n business but I can guarantee that if I or anyone here did you wouldn't be in the relationship long enough to fall in love without knowing about her career. I was introduced to a woman by mutual friends a couple of years ago that was a stripper. My friends thought that it would be a good idea as well as I that I didn't mention to her that I knew what she did for a living. 30 minutes into the date she was telling me all about her job.." the 'asshole management" at her club and other tawdry details. So much for trying to keep it a secret.

 

[RichardNailder]

How the hell did you know? Fuck - I married the bitch before I found out.

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

If you made it to the 'love' stage of a relationship without her being upfront about what she does for a living, then she's not worth being with in the first place.

 

[~~whimsy~~]

We broke up, remember.

We didn't break up. I just stopped taking your phone calls. I was... at work, working overtime.

Not my fault you don't know what I do in my life. You say you love me, but you really don't. I'm just your trophy in life.

I don't need this. I'm going to STDiva. He knows how to treat me right. You just used me.

 

[Rey C.]

I used to be a banker. Who am I to judge? :dunno:

 

[grower_boy]

I feel like there is a big difference between a pure pornstar and someone who does prostituting. Pornstars work with professionals and I would feel comfortable dating one, especially since it's a fantasy of mine anyway. :o

 

[Vanilla Bear]

Okay maybe love was a too big of a word. I mean if you have a crush on a girl.